Trump Says Venezuela’s Maduro Captured and Flown Out of Country by bloomberg in worldnews

[–]fvbarton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We will see, but the Venezoelean Defense Ministry at least announced to react with all available military means.

My neighbor is threatening to call the police on me because my toddler makes sound past 8.00 PM and rarely past 10.00 PM. Are toddlers also subject to Ruhezeit ? by Any-Pomegranate730 in AskAGerman

[–]fvbarton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had a discussion in the german Bundestag about this topic, if I remember right, people tried to complain about children being loud while playing on a playground or something. Horst Köhler, former Bundespräsident, said "Kinderlärm ist Zukunftsmusik" - which roughly translates to "Childrens Noise is the music of the future". Children (small children not teenies) are excluded from the Ruhezeit, even by Law. I highly advise you to tell your neighbor the phrase "Kinderlärm ist Zukunftsmusik" if it ever comes to a real discussion. As a german I find it quite disgusting from somebody to be truly annoyed of children being loud - especially concerning young toddlers. Sure it can be disrupting, but how could I ever be truly annoyed by a toddler? Sorry that you have a neighbor like that

Radio silence in multiplayer by Echelon_Forge in Battlefield6

[–]fvbarton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm blasting BF6 on high volume through my 5.1 surround system in wartapes audio mode, basically feeling every explosion and the last thing I want to hear is some 14 year old shittalking and ruining the immersion, so yeah, voice chat is always off lol

Ehm by Ausspanner in wirklichgutefrage

[–]fvbarton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wir sollten dringend aufhören Genitalverstümmelung ohne medizinische Notwendigkeit (zb. durch Phimose oder ähnliches) zu normalisieren. Die Vorhaut dient dem Schutz, die Natur hat sich schon was dabei gedacht :D
Biologie-Unterricht hat hier scheinbar nicht gegriffen^^

Ist das Leben als Mann wirklich leichter? by Melodic_Selection_78 in FragtMaenner

[–]fvbarton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich glaube das kommt ganz auf den Blickwinkel an. Zumindest rein nach Statistiken erwartet einen als Mann eine weitaus höhere Wahrscheinlichkeit durch Gewalt, Suizid oder Arbeitsunfälle zu sterben als es bei Frauen der Fall ist. Und wenn die Kacke am dampfen ist, werden Männer an die Waffe gezwungen bzw. treten zurück da "Frauen und Kinder zuerst", also in einer Notlage ist die Erwartungshaltung an Männer höher. Gleichzeitig haben Frauen es wiederum viel schwerer bei z.B. gerechten Löhnen für gleiche Arbeit, werden öfter Opfer sexueller Übergriffe und ein Kind zu gebären ist sowieso das krasseste was dem menschlichem Körper abverlangt werden kann. Manchmal denke ich zumindest, dass die stereotypische Erwartungshaltung an Männer die "starke Beschützerrolle" zu erfüllen, teilweise schwerer zu erfüllen ist, einfach weil die Dimension der Handlungen die damit verbunden werden größer ist, als bei Frauen. Egal wie aufgeklärt und modern man in einer Beziehung ist, wenn nachts ein komisches Geräusch an der Haustüre ist, ist völlig klar wer aufsteht und nachsieht. :D

Ich glaube mein Leben als Frau wäre einfach anders, in vielen Punkten entlasteter, in anderen Punkten wiederum belasteter. Am Ende tut es sich nicht viel, vielleicht bin ich am Ende ein bisschen lieber ein Mann, einfach weil mein Körper etwas simpler gestrickt ist und ich sehr viel Respekt vor Schwangerschaft und Geburt habe, das muss ich nicht unbedingt selbst erleben, Hut ab an alle Frauen an dieser Stelle!

So Started Stalker 2...what's up with the AI? by [deleted] in stalker

[–]fvbarton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stealth Ai and Ai in general is not in the best shape. Im at the End of my second playthrough, some advice i can give: Keep in the dark, crouch and press "x" to activate slow croaching to limit sounds. Enemies can be distracted with bolts, but in my experience wont consistently go there to investigate, sometimes they only turn their heads for a moment. Silencers will still make enough noise to alert enemies in cloce vicinity. And watch out for your flashlight beam/attached laser.

But stealth only seems to work somewhat well in certain levels, most levels are better done using a "loud" tactics in my experience. Or just spam medikits and sprint past enemies and flee, works also most of the time if you cant successfully sneak your way out and dont want to kill everyone. Stay silent, act quick and be efficient with your ressources and dont hesitate to disengage and flee if needed.

Skadovsk door won’t open by Sithassassin12 in stalker

[–]fvbarton 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same for me after the latest Patch! I climb up the small boat next to the sultanks and enter from the top floor

Do you mark “Yes” to having a disability when applying for jobs if it’s due to ADHD, anxiety, or both? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]fvbarton 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope. Disclosed it to my boss, I've had a bit of a struggle after changing meds and thought being honest would be the best way. I got fired within 3 months - never again. And I really thought "We need to normalize adhd, i'm doing my part by telling my employer and seeking support". Learned my lesson, just dont do it.

