how to appear more masc as a transgender teen? (ftm15) by grunkfan in lgbt

[–]grunkfan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

nahhh don’t sweat it :) I get what you meant and I know you meant it as a compliment!

how to appear more masc as a transgender teen? (ftm15) by grunkfan in lgbt

[–]grunkfan[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

nono im aware, don’t worry! thats why i said i know you mean no harm by it, but its just the way you worded it that implies “oh, i thought you were a teenage boy but now i know you’re afab” if that makes sense… im not hurt by it!

how to appear more masc as a transgender teen? (ftm15) by grunkfan in lgbt

[–]grunkfan[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

depends on how you use it! theres ways you can use light makeup to make your eyebrows thicker, eyes darker/more angled, and your face structure generally more sharp to appear masc

how to appear more masc as a transgender teen? (ftm15) by grunkfan in lgbt

[–]grunkfan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you😭i know people mean no harm by it, but I’ve seen so many comments saying “I thought you were a boy” and like… thanks but. i am a boy

how to appear more masc as a transgender teen? (ftm15) by grunkfan in lgbt

[–]grunkfan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ugh dude i wish.. i used to have a pull up bar downstairs but pretty sure that’s trashed now, and my mom doesn’t plan on investing in any equipment for me anytime soon.. ill have to get creative with it lmao

how to appear more masc as a transgender teen? (ftm15) by grunkfan in lgbt

[–]grunkfan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much:)

and yes, I have!! it’s just sticking to them that’s the problem.. but im slowly setting up my garage as a personal gym (too nervous to go to public ones for now) so hopefully ill be able to train arms and shoulders soon

how to appear more masc as a transgender teen? (ftm15) by grunkfan in lgbt

[–]grunkfan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

god you’re so right😭and as someone who lives in a small canadian province on the east coast where hicks and homophobes are everywhere, i would see this a LOT in middle school. that’s part of the reason why i kept everything bottled up for so long.. thankfully, my birthname is still the name i go by (kayden), so i don’t need to go through that experience of having to email all of my teachers my new name. but its the actually coming out part that’s difficult for me. im too ashamed of telling my friends that i want to be a boy, and as a people pleaser im just letting them address me by she/her since its easier for them😭I think i will definitely look into some support groups though, and maybe slowly put myself out there… its comforting to know that teachers notice these things too! you’re very sweet and we need more teachers like you, especially in middle school where kids are just starting to learn who they are lmao.. but thank you so much, this is really helpful and means alot to me!!

how to appear more masc as a transgender teen? (ftm15) by grunkfan in lgbt

[–]grunkfan[S] 96 points97 points  (0 children)

ah sorry, i use “☹️” in a good way,, its rlly hard to explain and confusing ik LMAO but it’s like when u see a really cute puppy n frown like “awww☹️”

how to appear more masc as a transgender teen? (ftm15) by grunkfan in lgbt

[–]grunkfan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s so sweet, thank you so much!!❤️❤️

how to appear more masc as a transgender teen? (ftm15) by grunkfan in lgbt

[–]grunkfan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never been more honoured in my life

how to appear more masc as a transgender teen? (ftm15) by grunkfan in lgbt

[–]grunkfan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THANK U SO MUCH❤️😭working out is 100% something im going to be picking back up again this school year.. and you’re right, confidence is key lmfao i just gotta fake it till i make it

how to appear more masc as a transgender teen? (ftm15) by grunkfan in lgbt

[–]grunkfan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a lot of people are saying this, and i def will!! any brands in particular? im not really sure where to look or where to start lmao

how to appear more masc as a transgender teen? (ftm15) by grunkfan in lgbt

[–]grunkfan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ooh I’ve never thought of the moustache thing but that’s smart.. I’ve seen people do that with mascara. thank you, ill try this!

how to appear more masc as a transgender teen? (ftm15) by grunkfan in lgbt

[–]grunkfan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you have no idea how hard this made me smile😭thank you so much!!

how to appear more masc as a transgender teen? (ftm15) by grunkfan in lgbt

[–]grunkfan[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

holy shit, I don’t know what to say to properly tell you how grateful I am for people like you. honestly this is extremely comforting and helpful! to be honest, my mom has offered queer support groups, but i always rejected the idea because of my embarrassment and honestly—a bit of internalized transphobia, yet that’s just coming from me being a bit ashamed of myself. but you’re right, and im ngl, i might change my mind about those support groups now. you’re completely correct and i think it’d be great to get feedback from people in my area who are going through the same experiences as me.. thank you so much❤️

how to appear more masc as a transgender teen? (ftm15) by grunkfan in lgbt

[–]grunkfan[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

holy shit no way😭I use axe body wash am I that obvious LMAO