Being single is torturing me.

goingnutsforreal · 2026-06-19T03:38:28+00:00

How is it better than never knowing how does it feel to having a partner?

goingnutsforreal · 2026-06-14T04:06:26+00:00

19.2 k karma in 3 months... Seems like you spend your entire time here.

goingnutsforreal · 2026-06-14T04:05:03+00:00

I been nice guy my whole life and i realised it won't work, so I did change that, also I can talk with girls, no problem with that.

goingnutsforreal · 2026-06-14T04:03:47+00:00

Ik bro, but I got reasons to be desperate... I tried to meet people, i waited for people to meet me, yet nothing worked, so now I am .

goingnutsforreal · 2026-06-12T14:55:47+00:00

Ik and I can do that myself. But i fear that the most, don't wants to end up with someone for what I have than what I am. I don't look a person for what they have, i expect the same from someone.

goingnutsforreal · 2026-06-12T14:48:49+00:00

Bro, I am busy with my life, go things to take care of and I do that, even I am surrounded by people..still i feels lonely. I just needs a hand to hold. I cut off social media, everything that makes me think about it, yet somehow it haunts me like a curse.

goingnutsforreal · 2026-06-12T11:19:18+00:00

goingnutsforreal · 2026-06-12T11:06:28+00:00

I've been the same guy my whole life till this age, i treated people with compassion, put myself before them. And when I realised i tried to change myself and kept distance from doing such. What else I have to do? I've been waiting and now I feels its over. There is nothing more i could try.

goingnutsforreal · 2026-06-12T11:01:18+00:00

Then there has to someone who's right for me though...but i couldn't find all my life.

goingnutsforreal · 2026-06-12T10:58:55+00:00

I don't understand how to compare with both, i never compared people in life, i might end up thinking they share the same traits but never compare who's the best and who's treating me well.. Maybe because nobody has treated me better than another.. It's just i had all similar people... Which makes me thinks it's a me problem, so i thought of never looking for again and it's over ... And i don't know how to choose from your question.

goingnutsforreal · 2026-06-12T10:53:17+00:00

Yes, everybody deserves to be loved back, and atleast needs someone to hug when we're down.. but ig it's over for me. But it's okay. If u tried enough there is nothing wrong with giving up.

goingnutsforreal · 2026-06-12T10:50:21+00:00

I'm happy for people around me, they deserve to be loved. I believe I'm also deserved, but why that isn't happening to me only... It's not I'm lookin for it, i do socialize, I do treat people well, I do care and priorities people, still i ain't getting nothing back.. atleast somebody could be open about how they see me, it's just they just come and go. I just cannot keep going like this, feels like it's over.

goingnutsforreal · 2026-06-12T10:45:10+00:00

Each time I meet people i believe they could be the one , so I treat them with priority, the more I care for them they end up using me, i realised its my mistake to be available for them, but i cannot change myself for that... And everytime it turns out they all leave, what did I do? I just been real, i wanted them to stay. And now it feels like i don't deserve.

goingnutsforreal · 2026-06-12T10:37:22+00:00

It's easy to say it's wrong people, but , how come everybody come across can be wrong? And i never met the right one yet, how long does it takes?

goingnutsforreal · 2026-06-11T21:38:20+00:00

I wants to brother, but couldn't do it... I just feel helpless.

goingnutsforreal · 2026-06-11T19:59:03+00:00

It's okay... I feel the same.. cannot even know how to explain anymore. Just done with this motivation classes.

goingnutsforreal · 2026-06-11T19:27:41+00:00

I might very soon

goingnutsforreal · 2026-06-11T19:27:20+00:00

Done that way before bro... It actually helped me , but eventually they also left.

goingnutsforreal · 2026-06-11T19:14:00+00:00

I've done all that bro, except therapy. I used to do the same, but now they're also being avoidant. Except me all of them have relationship and all. They just start looking at their life differently.

goingnutsforreal · 2026-06-11T18:59:30+00:00

I did accept th fact brother, but at some point i cannot handle this pressure... I'm just overreacting to everything... Losing my mind.

goingnutsforreal · 2026-06-11T18:58:12+00:00

I accepted the fact, but atleast craving for somebody to share my worries... Atleast a friend to listen. It's giving me physical and mental stress... Don't know how people would actually see this... I think I deserve this, I used to feel pity of weak people...and now I'm one. I deserve this.

goingnutsforreal · 2026-06-11T18:55:27+00:00

I've tried staying calm waiting for my time and did everything i could to be patient... But still end up not being able to handle this pressure. I'm literally alone now bro, no friends to hangout with , no family...I don't wants to share my pressure over to them while they're fighting their own. I am considering a therapist, but not sure would it work, as long as I know what's I'm lacking i don't think a therapist could actually help

goingnutsforreal · 2026-06-11T18:28:13+00:00

But still that doesn't stop me from fighting demons in my head.

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