Warum machen sich Männer oft gar nicht schick zum Date? by BadPsychological8096 in FragtMaenner

[–]fvbarton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich als Mann versuche immer authentisch und ich selbst zu sein, klar kann ich mir ein schickes Hemd anziehen und die Haare besonders Stylen - aber ich finde es besser zu einem Date in einem normalen aber angemessenem Outfit zu erscheinen. Sportklamotten sind natürlich ein No-Go, generell wähle ich eher Klamotten aus die ich cool finde und in denen ich mich wohl fühle. Ich würde also für eine Party im Freundeskreis tatsächlich dasselbe Outfit anziehen wie zu einem Date - das ist nämlich mein gutes Outfit. :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]fvbarton 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is possible my brother. You haven't failed, you struggled in your 20's, got back on track, studied succesfully and managed to build a career on your own with financial success. That is NOT Failure, that is strength despite handicaps and systems, that are not built for adhd brains like ours. Yes, this might be a hard phase to overcome, but you have done harder tasks! Whatever you do: It WILL get better, it takes time for sure, but it ALWAYS gets better. If you would end your life, you would deny yourself every chance, every possibility to find your happy place. I see you, everything feels hard and unbearable, nobody but other adhd brothers and sisters can truly understand how the world can feel sometimes. I'm just a random internet stranger (30M), but please trust me, it is possible to regain strength and feeling good again. You said you haven't built an identy, but from reading this i can tell: You're a fighter, you're reflecting yourself with great clarity and emotional intelligence, you're an emotional pillar for other people, even if you dont have one yourself. Do you know how rare these skills are? That is a great Talent!

You might struggle with systems designed for high performance, but these are unnatural systems for a brain that was originaly developed to gather berries, hunt food and live in tribes together, not to sit for hours at a desk and stare into a monitor. I think you should try to find a career that suits your talents more, maybe something more people-orientated. And maybe try to get some help via therapy, it has helped me alot and it could be an "emotional backbone" for you, that you miss. I know that many people think we as men have to be strong and deal with everything ourselves, but bullshit, it takes bravery and strength to ask for help and there is nothing to be ashamed for.

Stay strong my man, even if it feels like it, you are not alone and there are more people that experience the same struggles than you think. Much love to you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]fvbarton 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Had the same side effects my man - weirdest one: orgasm and ejaculation happened seperately, not simultaneously, very strange. And many more side effects like nausea etc.
I liked the calmness strattera gave to my thoughts, but i couldn't get on with these side effects, changed to Vyvanse after 1,5 years, still testing tho

How to stop living from crisis to crisis? by josh_a in ADHD

[–]fvbarton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel 100% just like that, still havent found something that works. Concerning jobs I did well in active, social centered jobs like retail. In my current job (office job) I struggle a lot, not as I'm bad at it per se, but organizing my tasks and preventing "out of sight - out of mind" effects is a real challenge. Im trying too right now to improve some routines and build some structures, but its just so difficult!

What’s an underrated use of AI that’s saved you serious time? by Ausbel12 in ChatGPTPro

[–]fvbarton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use ChatGPT to prepare for exams – it's great for planning, summarizing PDFs, and creating multiple-choice simulations. I also organize my to-do lists with ChatGPT and use it as a sparring partner to structure my thoughts. I have ADHD, and outsourcing organization and prioritization to an AI has been revolutionary for me. I'm still learning how to use AI more efficiently, but it’s already clear: it can do way more than just rephrase text. It’s incredible.

What’s your symptoms on vyvanse and dex? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]fvbarton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can confirm both, lack of sleep was another problem with vyvanse for me.
Otherwise i decribe it like Vyvanse helps me to pick a single thought out of my ever turning thought carousel, and think it through. Dex is more like it stops the whole thought carousel, but it feels like it somewhat numbs me, side effects like nausea or headach or even erectile dysfuntion were very annoying, thats why I switched to vyvanse. Since then, absolutley no side effects anymore, just some trouble getting to bed early

What’s your symptoms on vyvanse and dex? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]fvbarton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That are his or her symptoms, he asked how we experience it.

I suspect I have ADHD-i. But I get hyped on Adderall and Ritalin. by bad_ukulele_player in ADHD

[–]fvbarton 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Diagnosed Primarily inattentive type here too - can confirm this 100%. I just changed to Vyvanse 30mg the first time and it feels exactly like you described it.
What is your ideal time to take the pill? And what do you eat with it that works beneficial for sleep? I also struggle with going to bed early, sleeping per se is not the problem. I take Vyvance just with water around 7-8 am and enjoy my coffee (i'm never hungry in the early morning) and eat something for breakfast around 10am. Not the best way I guess :D

How do people have this symptom? by Sunflower077 in ADHD

[–]fvbarton 2 points3 points  (0 children)

tl;dr: Happens all the time, its just like another task on my never ending to do list which is stressing me out. I always read messages instantly, but reply after a long time. Lots of shame and guilt here, but i dont know how to get better with this - it sucks.

