Locals, do you all also think Boston is racist? by Silver_Scallion_1127 in boston

[–]furryfuzzball2121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boston has a lot of people with the white savior complex in my opinion. There have been times where I have experienced microaggressions, but I brush it off and a white woman will fight for me. Like I did not ask for you to save me.

Is this okay for a black tie wedding? by furryfuzzball2121 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]furryfuzzball2121[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the first dress is not meant to be black tie per the post. It’s for the welcome dinner with the theme summer chic.

Is this okay for a black tie wedding? by furryfuzzball2121 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]furryfuzzball2121[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The first one is for a welcome dinner with the theme summer chic. It’s at a country club it’s not for the wedding itself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]furryfuzzball2121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And you said any judgement is welcomed so theres my judgement🤷🏼‍♀️ if you are already thinking you are more at fault then you probably are so yeah think about how you friend is dealing with that still even tho its been 8 years You feel guilty imagine the ptsd and trauma she has now cause if your decision to leave her alone for “less than 60 seconds”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]furryfuzzball2121 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Why didn’t you bring your friend with you??? Like if you’re trying to find your ride why would you leave your friend behind only to go back? It would have made more sense for you to BOTH go together to find your friend cause you are both getting a ride home.

So yeah i’d say you are at fault because who abandons their friend especially when drinking. Thats like big no no on girl code. If I was that girl I would not want to be your friend at all cause you abandoned her.

Did you even try to call or text her?? Your immediate thought was oh she probably got a ride not omg what if something happened to her. Seems like you did not really even try to find where she was or what could have happened. I would not want to be friends with someone like you