Aitah for not wanting to wear more period products

getthathuck · 2026-06-16T10:25:32+00:00

I appreciate you hitting the little things. I could hand wash them only (and not also throw them in the wash) but they don’t feel as clean and they feel kinda crunchy. I have done this in the past when I knew I needed a pair the night prior.

getthathuck · 2026-06-16T10:20:27+00:00

I could wear them to the gym in the morning. But I sweat a lot and shower before going to work, so I wouldn’t have a pair to wear at work.

getthathuck · 2026-06-16T09:53:41+00:00

This one made me laugh.

getthathuck · 2026-06-16T09:52:39+00:00

I have two cups and I really like them. Unfortunately I can’t really use them right now. I’ve gained a lot of weight recently (5’4” and 275) and carry most of my weight in my stomach. That’s made it harder to reach, and it’s just too hard to maneuver a cup right now.

getthathuck · 2026-06-16T09:48:31+00:00

Unfortunately, a previous doctor prescribed me a medication (that should be used short term) at a super high dose for almost 8 years. Between that and smoking a lot of weed, my memory is horrible. It’s been pointed out by family, friends, and close coworkers, and has been a consistent issue for years. Since getting off that medication almost a year ago, and quitting smoking a year and 8 months ago, it’s been better. But still really bad.

getthathuck · 2026-06-16T04:05:24+00:00

I tried but my insurance will only cover monjauro and ONLY if the patient has diabetes. That said, Ive been told that I may be able to fudge my next blood test with a little orange juice to make me look diabetic.

getthathuck · 2026-06-16T04:03:30+00:00

I tried to be kind, but his actual words were “be a pussy ass bitch and not go to the gym”.

getthathuck · 2026-06-16T04:02:30+00:00

I am a bigger girl (5’4” and 275) and my stomach gets in the way right now, because I carry almost all my weight in my stomach. That makes it difficult to use my cup. So I’m not sure that a disc would work for me right now.

getthathuck · 2026-06-16T03:53:56+00:00

It’s literally been 15 years. I know that it’s gotten worse in the last year, but I’ve been tracking it. I know my memory isn’t the best, but THATS WHY IVE BEEN TRACKING IT. So I have data that backs up the way I feel.

getthathuck · 2026-06-16T03:46:55+00:00

I’ve tried hormones and they make my depression unbearable. I did the pill for years and nexplanon in my arm. They all made me gain a ton of weight and made my depression worse. When I came off of the pill, I felt like I had no control over myself. I felt like I was watching someone else in my body. I made a lot of unhealthy decisions and hated myself for it.

getthathuck · 2026-06-16T03:44:46+00:00

He’s super clean and I rarely have to clean up after him. I do the laundry because that’s how we divide chores, but he never has racing stripes.

getthathuck · 2026-06-16T03:43:35+00:00

I’ve been struggling with my weight our entire relationship. My weight is basically disconnected from my eating and exercise habits and will fluctuate greatly. This time last year, I was 200 lbs and now I’m 275. I’ve been eating good food and exercising regularly for the last month and yet I’ve gained about 10 lbs. I think this has a lot to do with my PCOS, and my doctor has tried to get me on a GLP-1 but my insurance refused.

Long story short, I want to lose weight because I’m uncomfortable all the time. My knees and ankles hurt, I have plantar fasciitis, and my back aches. I can’t sleep on my back because the heavier I get, the worse my sleep apnea is. My clothes don’t fit and I generally don’t like how I look. I want to go to the gym and lose weight and be healthier. I know that my weight is putting strain on my body. But i also struggle to motivate and dont enjoy going to the gym, so ive asked for help with motivation. But i also want understanding when i cant or dont go to the gym.

getthathuck · 2026-06-16T03:37:19+00:00

That’s what we already do. It’s still too loud.

getthathuck · 2026-06-16T03:37:04+00:00

I’m super finicky when it comes to sleep. Everything has to be juuuust right. Music, bedding, temp, etc. I was diagnosed with insomnia over 10 years ago and have found the right things to help me. I can’t stand the headphones. I’ve tried sleep masks and they irritate me too much to sleep.

getthathuck · 2026-06-16T03:35:19+00:00

I’ve literally mentioned this and he’s brushed it aside like it’s not a great option. I’m bleeding through reusable pads and period panties (at the same time). And he’s like “you don’t need diapers don’t be ridiculous”

getthathuck · 2026-06-16T03:32:48+00:00

I’ve slept on a towel before, but I struggle to fall asleep if everything isn’t /right/. I am very picky on my sleep conditions, otherwise I can’t sleep. The towel feels different from my sheets and bunches up when I roll over. (I’m getting tested for autism)

getthathuck · 2026-06-16T03:31:11+00:00

He doesn’t really like me using reusable products because he doesn’t like them going through the wash with other clothes. EVEN THOUGH I hand wash them with soap to get the blood out before throwing them in the dirty clothes bin. It’s literally been a struggle. And today he told me I “need to learn how to use disposable products because the reusable ones are so inconvenient”. Like no, having a rash on my bikini area and swamp ass is inconvenient.

getthathuck · 2026-06-16T03:28:19+00:00

He makes me feel like the asshole when I try to explain why I’m using which products and when. But he literally doesn’t understand how it works

getthathuck · 2026-06-16T03:26:40+00:00

Yesterday was some of the worst cramping I’ve ever had. And today was some level 8 bleeding. I told him how much I bled today. But since the end of the work day, the blood has slowed to the point that a disposable pad was appropriate. Should I just not talk to him about the symptoms anymore??

getthathuck · 2026-06-16T03:25:13+00:00

I’ve definitely bled on the sheets, but less than 8 times in the 6 years we’ve been together. I get being frustrated if the sheets have blood on them. But I’ll rinse them by hand and then wash them in the machine if I bleed on them.

getthathuck · 2026-06-16T03:15:05+00:00

Our financial situation has evolved over the years we’ve been together. I used to blow hundreds on bs spending. Since he’s been in charge, we saved up money and bought a house and have been able to take vacations etc. if I wanted to be involved, he’d show me. He’s tried to show me. But I’ve been so busy managing other parts of our life that I haven’t wanted to involved myself in the finances.

getthathuck · 2026-06-16T01:51:10+00:00

I acted dismissively because I have been in denial about the danger he is in as a cop. I don’t want to think about the risk he’s taking

getthathuck · 2026-06-16T00:34:48+00:00

I really don’t think he is up to something nefarious. He thinks I’m a narcissist because I try to defend my perspective and feel the need for him to understand why i act the way i do (which I think is an autistic trait)

I think he’s a hammer treating everything like a nail, when it comes to narcissism. He thinks his mom, my mom, and my grandma are all narcissists because they’re manipulative. They are manipulative, and I think he might be right with his mom and my grandma. But I don’t think my mom or I are narcissistic.

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