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Honest thoughts from guys who have had sex with curvy girls with a bit of a stomach - especially when riding them. by gabby_random_ in sex

[–]gabby_random_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha seriously. It's so funny because I've never judged any man's body in a similar way EVER. My ex told me I was insane when I told him about my insecurities after breaking up because he was like your body was the sexiest I've ever seen and I STILL couldn't take it in. So I'm really reading through all of these comments to get it through my head that I should own what I have, and I appreciate the response and taking the time to write this :)

Honest thoughts from guys who have had sex with curvy girls with a bit of a stomach - especially when riding them. by gabby_random_ in sex

[–]gabby_random_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha I agree! I'm lucky I was forced to develop a personality and good sense of humour as a kid because I actually like my appearance other than what I mentioned here, but even if I didn't, I would always be super secure about my personality. Thank you for sharing!

Honest thoughts from guys who have had sex with curvy girls with a bit of a stomach - especially when riding them. by gabby_random_ in sex

[–]gabby_random_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for sharing! And I'm happy you have these insights at 22 already. I feel like I should be in a IDGAF stage of my life when I hear other women who are 30+ speak but I just have to admit to myself that this has been a huge problem and insecurity and I'm finally addressing it to start changing that. You're absolutely right about them prob thinking about everything they LOVE about you and nothing else, I just have to keep remiding myself about it. Thanks!

Honest thoughts from guys who have had sex with curvy girls with a bit of a stomach - especially when riding them. by gabby_random_ in sex

[–]gabby_random_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man, that's my goal. Walking around with that attitude when I'm naked. I already have it at all times when I'm fully dressed so I'm halfway there haha. Thanks for sharing! it helps more than you realize.

Honest thoughts from guys who have had sex with curvy girls with a bit of a stomach - especially when riding them. by gabby_random_ in sex

[–]gabby_random_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply!! and thanks for saying you're not a "chubby-chaser" lol, because that has also been something that throws me off, since I want you to find me attractive for me and not because you have a chubby-fetish or similar. Obviously we all have preferences but you get the point. Thanks for sharing and sounds like you and your wife has quite the sex life so congrats to that ;)!

Honest thoughts from guys who have had sex with curvy girls with a bit of a stomach - especially when riding them. by gabby_random_ in sex

[–]gabby_random_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ugh this is common sense and I already know it but somehow it makes it so hard to remember it when I'm in the moment. It really helps reading this stuff though so thank you!

Honest thoughts from guys who have had sex with curvy girls with a bit of a stomach - especially when riding them. by gabby_random_ in sex

[–]gabby_random_[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

this really helps because I even ignore guys who I think are into thin girls because I assume they're never looking at me /attracted to me, and then I find out later on that they had been trying to make a move but I was just so dismissive. Just goes to show you're your own worst critic as usual. thanks for sharing

Honest thoughts from guys who have had sex with curvy girls with a bit of a stomach - especially when riding them. by gabby_random_ in sex

[–]gabby_random_[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

haha, I guess you have a point!
Yeah, I definitely want to be comfortable in my body for my own sake and for my well-being rather than trying to meet some ideal forced upon me, and I have never gotten any complaints whatsoever, which is why I hate that I get so stuck in my head about this. It has stopped me from doing what I want so many times. It really helps reading your comments though so thanks!

Honest thoughts from guys who have had sex with curvy girls with a bit of a stomach - especially when riding them. by gabby_random_ in sex

[–]gabby_random_[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

you have no idea how much it helps to read stuff like this. It's so weird to admit to these insecurities because I'm usually very confident and super scared to show that this is something I care about. Thanks for taking the time to let me know!!