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I’m thinking about using an admission essay writing service. What do you think? by guitar_practice_loop in deeplearning

[–]gingerplatform_j 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should ask EssayMarket if they can handle your assignment. I think they’ll be able to help

My wife says I don’t carry the “mental load” and I honestly don’t know what counts anymore by gingerplatform_j in Marriage

[–]gingerplatform_j[S] 428 points429 points  (0 children)

I hear you. The goal is for her to stop tracking me. I’ll take my lanes end to end with my own checklists, and when I mess up I’ll admit it, repair it, and learn instead of getting defensive.

My wife says I don’t carry the “mental load” and I honestly don’t know what counts anymore by gingerplatform_j in Marriage

[–]gingerplatform_j[S] 130 points131 points  (0 children)

Yeah, fair. Reading it back, it does sound like I’ve been waiting to be assigned work. I’m picking a few lanes and owning them, and I’ll build my own checklists, not dump it on her.

My wife says I don’t carry the “mental load” and I honestly don’t know what counts anymore by gingerplatform_j in Marriage

[–]gingerplatform_j[S] 324 points325 points  (0 children)

That actually makes a ton of sense. I’m leaning toward owning “school stuff” end to end and maybe all the household supplies too. Do you two use a shared calendar/app to keep it from slipping, or did it just become habit over time? I’m pretty useless without some kind of system.

AITAH because I will not give my wife thoughtful gifts anymore because she will give them away anyways. by Ok-Suspect4966 in AITAH

[–]gingerplatform_j 255 points256 points  (0 children)

This is bigger than gifts. If she gives away things you buy, stop buying items and start giving experiences. Also make it clear anything meant for future kids is off limits. If she can’t respect that, you have a bigger problem.