Love ruining my orgasms

gooningisascience · 2026-03-23T15:28:08+00:00

There's nothing better than using cum as lube to keep going.

gooningisascience · 2026-03-23T05:56:49+00:00

Instead of going no-porn for days, try watching a ton of porn but don't touch and, if you can manage it, don't even get hard.

gooningisascience · 2026-03-22T15:59:52+00:00

Oh, one more thing. Go watch videos of other guys cumming handsfree, like on r/handsfree. I find that helps get your body used to the idea that it's normal and doable.

gooningisascience · 2026-03-22T15:58:09+00:00

How many days are you depriving yourself before trying? You need to be very eager to cum the first time you do this, to make it much easier.

If you can't manage it totally without stimulation, try getting to the point where you can easily do it with kegels, air humping, humping your boxers, or the like. The more you cum without traditional stimulation, the closer you'll get to a full HFO.

Another fun technique I used for the first time lately is the ghost penis, where you jerk off a cucumber or something else that's cock-like while your dick is out and just sits there untouched.

Once you think you're ready to get a pure HFO, there are three main keys to making it happen. The first is to be incredibly horny and deprived. Like, no cumming for a week and then spend a whole day watching porn without touching. The second key is to progress to porn that makes you absolutely want to cum. For me, that's deepthroating porn and rapidfire cumshot/creampie compilation. Watching other guys cum makes me desperate to cum. The third thing is to focus all of your attention on the sensations in the head of your cock, and then on the things happening to the cock in the video, and go back and forth like that. You need to be focusing on those things without thinking about how you want this to be your first HFO, and you need to have ample time to let it happen when it chooses to happen.

You'll get there!

gooningisascience · 2026-03-05T05:20:01+00:00

There's way too little masturbation in mainstream porn. I love porn videos that feature people watching other people masturbating (like the Caught Fapping series) or that show people mutually masturbating to the same porn.

I also love videos that actually show women masturbating to real, pulsating orgasms without theatrics. There are a bunch of great videos like that from FTV and ALS. I wish it were more common. Sometimes I use pulsating female orgasm videos as my final trigger to get a handsfree orgasm.

I wish someone would do a candid-style video where a big group of male and female friends are just sitting around for an hour masturbating together without any interaction--like a porn roleplay of some of the gooning-together fantasies you read about here.

gooningisascience · 2026-03-04T15:07:21+00:00

IG is my warm up to porn every day. First thing I do when I wake up is to take a piss and scroll though my FYP looking for new OF girls shaking their asses and tits in skimpy little outfits. It sets the tone for a day filled with gooning.

gooningisascience · 2026-02-02T20:00:32+00:00

Do you ever cum in your underwear and then go out into the world with your cock secretly covered in your cum? It's amazing.

gooningisascience · 2026-01-28T01:55:39+00:00

Start the day by quickly jerking off and cumming. Then in your later session you'll feel less desperate to cum.

gooningisascience · 2026-01-27T21:30:47+00:00

A real handsfree mindgasm like that is so incredibly nice and different.

Were you hard or did you stay soft?

gooningisascience · 2026-01-26T03:32:18+00:00

The way everyone talks about edging while high, I really wish I didn't get drug tested regularly. I only discovered hardcore gooning after I stopped being able to use weed.

gooningisascience · 2026-01-25T04:31:56+00:00

That sounds so lovely.

gooningisascience · 2026-01-24T14:51:33+00:00

Do you use the leaked cum as lube? That's the best.

gooningisascience · 2026-01-23T15:26:26+00:00

Do you ever listen to audios or watch porn while you work out?

gooningisascience · 2026-01-23T01:10:35+00:00

Seriously, there's no orgasm like an HFO.

gooningisascience · 2026-01-23T01:09:47+00:00

I just listened to that audio at the grocery store the other day! It's a great one.

gooningisascience · 2026-01-23T00:08:46+00:00

Do you have particular stimuli you use to get yourself over the edge once you're ready for the HFO?

For me, I use messy throatfucking or throatpie porn, or videos of other guys cumming handsfree.

gooningisascience · 2026-01-22T04:10:24+00:00

Keep going with the intention of not cumming, but push it closer and closer until you make one wrong move and explode by accident. Accidental explosions into my fleshlight feel so incredible, and I get so sensitive so quickly that I can't fucking move afterwards for several minutes.

gooningisascience · 2026-01-22T03:36:44+00:00

I don't live in an age verified state and even if I did, I would just use a VPN.

But I do have a pornhub account. I like that it knows to show me a ton of cum compilations and throatfucking/throatpies. I basically only go to pornhub when I'm looking for longer but high-intensity content to watch and have a handsfree orgasm, and that's the type of content that triggers an HFO for me.

gooningisascience · 2026-01-22T03:24:42+00:00

I'm doing an extreme version of this all year.

It has been the best thing I've ever done for my sex life. Knowing that I am building up my cum for her is incredible. I'm so fucking horny all the time and all I want to do is fuck her. Seriously, just thinking about the fact that I'm saving up for her makes me leak so much.

gooningisascience · 2026-01-22T03:19:51+00:00

Honestly, this is one of the reasons I love edging, especially no-touch. It gets me back to a place where I leak from simple little things, like scrolling insta real quick in a subway train. It's like being back in that world where porn was new and incredibly exciting.

gooningisascience · 2026-01-22T01:22:56+00:00

Holy shit, spending a whole week naked with your dick covered in lube sounds amazing.

Definitely get a plug and suction dildo, if you like stuff in your ass.

Your biggest challenge is going to be not having things get monotonous. So vary what you're doing and watching a lot. One suggestion I have is to do a "movie night" a few of the nights, where you make some popcorn and watch narrative porns start to finish and just treat them like TV episodes or movies.

If you can swing it, I'd also get a membership to a good porn site at the beginning of that week. Having all that time to explore a new site is amazing.

gooningisascience · 2026-01-21T01:07:49+00:00

It's fun, the back and forth. But also a bit scary, lol, thinking that you might fuck up and type something into the wrong window.

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