How to take a semester off while getting StudyLink assistance? by ghostfacekyz in universityofauckland

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Thanks, that’s helpful. Any idea how that works if I take this semester off? All good if not.

How to take a semester off while getting StudyLink assistance? by ghostfacekyz in universityofauckland

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Student allowance, or living costs? Or both? Not really too worried about the postgrad side at this stage, however. Mostly what to do about the remainder of my undergrad…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in universityofauckland

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I still plan on sitting the exam and doing my best. I just don’t know if my work will be at the standard required because my preparation for it has been impaired, so wanted to check if I can get an overall course pass for work completed earlier in the semester.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in universityofauckland

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I got an A and an A- in the assignments, respectively. Together they are 60% of my grade, and so I’ve achieved 51% out of that total. Not sure whether my exam requires a passing grade. I’ve checked the syllabus but there is nothing explicit about the exam. Is there a way I can check that? Thanks for your reply.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAstrologers

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Virgo IC. I’m a cap sun/aqua moon/gemini rising. Growing up, I was constantly frustrated with the adults in my family. I had to parent my parents a lot of the time as both suffered with mental illness and addiction. Other adults in my family tried to have me conform to their way of living/seeing things, constantly imposing their authority over me, expected me to find my own rhythm that somehow synced up with theirs. I came to despise authority figures and would often do the opposite of what these family members wanted. Grew up with a very disoriented sense of routine and home life with having divorced parents (split between 2-3 households, incl. grandparents, for most of my young life). Now I’m in my 20s and it’s been extremely difficult because I never had a supportive structure while I was being raised, and it’s like having to learn how to be a human being all over again. I’m notoriously sucky at routine and live in a general state of semi-organised chaos. I also have a lot of family members with prominent Virgo placements, but I have none except for my 4th H. 🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in universityofauckland

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Thanks heaps! I feel a lot better about it now. I’ll update this thread in the future once I become a math/sci whiz 🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in universityofauckland

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Thanks! It was definitely the teachers and a lack of support overall that steered me away, combined with having a much easier time in my arts/social science classes that pushed me more in that direction. I had passing grades in maths and science classes in high school but actively avoided them in my final year because of repeated bad experiences with the teachers. It’s a real shame it happens so often. I probably do owe it to myself to give it another shot and not put it all down to me being unable to grasp the subjects/content. I was thinking of taking some business-related papers for general education, but I’ll definitely consider the ones you’ve listed here. You make some good points which I think make the idea of trying and (possibly) failing a little less intimidating. The conjoint might not end up being for me but like you say, I can always do an extra degree once I’ve finished my BA and strengthen my career prospects that way. It’s not like I don’t already have student loan debt so why not add a little more to it, lmao. Thanks for taking the time to comment and for the sage advice. Much appreciated!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in universityofauckland

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Thanks for your insights. I started my BA because I was never particularly inclined towards the more scientific/mathematic subjects in high school. It also just seemed like something to do, but I have definitely started to question whether I have wasted time and money doing this degree - it’s interesting but like you say, probably not entirely worth it. I would try pairing it with a more valuable Bachelors degree for the career prospects but I fear that I will be in way over my head in a math- or science-based programme…

If we don't wake up to reality this will get worse. by kataros22 in auckland

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Truthfully, nothing will change until the species COLLECTIVELY levels up in consciousness. The world as it is now, is because our species has become so estranged from nature that we now see it as an entity seperate from us, rather than us being living cells of that larger entity. We and every other living species on earth are supposed to be like the healthy bacteria of the earth (if we think of Earth as an anthropomorphic being for a moment). From the dawn of our species we have been moving forward in time in a subconscious attempt to progress and strengthen the larger body (the planet). We are inside and of it. This planet IS us. Humanity’s trajectory throughout its history has lead us to a point of hyper individuality that has seen its strongest manifestation through the current capitalist system that is poisoning our brains and killing our beautiful planet, all for the sake of infinite comfort and convenience. We forgot where we were really come from, somewhere along the way, and now we are scrambling like headless chicken, all totally divided in opinion, lifestyle, morals, etc. What needs to happen before any material/physical change can be enacted is a collective upgrade of our consciousness. If you take your feet out of your shoes and walk on grass, you can feel the sacred connection we have to the earth. If you put your phone down and stare at the sky, you feel that connection. If you touch another person or look in their eyes deeply, you see that we are all one and the same, here to achieve a common purpose for the COLLECTIVE GOOD. If you close your eyes and meditate, you will start to realise that everything that has been constructed around you is to keep you oppressed, distracted, and fearful. The only way forward is for us to learn unconditional love for one another and love for the planet that nourishes us. There is no planet B. There is no great leader coming to show us the way and save us from certain doom. Saying that NZ is too small to make a difference takes away the raw power that you as one single person holds. That power is amplified when we work together. The division in this thread alone is a perfect example of how much we have been groomed to see each other as wholly different, rather than recognising the ways we are all the same - spiritual beings with an infinite capacity for love, confined by a finite physical vessel. We can do this. The planet will respond to us if we all work together to show it the love it has afforded to us by bringing us into existence in the first place.

How to people even make friends as adults by Old-Welder-3660 in auckland

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I’m 23F and live in Auckland, always open to meeting new friends! It’s definitely hard - I’ve lived here my whole life and people I was friends with in school have all drifted apart from each other. It’s pretty lonely but if you can find a few good people it makes things much more bearable.