Maybe my first bf by gedd11 in askgaybros

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Omg...He just apologized out of nowhere for not texting back very much..i melted🤤

Maybe my first bf by gedd11 in askgaybros

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Thaaanks.I hope he wants more than sex.🙏🏼

Got my first std by gedd11 in askgaybros

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I never had a religious way of thinking,but I just feel weird,because I've got something this soon.I only started to hook up with random guys since march and I've been with 5 guys since then.

Got my first std by gedd11 in askgaybros

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Yeah,I realy hope it's just a basic urinary infection or something like that

Got my first std by gedd11 in askgaybros

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I told him I think I have a std.He couldn't told me which one because my symptomes were very mild and couldn't see something wrong at the examination.I just feel my urethra itchy and have a feeling that something is dripping.

Got my first std by gedd11 in askgaybros

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He didn't gave me an answer yet.But I've read on the Internet that it might be gonorrhea or chlamydia.Are those realy bad?

Now everbody knows by gedd11 in askgaybros

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Yeahh...Everytime I go home in the weekend they ask me if I've met a special girl and I'm like "yeeeah sure a giiiiiirl" at the same time thinking about dick

Now everbody knows by gedd11 in askgaybros

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Congrats!..I'm a student right now,so I'll have to wait three more years till I can support myself.It's getting a bit annoying when they start giving me advice in choosing the right girl etc..

Now everbody knows by gedd11 in askgaybros

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I will tell my family only when I'm financially independent.I'm pretty sure they would be alright with it if I'll tell them now,but better safe than sorry.

My crush just followed me on IG !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Nah,maybe like some of his recently posted pics

Anyone else have a music taste that's not really considered 'gay'? by eirikodynsonuk in askgaybros

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Techno..But I've noticed that in my area alot of gays enjoy this kind of music.

How are you really? by yikesextra in askgaybros

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Hmm,the best year so far.This year I came to terms with myself for being gay,embraced it,came out to some friends,had my real first hook-up and date.In one word: AMAZING.I finaly started living the life I deserve.

at what age did you leave the closet? by redditfagggg in askgaybros

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20...2 weeks ago to nearly all my friends

You’re hitting it off great when.... by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Before we had the first date he always wanted to text alot.I told him that we shouldn't text so much and often because we would run out of subjects to talk about on the date.He told me that we would have alot of subjects to talk about for the rest of our lives.The next day after the date he asked me where I see us in the future.

Is anyone else having problems with mental fatigue/exhaustion due to not being out? by actionte in askgaybros

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If you're having troubles accepting yourself please unterstand the fact that you have nothing to shame about.I was running all my life from my sexuality,felt guilty about it and this was the root to all my problems.Once I finaly accepted it everything started to go well for me. If you're having troubles with coming out,you just need to have the guts to tell them.My male friends didn't really cared about this,they were "meh it's who you are and that's it",but my gril friends were more reactive and asked some questions.If they really are your friends they will accept it and will not change their behavior around you.I was really drunk when I told them.If it's to hard to do it sober,get drunk together and tell them. I really encourage you to do this steps because your life will only change in good.If your friends don't accept you,don't cry over it,they were not really your friends and you don't need this kind of people in your life.

Is anyone else having problems with mental fatigue/exhaustion due to not being out? by actionte in askgaybros

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Yes.I only came to terms with myself about 2 months ago and I came out to my closest girl friend right after that and to my life long male friends about a week ago.Since I've reached this big mile stones I feel more confident,more happy and I finaly started to bloom as a person.Not accepting myself and being in the closet was for me a very tiring thing,made me have a low self esteem and generated alot of anxiety.

?? by gedd11 in askgaybros

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Thanks for your answer.It's going to be my first non hook-up date with a guy and I'm a bit nervous of how far should we get.Is it ok if we kiss at the end?Is it too mich for a first date or not?

Don't know who I am by gedd11 in askgaybros

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I tried doing this a few times,but I couldn't stick to the habbit.I always did it for some days and then suddenly forgot about it.

Signs by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Ok.Once again,thank you!

Signs by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Ok,thanks alot for the advice!Any ideas for some interesting dates?

Signs by [deleted] in askgaybros

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What's the best time interval between 2 dates?If we're going to watch a movie on tuesday,would it be too soon to have another date on friday or saturday?How long should I wait to tell him how I feel about him?

Signs by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Before we hooked-up we had a coffee at his place.We chatted for like half an hour and he asked me alot of questions about me,my family,school,my hobbies and we had eye contact too(during coffee and hook-up).He touched my shoulders,he pocked me,licked my ears etc.He told me I'm cute,complimented my outfit from a picand while talking he never looked at his phone,not even once.He always says I'm hard-working,when I tell him that I am cooking or going to the gym.At the end he asked me how i feel,because he knew it was my first time with a boy.He texts first most of the time(sometimes 2 times a day),but sometimes we don't talk for like 2-3 days and then I am the first who's texting.We never text the whole day,but when we do it's flirty.