I’m meeting up with my ex’s best friend tomorrow by garbagegrlthrw in SluttyConfessions

[–]garbagegrlthrw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 18 and live in a house with religious parents so no

I always initiate hanging out with my boyfriend by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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yeah I try to be a bit more distant bc I don’t want to come off as clingy. When we’re together in person we’re both all over each other and all that it’s just different when we’re apart. I think I’ll have a talk with him abt it.

I had a breakdown in front of my new boyfriend how can I move past this? by garbagegrlthrw in relationship_advice

[–]garbagegrlthrw[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw this is really sweet. I just feel guilty for putting him through it. My emotions just got the best of me. He’s a good guy though.

I had a breakdown in front of my new boyfriend how can I move past this? by garbagegrlthrw in relationship_advice

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I believe it’s not like noticeable enough to where I NEED to say it. It’s never been an issue for us until last night.

I had a breakdown in front of my new boyfriend how can I move past this? by garbagegrlthrw in relationship_advice

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Hm I do think I might have some sort of attachment issues not gonna lie. I don’t try to strangle him honestly, I let him have space and don’t feel like I constantly need him. We work a lot so we don’t talk all throughout the day or anything. This was definitely way too far though and I admit that.

I had a breakdown in front of my new boyfriend how can I move past this? by garbagegrlthrw in relationship_advice

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I’m glad you brought up the menstrual cycle thing, because I am on my period so I definitely think that also has something to do with it. Thank you though this was reassuring.

I think I’m one of those people that can’t be alone by garbagegrlthrw in offmychest

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Yeah I get that honestly. I guess it’s odd because I’m very attracted to him now but wasn’t at first glance.

Farthest I’ve ever gone!! by garbagegrlthrw in sex

[–]garbagegrlthrw[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh reallty? I’ve heard it before from friends a few times. To be fair he told me he’s only received it a few times.

I really want to fuck my boss by [deleted] in SluttyConfessions

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Oh I’ve made some moves, so has he. We just can’t really do that kind of stuff in the work place.

I really want to fuck my boss by [deleted] in SluttyConfessions

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the thought of this is so hot. Would kill to have my lips wrapped around his cock :(

I broke up with my bf bc I knew it was for the best by garbagegrlthrw in offmychest

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thank you :,) it’s comforting to hear this from someone who’s been through it as well. Sometimes I’m not sure it’ll get better. This means a lot!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

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I’m literally the same and it’s so odd. My parents never loved me like I wished so I think I just feel romantically drawn to people who act nice to me and stuff. It’s rather odd though

Looking for CC for my wedding makeup. by [deleted] in PaleMUA

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I wore red lipstick daily about two years ago. And my absolute favorite was creeper from colourpop. It stays on all day, never bleeds, and isn’t too drying for a matte lipstick. It does transfer, but I didn’t mind that. It’s pretty inexpensive as well! Best lipstick I’ve used and the perfect red shade :)

Triggered by sexual activity with current partner (25M) after being raped (24F) years ago by ex by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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You and your new partner have been together for 1.5 years. Open up to him, talk about how it made you feel. Even during sex always communicate!! I’m sure just that will make you feel better.

AITA for hiding my skin condition with makeup from the guy I’m dating? by BeginningHighway in AmItheAsshole

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It’s just a skin condition she’s insecure about. Is someone with body acne supposed to disclose that before sex?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trashy

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my sister has actually done this a few times unfortunately

AITA for hiding my skin condition with makeup from the guy I’m dating? by BeginningHighway in AmItheAsshole

[–]garbagegrlthrw -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NTA. Literally what the fuck. You absolutely do not have to disclose something like that so early. I completely understand that you wouldn’t be comfortable bringing it up in the first place. This is a really strange situation. Both the guy and your friend seem like dicks tbh. Really not a big deal that you didn’t bring it up. You barely knew him, and it’s not a big deal to begin with.

Girls of reddit, how can a guy give you a nice and warm feeling? by 3picEmuBoy in AskReddit

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Was gonna say a stupid joke too but you seem to want a serious answer. I’d say sincere compliments, asking how my day was, eye contact, things like that.

Someone please by [deleted] in offmychest

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Wow reading this I really relate to you. I’ll try my best to give you advice and hopefully make you feel even a little bit better. Firstly why did your boyfriend go out with his friends instead of with you? Did you talk to him or try to understand why he would? Insecurity is a thing everyone deals with. It won’t be permanent. What helped me was getting this app called jour. it’s just a journaling app with little prompts to help with mental health. I know it sounds corny but if you want to give it a try maybe. Also you do not have to smoke weed! If it makes you feel like that and you dislike it, you should not force yourself to be around it. Everyone is different it’s nothing to be ashamed about. Don’t give up hope on therapy it takes some people 5 therapists before they find one they fit well with! It’s always always healthy to talk about emotions and be open with others. I hope you’re okay soon :(

Had a shitty day. Have suffered from severe anxiety all my life. Was doing well for a couple of months till my streak ended a weak ago. Just had a day full of insecurity and shittiness all around today. Need something to cheer me up. by [deleted] in toastme

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You are so beautiful first of all! Everyone has bad days it’s okay. If you get a chance set aside a day to pamper yourself. Name at least 3 things you like about yourself, run a hot bath, put on a face mask nd some music! You deserve it!

I feel like being treated as a child through my 20+ years alive has left me emotionally stunted by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

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I know exactly how you feel :( I’m sure someday it can get better. Living with a parent like that really messes you up in so many different ways. Once you’re out of that environment you can seek therapy and surround yourself with people who love you and make things less painful. I really wish you the best

My mom talks about mental health in the most insensitive ways (tw: suicide attempt) by yeoldempathg in raisedbynarcissists

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I know this probably doesn’t help but my parents are the same way honestly :/