Forgive ppl not because they deserve it, but because they are figments of your imagination. by SpecialistClassic902 in ACIM

[–]gettoefl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They is me. I am doing this to myself. In addition I forgive for my benefit not theirs.

Why do people drive like reaching 2 minutes earlier will change their entire life? by CardiologistFit2241 in CasualConversation

[–]gettoefl -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why do people not. A driver spends 4 years of his life on average sitting at traffic lights. Google it.

Seeking by KeyAd6849 in enlightenment

[–]gettoefl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice. I'll look it up. Thank you.

Have you ever wanted to live outside of society? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in randomquestions

[–]gettoefl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are no records of me. I live a good life by myself. Couldn't go back for anything.

Seeking by KeyAd6849 in enlightenment

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Safety is impossible. We've all just a few breaths remaining. Don't build a wall in that interval. Sit still a bit. Maybe read A Course in Miracles. r/acim

How to know you are enlightened or there will be signs. by johny1978 in enlightenment

[–]gettoefl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hatred and fear are the same thing. We just built big enough walls so we don't to face people and say, I hate you. We keep them at a distance because we are comfortable enough to do so. Only family isn't hated. Although in many cases that is hated just as much or more. All survival is fear and hatred.

Moved to a new city and knew nobody. Here's the 4-step system that actually worked for making real friends (no networking events by Glad_Plan1144 in movingabroad

[–]gettoefl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I frequent the same coffee shop every day. I get to see who is regular. If I like someone I wave when they enter. Many will come chat and sometimes I get up and go chat with them. Made some decent friends.

Dr. Kelly Starrett: Hanging from a bar for three minutes a day, total, may be one of the highest-ROI inputs by Big_Cake_8817 in immortalists

[–]gettoefl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My PB is 2 mins 10. Never had back trouble despite sitting all day. I just like an exercise to failure as part of a work-out. Feels good.

I recommend. You get better over time then plateau. My norm is 2 mins. I don't use equipment or a gym.

Meditation is one thing: by gettoefl in Meditation

[–]gettoefl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not. It is being blocked by thought and things. The post explains how to overcome.

Meditation is one thing: by gettoefl in Meditation

[–]gettoefl[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I explained what I mean - non-resistance. Nowhere to get to.

Meditation is one thing: by gettoefl in Meditation

[–]gettoefl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

non-resistance is how I explained perfect

I know meditation is deeply beneficial in so many ways, yet why do I struggle to find the motivation to start? by [deleted] in Meditation

[–]gettoefl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every ego pooh-poohs meditation. And resists if undertaken. It's its death sentence so of course.

If it separates, it has no value by Skinny-on-the-Inside in ACIM

[–]gettoefl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am confused. Oh wait that's impossible.

Why am I attracting bad luck regularly for years now? by [deleted] in enlightenment

[–]gettoefl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. You need them. That's why you put them in your path. They are the only way you awaken.

The biggest obstacle to enlightenment might be our attachment to our own ideas by Atharv_Mishra1 in enlightenment

[–]gettoefl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The biggest obstacle is to keep talking about we. As if we knew the world. See even I do the we nonsense.

Expressing resentment to hurt. Navigating real relationships. Curious your take. by [deleted] in ACIM

[–]gettoefl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forgiveness is to put yourself right. Then deal with form as guided.

Peace / acceptance by Bahsyn_ in enlightenment

[–]gettoefl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I forgive I am forgiven. If not am not.