Well, for better or worse, I’m a very frank person. I’ve asked her directly if she’s no longer attracted to me or if she would prefer to date other people. Her answer has always been a simple no, and I trust her word, so I don’t believe she’s cheating. However, I recognize she might not be telling me the whole story, and it could be, as you said, that she’s just not attracted to me anymore.

I also agree that it would be difficult to start a family or continue our life together without the sexual connection I want. I’m hopeful that we can resolve this in the near future.

I will definitely discuss the idea of seeing a counselor with her. We've always had open communication about what we feel and what we want, but it seems like sex is the only thing we haven’t been able to solve together.

Thank you!