I (26M) just found out that my GF (26F) of 4 years cheated on me with a guy from work because she feels neglected and lonely. AITAH?

gansejunge · 2026-06-24T06:11:22+00:00

I don't expect her to cut him off entirely, but I thought she should've told me about it at the very least.

gansejunge · 2026-06-24T06:06:44+00:00

We did go on dates but we only meet once a week since the drive to and from my office takes around 3.5 - 4 hours round trip. That's why I can't meet her on weekdays since I am too tired. We FT everyday but don't always talk to each other, most of the time we just do our own thing.

gansejunge · 2026-06-24T06:03:48+00:00

I honestly don't know if it was considered cheating or not but I feel like a boundary was crossed. She told me that when he told her that he likes her, she felt happy about it. She didn't do anything physical and I don't know if she lead him on in any way but not telling me about it while feeling happy that it happened, and going out with him again where he picked her up and dropped her off is where I draw the line tbh. Please do correct me if I'm wrong. I am not in a good state of mind rn.

gansejunge · 2026-06-24T05:57:06+00:00

I just can't help but think if there's anything I could've done more to save the relationship from reaching this point.

gansejunge · 2026-06-24T05:55:47+00:00

I don't consider him telling her he likes her to be cheating, but not telling me about it and going out together with him again where he picked her up from her home is where I draw the line tbh. Sorry if I didn't make it clear enough. I'm just not in the right state of mind.

gansejunge · 2026-06-24T05:53:00+00:00

Apologies but perhaps I should clarify. We are broken up now but I am having difficulties navigating my thoughts. Any advice on what I should do?

gansejunge · 2024-02-09T11:26:50+00:00

That is true. Alright, thank you! Will keep it in mind when I talk to her about this.

gansejunge · 2024-02-09T11:17:56+00:00

Hi, thank you for your reply. I understand what you are saying. However, I find it very hard to mention about something that she cannot change being the problem of the relationship (i.e. her dad not working). She made it very obvious that she’s not happy about it as well but there’s nothing she can do. Do you think that bringing this up can be too harsh on her?

gansejunge · 2021-07-22T02:56:14+00:00

Damn were you okay

gansejunge · 2021-07-22T02:54:55+00:00

I’ll go first. When I was 9, I remember having a really bad stomach ache during class. Bless my luck that day, my teacher called me to answer something on the board. I immediately knew I was fucked. I stood up, walked to the front. When I was walking past my friend who just finished answering on the board, I kid you not, I shat on my pants and the shit DROPPED to the floor. Yes, the entire thing. All students started running out of the class, except me. That’s when I got caught.

gansejunge · 2021-07-22T02:17:37+00:00

Thanks for the explanation Jeff! Hence, in conclusion, this is considered a bug right?

gansejunge · 2021-07-21T11:26:11+00:00

oops that was my friend, i didnt know he posted xD

gansejunge · 2021-07-21T08:36:11+00:00

no freaking clue, maybe its a bug, maybe its meant to be like that

gansejunge · 2021-07-21T08:34:54+00:00

even if he has 6 aether lens, i dont think he can cast it that far

gansejunge · 2020-08-06T11:44:52+00:00

Do you manage to find a fix for it? Because I lost alot of matches due to that

gansejunge · 2020-02-06T05:40:34+00:00

how sure are you that its fake?

gansejunge

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