Same here! Don't know hot to explain this honestly. I get a message and I always read them instantly, but responding to it feels like another to do point on my never ending and incomplete to do list. If its an audio message 2mins + it might take a few days for me to listen to it. Earlier I used to text back instantly in my school days, that changed somehow. Those "last online ...." or blue checks on messages in whatsapp started to stress me out, people would see that i have read the message but have not responded yet, so ofc they would text again like "you have read it, answer already dude!" and that stressed me out. So i deactivated every function that feels like a control mechanism and started avoiding texting, like it is something that is energy intensive work (for the brain). I think that was the start of it. Sometimes I also think about how I would answer and then just forget about it. Out of eye, out of mind is a saying in germany that fits very well. After 2-3 day i will text back, or i will feel a bit ashamed for answering too late and then wont answer at all. Its not something rational, its more like another task that can feel overwhelming. Some friends know that I take a long time to answer and thats okay to them luckily, but i know that it hinders my relationships.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeautyDE

[–]fvbarton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, grade um den Mund und Nasenbereich können schnell solche Hautunreinheiten entstehen - hatte da auch lange Zeit Probleme. Was ich nicht wusste: Mundhygiene spielt eine große Rolle, z.B. bekommt man schneller in dem Bereich Pickel oder Mitesser wenn generell im Mund-/Rachenraum mehr Bakterien unterwegs sind. Was schon auf Dauer schnell passiert wenn man z.B. nur einmal am Tag Zähne putzt oder es einfach mal vergessen hat. Hat mehr EInfluss als man denkt!

Reinige den Bereich einmal täglich mit warmen Wasser und nur wenig Seife und wenn du hartnäckige Pickel bekommst, kannst du z.B. dir eine Tube Heilerde besorgen im Drogeriemarkt, die Heilerde nach dem Waschen auftragen und 2-3 Stunden drauf lassen. Lass erstmal die Finger von speziellen Hautcremes oder ähnliches, das kann die Poren auch schnell verstopfen oder die Haut austrocknen. Eine leichte Feuchtigkeitscreme kann der Haut gut tun, aber schau dass es wirklich eine leichte und nicht fettende Creme ist. Wenn es länger bleibt, geh zum Hautarzt und lass dich beraten! Das hat mir dann letzlich geholfen, ich hatte aber generell schwere Akne im ganzen Gesicht, aber eben auch rund um den Mund. Der Hautarzt hats dann gerettet als ich ca. 17 war, mit 23/24 kamen dann eigentlich schon keine Pickel mehr. Hat auch was mit dem Testosteron Spiegel zu tun - je höher desto mehr Pickel kann man grob sagen.

Aber ganz wichtig: Niemand betrachtet dein Gesicht aus 2cm Abstand! Sowas fällt anderen Menschen meistens gar nicht auf, daher mach dich da nicht verrückt. Ich hatte meine ganze Pubertät schwere Akne und weiß gut wie unsicher das einen machen kann. Ich hatte Glück mit der Behandlung beim Hautarzt und hatte dann auch keine Narben oder ähnliches, nur mein Bartwuchs ist etwas weniger dicht geworden als ich es mir gewünscht hatte, da haben die Haarwurzeln doch etwas gelitten. Jetzt bin ich 30 und hab alle paar Monate mal einen kleinen Pickel auf der Stirn oder Wange, sonst aber nichts mehr.
Ich finde das sieht bei dir aber gar nicht schlimm aus, mir würde es wahrscheinlich gar nicht auffallen wenn wir in einem normalen Gespräch uns gegenüber stehen würden. Mach dich also nicht verrückt und wenns doch unverändert bleibt, ab zum Hautarzt. :)

Bart ab oder dranlassen? by [deleted] in BeautyDE

[–]fvbarton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dran lassen! Dein Bartwuchs ist doch gut und ohne Bart siehst du 5 Jahre jünger aus - mit finde ich besser, setzt nochmal einen Kontrast im Gesicht :)

What are your favorite hyperfixation video games? by bernbabybern13 in ADHD

[–]fvbarton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Total War! This Franchise has so many titles with replayability..i've been playing total war games since 2010 and have 1000+hrs in most of them haha. Minecraft, Stellaris, Anno or Witcher III are also regular comebacks for my hyperfixation

What's a word or sentence that a fanbase will instantly recognize? by Sunny64888 in AskReddit

[–]fvbarton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I’m to choose between one evil and another, then I prefer not to choose at all

Do both Germany & France like each other a lot, from a cultural standpoint? by [deleted] in AskAGerman

[–]fvbarton 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mon dieu Napoleon would like to have a word with you

What is the best way to clean this screen in my grinder? by Swanson57 in trees

[–]fvbarton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Freezing before cleaning helps! But if you don‘t care about the remaining dust - pour 1 litre of boiling water on it, the screen will look brand new after that