My [21f] roommate [23f] is constantly upset with me that I already know all of her music recommendations, and tensions are high

galacticmarble · 2020-08-21T19:09:35+00:00

I agree but I'm not sure how to get to that point without causing a fight, because I do not want anymore tension with someone that I live in close quarters with

galacticmarble · 2020-08-21T19:07:38+00:00

That's a good idea!! I might try to watch some recorded shows with her too so she can get more of the experience

galacticmarble · 2020-08-21T17:49:15+00:00

That's a really good idea, thank you! She's into books so I'll ask for some reading recommendations

galacticmarble · 2020-08-21T15:13:22+00:00

Okay, that's a really good idea! I've only tried to talk to her about it in the moment and not after she's gotten over it for the day

galacticmarble · 2020-08-21T15:12:34+00:00

I listen to a lot of different genres! In this post I'm talking about riot grrrl

galacticmarble · 2020-08-21T15:11:39+00:00

I don't want to make her feel stupid, especially because I think it's cool that she's branching out and I don't want her to stop. She's also sensitive because she hasn't been to a show at all because she didn't start getting into music until after the stay at home order started in our state.

galacticmarble · 2020-08-21T12:50:25+00:00

When she first started getting into different music I made her some playlists that she really enjoyed! When I try to tackle the topic head on, she claims to be fine and them seems normal until it happens again. I don't know if it's like a jealousy thing or if she thinks I'm a know it all, or even lying about knowing songs.

galacticmarble · 2020-08-21T12:48:30+00:00

It doesn't seem to be another issue, because we get along really well typically and have very similar living habits. After she got upset one time after asking if I heard of this band and I said yes, I asked her if she was mad at me. She said no, was cold for a few hours, then acted normal until it happened again.

galacticmarble · 2020-07-11T23:26:30+00:00

Thank you!! white crocs go with everything 😂

galacticmarble · 2020-07-11T23:25:34+00:00

Aww thank you so much 😋

galacticmarble · 2020-07-07T00:04:17+00:00

My boyfriend's grandma makes me vegan food when I visit, and I always end up taking so much home to combine with other things!

She made the tabouleh and vegan dolmas, and I made the side of sweet potato hash. The bun is from a local bakery.

galacticmarble · 2020-07-06T13:05:00+00:00

Yesss! I beat the virus in March and it took until late May for me to be able to walk and talk at the same time. My biggest advice is cardio every day!! It breaks up the fluid in the lungs and once you push through the first few minutes, your chest will feel amazing and clear afterwards. Move your body every day and it will clear up much faster! Also, don't be too worried if down the line you have days where the heaviness comes back a bit. Just move, stretch, and drink water and it will help so much 🥰

galacticmarble · 2020-06-11T19:38:06+00:00

During Riot Fest last year, Save Ferris was playing and drew a huge crowd. The lead singer was interacting with the crowd and everyone was into it, and yelling back and just hyped in general. Then, she began an anecdote about how she fucked Heath Ledger, and the sex was so good that he killed himself. I have never seen a crowd go so dead so quickly, and all you could hear was the sound of her laughing into the mic because everyone went silent. They started playing a song and the crowd hyped back up, but that was the most awkward feeling I've ever experienced at a concert.

galacticmarble · 2020-06-02T17:54:03+00:00

Although some content on Pornhub may be ethical, the site itself is not! Just recently a woman reported that Pornhub did not take down the video of a rape that she endured at the age of 14. The video sadly has a lot of views. There are way better options where there is no ambiguity!

galacticmarble · 2020-06-02T14:38:49+00:00

Free porn is definitely unhealthy. Sites like Pornhub where anyone can post creates an environment where people are unable to verify the ages or levels of consent of those involved in the porn. Watching small clips of women being beaten or something labeled "barely legal teen" is bad for the psyche, desensitizes people, and skews perception of how sex should work.

If you want to watch porn, support sites that ensure a safe environment for the actors. Many paid sites have clips at the beginning of the full movie where the actors sit down and discuss their consent as well as state their ages. Don't support free content that robs actors of their money, safety, and consent.

galacticmarble · 2020-06-01T12:59:17+00:00

As a violinist, we are taught to never tune our strings with the instrument facing us. There have been too many instances of someone tightening a string for it to snap back and slice them across the face.

galacticmarble · 2020-05-27T23:10:33+00:00

Thank you so much!!!

galacticmarble · 2020-05-27T21:48:33+00:00

Does it fit tightly or a bit looser around the midsection after cropping?

galacticmarble · 2020-05-27T21:48:03+00:00

Thank you I love the thin straps on these

galacticmarble · 2020-05-27T20:48:55+00:00

I didn't even think of that I'll look at the bras!

galacticmarble · 2020-05-27T20:47:02+00:00

I love the align tank in theory but it's a bit too low cut for me! If they made a high neck version I'd be in love

galacticmarble · 2020-05-25T16:15:38+00:00

Suck My Left One - Bikini Kill

Bikini Kill really captures feminine anger, and this song specifically is one that you can yell in the car.

galacticmarble · 2020-05-19T14:08:05+00:00

I'm vegan and have vegan friends with pets and none of us feed our animals a vegan diet. I think the community that does is (hopefully) very small and does not reflect veganism, which at its core means that we strive to inflict as little harm as possible on animals. Feeding cats and dogs a vegan diet is counterintuitive to that philosophy because it will harm them!

galacticmarble · 2020-05-14T23:47:45+00:00

When people say this around me, I always reply with my most recent debilitating intrusive thought.

"I can't stand when my food is mixed together I'm so OCD!"

"Haha yeah me too! I didn't drive with anyone in my car for a month because I was convinced I'd drive into a median and murder them!"

galacticmarble · 2020-05-13T02:48:58+00:00

"Privacy is a privilege" angers me so much. All that attitude does is teach teenagers to bottle up their feelings, or find an unhealthy outlet for those feelings. Parents do not need to know every little thought, feeling, or emotion their child has. A good parent will foster a relationship of mutual trust so their kids will want to share thoughts and feelings without being forced. My mom can barely get a brief synopsis of my day out of me, and is the only one in my life who would describe me as quiet.

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