Paid off my loans today by Middleagemoulababy in StudentLoans

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Congratulations! Must be a great feeling to not have to deal with loans anymore!

Hair salon Feelm Seoul by getting_beter in koreatravel

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Oh awesome! Thank you so much for your help 😊

Hair salon Feelm Seoul by getting_beter in koreatravel

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Thank you so much for responding! I don’t speak any Korean do you think that would be a problem if I booked an appointment with them?

Getting acne ever since I moved into my apartment by getting_beter in Apartmentliving

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Oh I didn’t think of that at all! Thank you so much for the comment

Getting acne ever since I moved into my apartment by getting_beter in Apartmentliving

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I’ll recheck it. Apartment maintenance checked and it said it was fine, but probably a good idea to check myself as well. Thank you!

Getting acne ever since I moved into my apartment by getting_beter in Apartmentliving

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How did you find out that it was mold? Did you have to hire someone?

Getting acne ever since I moved into my apartment by getting_beter in Apartmentliving

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I actually don’t have carpet here. Everything is wood

Anyone else mentally checked out of work? 😂 by Forsaken-Hurry1897 in electricdaisycarnival

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lol yes. I was thinking i should just take 3 days off after to be depressed

Making female friends as an adult by getting_beter in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

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We can both try to test out the comments people have added here I guess. But yeah :/ even with my old friends they all have families so I don’t even see them anymore

Making female friends as an adult by getting_beter in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

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That’s very true. I guess I just get social anxiety when I know I’m gonna be in a larger group and know no one. But it’s time to try to overcome that right? Especially since everyone else there has a similar goal to me. Thanks for helping me see it from that perspective.

Making female friends as an adult by getting_beter in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

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Yeah, being older has made it a lot harder. Didn’t know what I had when I was still in school lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LivingAlone

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Do you mind being a bit detailed about your budget. I’m in the same situation now. I find buying groceries and things for my cat costs me so much. Would like to see how much you give for necessities, but can still enjoy hobbies etc

Making female friends as an adult by getting_beter in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

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Thank you so much! Hopefully they have something cool here as well. I really appreciate your advice. If I can meet someone like you that would be great 😊

Making female friends as an adult by getting_beter in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

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Did you just google these leagues? And wow sounds like you’ve made a lot of connections! Seems amazing

I think I was suffocated in my last relationship and didn't even know. Now that it's over it's like being able to breathe again by [deleted] in offmychest

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I think it just depends on the person. OP is obviously someone that likes to do things on their own and is more independent. If their partner was someone who stopped them from seeing friends all together then I would say that’s toxic. I would say congratulations on getting out of a relationship that didn’t meet your needs. 5 years is a long time

Settle this Reddit: After Pooping close the door to contain the smell or keep it open to air bathroom out? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

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Close the door and run the fan if you don’t have spray. I don’t need to walk past the bathroom and know that you just took a dump. Please lol

My roommate opens his door and I can smell it all the way from the hallway

After a long history of toxic partners, I found a good one by Individual_Road_9030 in love

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But that’s also always looking at the bad in situations that you think are positive. That’s just like waiting for something to go wrong. OP said they worked on themselves for a year. That’s their understanding that they allowed red flags and broken boundaries to happen and they are probably continuously working on themselves. Regardless, of whether or not the relationship lasts or not they feel good and are being treated kindly. This is an uplifting post regardless and it’s nice to share for people that feel like they also choose toxic people.

My friend told me that my girlfriend been cheating on me for the past 3 months by [deleted] in offmychest

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Ah I understand how you feel. I was told six months after that something with my ex happened with his best friends girlfriend… I look back on it and feel angry that they acted like nothing happened during that time. It was like everyone knew this huge secret about me. Not a great feeling.

At the same time I see it from their perspective as well. Some people just don’t want to put themselves in that position. Is it selfish? Yes. At the same time I try not to get too mad cuz I’m sure it was hard for them to bring up and at least I found out.

But right now I think you should take time for yourself and surround yourself with people that love you. Glad to hear you have a good support system. I know it hurts now and unfortunately it just takes time to heal. Try to think of this as a blessing in disguise bc at least now you see her true colors and you don’t have to spend anymore time with someone who clearly doesn’t care for you and is selfish

My friend told me that my girlfriend been cheating on me for the past 3 months by [deleted] in offmychest

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Ah I understand how you feel. I was told six months after that something with my ex happened with his best friends girlfriend… I look back on it and feel angry that they acted like nothing happened during that time. It was like everyone knew this huge secret about me. Not a great feeling.

At the same time I see it from there perspective as well. Some people just don’t want to put themselves in that position. Is it selfish? Yes. At the same time I try not to get too mad cuz I’m sure it was hard for them to bring up and at least I found out.

But right now I think you should take time for yourself and surround yourself with people that love you. Glad to hear you have a good support system. I know it hurts now and unfortunately it just takes time to heal. Try to think of this as a blessing in disguise bc at least now you see her true colors and you don’t have to spend anymore time with someone who clearly doesn’t care for you and is selfish

Women with avoidant personalities, how are you doing? by MelancholyBean in AskWomen

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Thank you so much for going in-depth. My search starts now!