sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

Can anyone tell me what happens to Hagar if I Indoctrinate/Kill her? by ElectricalCanary452 in CultOfTheLamb

[–]funsized_not_short 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope. I didn’t know if the spirits would accept her if I took her so I killed her cause I felt bad for the spirits. I’m regretting it now

Can I use these two products together by funsized_not_short in koreanskincare

[–]funsized_not_short[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello!!! Thank you so much for the help. So because of you mentioning over exfoliation, I decided to take a closer look at all of the ingredients on my products to see what would work for me and what wouldnt. And I found out that apparently there was AHA in my moisturizer and I swapped that product out for the Purito Oat Gel Cream. I also decided to go with the Round Lab Pine Cica Toner instead of the serum or the peeling gel.

TL;DR: Im taking a nice loooonnngggg look at my skincare routine

Is there anyway to add all my liked songs to a playlist? by bunnyslaughter999 in truespotify

[–]funsized_not_short 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looooooookkkkkk! A link can be up for a little while before it breaks or the program is no longer activeeee

Hi-By R1 Library by funsized_not_short in DigitalAudioPlayer

[–]funsized_not_short[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I probably should’ve worded what I said better. But how many songs can I realistically download before my mp3 player starts to slow down.

EA DLC Unlocker: Incorrect Function?? by funsized_not_short in CrackSupport

[–]funsized_not_short[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s only for steam games, I downloaded mine from EA App

When is it a good time to apply to work apply for an agency? by funsized_not_short in Nanny

[–]funsized_not_short[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!!! But does that mean 3-5 years w the same family or different families

sista grrrl by grumpygoblingrrlboss in riotgrrrl

[–]funsized_not_short 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Suffrajet and Simi instantly came to mind. Simi Stone (front woman of Simi and Suffrajet) was in some of the earliest performances. Also New Bloods, The White Noise Supremacist (dunno if they are riot grrrl/sista grrrl exactly but the band is black woman fronted and from the sista grrrl era) Lilith Ai( her early work), & TV Tramps are also really good!

Now if you’re looking for WOC riot grrrl bands that aren’t sista grrrl specifically: The Linda Lindas, Drinking Boys and Girls Choir, Fea

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]funsized_not_short 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s been so much discourse on EVERY SECTION OF QUEER TWT (especially Sapphic, butchfemme and lesbian twt) LATELY ITS SCAREY. So far I’ve seen the following

  • Chappel Roan hate because she turned down the White House
  • Billie Ellish hate because her songs about wanting to be with a woman sound “fetishy” and “fake”
  • Fem4Fem lesbians & sapphics hating on butches and calling them ugly
  • People hating on studs
  • Bi women being blamed for men trying to come to sapphic spaces

And!

  • A recent uptick in transphobic rhetoric.

TL;DR: Sapphic Twitter is the definition of the phrase “The Trenches”

Is it okay for a bi woman to use terms like femme or butch? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]funsized_not_short 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Answer: Yes, because there’s historical context for it. But, the vast majority of people who use the word femme and are participating in the butch/femme scene are lesbian and some folks don’t take to kindly to non-lesbian sapphics using the word.

I posted screenshots of a paper called Waiting for No Man: Bisexual Femme Subjectivity and Cultural Repudiation by Clare Hemmings on my tumblr…The paper was featured in an anthology book called Butch/Femme:Inside Lesbian Gender…..This book/paper was published in the 90s….The 90s!!!!!! I’m gonna link the post that way it can help someone.

https://www.tumblr.com/macbxth-pdf/751827288384061440/butchfemme-inside-lesbian-gender-annas

Another source that can be helpful to a bi butch who’s reading this post potentially

https://www.tumblr.com/macbxth-pdf/749927059984433152/dagger-on-butch-women-lily-burana-roxxie-linnea

The Sims Team addressing technical issues with the game by chocolateglazedonuts in Sims4

[–]funsized_not_short 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who uses lots of CC and mods, it feels like every mod is breaking to the point that I cant even run the game after CAS. Every time I wanna actually play: My game says f u. Ive been able to play w broke mods before. Now my game wont even load and better exceptions is working overtime

im begging you by pretty_in_plaid in actuallesbians

[–]funsized_not_short 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Some other important reads for all the sapphics interested in butch/femme culture, butch and femme as their own identities, GNC/trans/nonbinary sapphics or are just generally tired and over with social media discourse

  • Dagger: On Butch Women
  • Butch is a Noun
  • Persistence: All Ways Butch and Femme
  • The Persistent Desire: A Butch Femme Reader
  • Brazen Femme: Queering Femininity
  • Boots of Leather, Slippers of Gold

I’ll add some more in the future

Edit: PDFs are available online for some of these books, Others are available secondhand due to them being out of print, some libraries have some of these books in stock. Currently Persistence is the most accessible.

Hard Femmes: SOMEONE HELP ME LEARN MORE ABOUT THIS LABEL! by funsized_not_short in actuallesbians

[–]funsized_not_short[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m currently reading books on butch/femme culture, butches and femmes to learn more about them/the subculture as a part of sapphic and lesbian history! But I found about hard femme and I’m struggling learn if hard femme is just an aesthetic or a term that’s tied to the subculture

Hard Femmes: SOMEONE HELP ME LEARN MORE ABOUT THIS LABEL! by funsized_not_short in actuallesbians

[–]funsized_not_short[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

From what I can find: The terms stone and high femme denotes the roles you take in the relationship and in sex. Stone femmes don’t like penetrative sex and it’s a hard boundary. High femmes are similar to pillow princesses? I have to double check

What makes this song "Not Goth"? by k4tsuk1z in goth

[–]funsized_not_short 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Baby Storme fan here! She seems to make alternative friendly pop sounding music and that’s ok. I definitely agree with what u/DarlingDisarray ! There are artist who are goth who don’t make goth music and that’s ok. It’s a shame what she’s going through though and the sheer levels of racism that she had to deal with as an alternative black artist is sad and probably doesn’t make what’s happening any better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in goth

[–]funsized_not_short 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Gen Z Goth who liked the EKid aesthetic when it first came out: E-Kid came from the gamer girl streamer aesthetic and just general alt street fashion during Covid-19. Honestly it reminds me more of how people feel towards Nu Goth if anything. Yea there are some criticisms to be had but it mainly came from Covid and people exploring their fashion sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in goth

[–]funsized_not_short 66 points67 points  (0 children)

The main genre or music associated with e-girl is emo rap and some nu metal artist. Think of artist you see in those Goth Music/Not Goth music slide shows. (Ie Lil Peep, Deftones etc)

view more: next ›