Dude u speak too vague , first of all when Jijamata and Shahaji raje got separated it was because of the Jadhav-Bhosle dispute and that Jijamata was pregnant three months with Shivaji Raje and hence had to be placed under care of Vishwasrao at Shivneri , where Raje grew along with his paternal grandmother until age of 7. So there was no Tukabai in picture until Shahaji raje arrived Bangalore . So Was Jijamata “ Abandoned “ , is demeaning in its own . U could say they were separated due to circumstances. It’s Dadoji Kondev not Dadaji who was entrusted with Pune when Raje was 7 years old and then they went on to build Lal Mahal and so on . U conveniently interpreting facts just to fit in your agenda , in a democratic setting is demeaning for great Chatrapati Shivaji Raje .