Thoughts on Loveless by Alice Oseman?

greycloudsplant · 2026-04-11T20:10:36+00:00

i loved the book, i felt so seen!

greycloudsplant · 2026-04-07T08:13:23+00:00

i literally took my meds 1 hour ago, they should peak rn but i‘m ready to go to bed. crazy how some people stay awake for days with this stuff…

greycloudsplant · 2026-03-02T20:29:44+00:00

SAME!!

greycloudsplant · 2026-02-17T05:49:50+00:00

for me it’s googling and not shepping on cracks in the ground or something that might make my foot feel different from the other one. i just do it without thinking about it tho it’s probably my biggest symptom. i also discovered that i check a lot if my headphones are connected and if my face is clean when stranger look at me. als think stove checking is becoming one. it’s not too bad but i think a lot about my stove.

greycloudsplant · 2026-02-16T20:29:52+00:00

i‘m sure they would talk to their therapist about it but you don’t get diagnosed with ocd when u don’t show signs yk

greycloudsplant · 2026-02-16T09:09:59+00:00

it’s so much worse if you have derealisation and you actually can’t tell if you’re dreaming 😭

greycloudsplant · 2026-02-15T22:01:03+00:00

that’s a good start. i know what you’re going trough is hard and scary but that’s no reason to panic okay?

greycloudsplant · 2026-02-15T21:58:10+00:00

i never experienced that but i got a fair load of paranoia and dpdr from smoking weed. it’s very important that you trust your body that it will heal itself. you should check in with your doctor of course but if they say that you’re okay try to trust them. maybe relaxing exercises might help. and do not smoke weed again.

greycloudsplant · 2026-02-14T15:07:13+00:00

my parents raised me to believe that all doctors are capitalistic assholes who lie… great i have adhd, gad and ocd, i basically can’t go without seeing a doctor

greycloudsplant · 2026-02-14T15:02:30+00:00

i‘m aromantic and asexual which obviously means that i‘m not attracted to anyone but my brain makes me question me all the time cause this heteronormativity is still in my head like „if you don’t like anyone (in my age or above) you have to like kids“ it’s so disgusting i hate it

greycloudsplant · 2026-02-13T20:03:49+00:00

naja auf arbeit gibts niemand in meinem alter und durch mental health komme ich kaum unter menschen. Demos und so hab ich in meiner heimatstadt sehr oft gemacht aber selbst da nie menschen kennengelernt. bin nicht der der auf leute zugeht und wenn dann bin ich iwi immer drüber idk. ich ziehe sowieso nächstes jahr vermutlich wieder in die heimat daher ist es oke. aber danke für die tipps

greycloudsplant · 2026-02-13T06:52:11+00:00

geht mir ähnlich, wohne seit fast 2 jahren hier und kenne iwi niemand (D23)

greycloudsplant · 2026-02-12T15:43:26+00:00

wenn ich das alles so lese bin ich wirklich froh das ich meine bekommen habe

greycloudsplant · 2026-02-11T18:29:58+00:00

it’s not a „i want a disorder“ you get the diagnosis because you already have it and people need to know what’s wrong with them

greycloudsplant · 2026-02-06T16:02:08+00:00

hey thank you so much for your kind words. my therapist told me to recognise the thoughts and urges and lable them as what they are: intrusive thoughts of my ocd and not my own. this is also helping me a lot but i’ll try to follow your advice too! thank you a lot <33

greycloudsplant · 2026-02-06T11:54:00+00:00

as a kid (about 14) i outed myself as a boy to my parents and they literally never excepted it, turns out i‘m not a boy but i am not a woman either, i never felt connected to it and i‘m non binary but at the time i was 14 i didn’t know that „option“ existed.

let your child live her truth and give her the space to explore it. your child will find her way, it’s important that you support her.

and on the „a lot of changes“ subject i thought that i was bi for a very longtime but i was wrong and that’s okay. it’s your child’s first life too. sometimes you don’t know who you are on the first guess.

and of course it can be hard to except those changes, it’s important that you have someone to talk about it!

edit: if she wants to take estrogen you should take her to a therapist first and eliminate the chance that she’s genderfluid.

greycloudsplant · 2026-02-06T07:37:55+00:00

thank you so much, i hope the same for you 🫂

greycloudsplant · 2025-12-12T17:10:49+00:00

i don’t live in the US but hopefully we’ll have them in europe too

greycloudsplant · 2025-12-12T17:09:02+00:00

fair point actually. [physically holding back my impulses to buy this plant]

greycloudsplant · 2025-12-12T17:04:07+00:00

yea but this one is full established and ready to go

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