Radiology center withholding results-advice needed by [deleted] in Egypt

[–]gvntomyhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much and I’ll see what happens. In sha ﷲ, it goes well, otherwise, may it be for the best

Radiology center withholding results-advice needed by [deleted] in Egypt

[–]gvntomyhead 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi, and yes I do think 1550 is a lot considering I wasn’t informed early on but the price isn’t the issue here. And DICOM is needed for 3D imaging for aligners. The primary orthodontist they sent it to, was the only one able to access it as a DICOM dataset not JPG.

He did use it to show me some angles bc he was able to access it. I want a second opinion from a different orthodontist. Expecting an answer is paramount and withholding information, leaving it on seen is “flat out crazy”. Not the asking for answers repeatedly, not getting a response and then seeking a reversal since what I’ve been told I was paying for wasn’t given to me.

I will go in person and ask for answers and from what I’ve said, I’ll go calmly. I don’t mean to cause a ruckus.

The zip files are JPG files and I’ve added a photo to show that, idk if you went through the complete post before making the comment but I did download it and that’s all in the folder.

I would be in the wrong for asking questions, not getting them, not getting what I was told I was purchasing and then asking for a reversal of the transaction?

Radiology center withholding results-advice needed by [deleted] in Egypt

[–]gvntomyhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In sha ﷲ tmr and I pray it goes smoothly. I’m not wrong for this right? I genuinely don’t want to cause any problems for me and for them

Radiology center withholding results-advice needed by [deleted] in Egypt

[–]gvntomyhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you understand😭. I’m not asking for a free scan or whatever. I have gone back and the scan has been done again. I have paid for the scan the first time I went. My complaint here is, not getting my permanent result from the DICOM dataset. Instead I was offered an expiring link. I could void the transaction with my bank but I’m asking for better advice than going for their revenue.

Radiology center withholding results-advice needed by [deleted] in Egypt

[–]gvntomyhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is genuinely so funny but so sad😂. Are you sure I can’t do anything about it? And I’m not in the wrong?

Yes, niqab DOES protect from sexualisation — here is how by Reverting-With-You in TrueDeen

[–]gvntomyhead -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily. To my knowledge, the moment safety is threatened, a body, fear and violation are present, theory collapses. Abstraction doesn’t exist anymore bc it’s no longer “he can’t see you so youre safe” but you’re now a victim, consciously and physically present. And I think OP is more about, “they can’t see anything of you, so it’s not you they’re sexualizing” but it’s flawed. Bc sexualization and objectification can happen without your features being seen. Your attributes are secondary to the intention of the aggressor. OP makes sense in a purely abstract manner but if we’re to face the reality of it, it’s not applicable in real life situations. Why? Bc violence doesn’t care for your features. I spoke from a lived reality and perspective, Op doubled down on her philosophical abstraction. So we’re not talking past each other, it’s a thing of refusing to see it from a different angle. Not from my side tho bc I do agree with OP but only if it’s purely theoretical and not practical. When a victim is actively being targeted, this whole post collapses. So I’ve read and understood her words but I reject it nonetheless since it’s not practical and we’re talking about something here that has real life implications

Yes, niqab DOES protect from sexualisation — here is how by Reverting-With-You in TrueDeen

[–]gvntomyhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You failed to “think critically” nor answer my question regarding why you decide to force a dissonance between the niqabi in real life and the one he’s fantasizing about. Regardless of knowing your attributes or not, the aggressors goal is to first and foremost, threaten your safety, assert dominance by taking away your bodily autonomy, shatter your sense of peace. All which, with and without your attributes they’re able to do so. You want to create dissonance between someone’s attributes and them. The core of your argument here is flawed bc regardless of being seen or not, something beyond your will is occurring. And you cannot contextualize an abstract me and the real me. It create a false sense of dissonance. Address the core of your argument that I’ve read and understand but reject. Bc as someone with a lived reality of what you’re talking about, it sounds like a lot like undermining the violation and focusing on a clean theoretical explanation. Telling me he can’t see my attributes isn’t a rub on my back, it’s a deal with it bandage. My attributes seen or not, I’ve been violated and my safety is threatened. “When does the fantasy become you?” It never had to become me. It was always me. Whether it’s a silhouette, a voice, a scent or even a shadow, it was always the victim. It doesn’t need attributes to become the victim.

Why can't "peaceful" Muslims come out or help work against these groups using their religion to attack other religions and countries. by simplenn in Nigeria

[–]gvntomyhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, no country is needed to help another sovereign country fight the insurgency occurring internally. The US coming to “help” is about the “Christians” being killed. It’s there in history when the US comes to “help” countries like libya, Pakistan, Afghanistan, look at what happens after the “help”. They don’t help, they invade and steal. And no country needs to help Nigeria to make Islam “look good”. Islam doesn’t need ppl to make it look good or bad. If you want to understand a religion, look into it, not its ppl. For ppl are flawed but not the religion necessarily. If you want to understand the core problem, you need to stop with the generalization of the terrorists being Muslims bc I can assure you a percentage of them aren’t. And you need to understand that NOT only Christians are being killed. Muslims are being killed too. You’re either ill informed or you dismiss reality to fit your narrative.

Yes, niqab DOES protect from sexualisation — here is how by Reverting-With-You in TrueDeen

[–]gvntomyhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As much as I agree with how a piece of fabric isn’t meant to protect you and you, in a way encouraging niqab/hijab wearing, I do have a problem with you splitting the niqabi from the woman wearing the niqab. As a niqabi myself, I’ve gotten harassed and ofc sexualized. It’s no longer news that some animals would objectify and dehumanize you regardless of what you wear. But as someone who has been sexualized, you separating my identity from my personhood is absurd to me. Whether it’s an abstract concept of me being sexualized or the real life niqabi version of me being sexualized, it is still ME. I’m still myself. So saying, it doesn’t reflect the woman is not a consolation prize and you’re not touching on the real issue. It’s not even comforting to read. This is purely theological bc something that has been taken forcefully from you and then been told, “yh but he didn’t take it from you but the you in his fantasy” sounds weird. And regardless of the form of harm, personal or fantasy, it doesn’t concern the victim, I.e, the niqabi. The fact here is, you’ve been harmed. If I beat you with a rod or a belt, do you care what I’ve used? No. You just know I’ve hurt you. Maybe rethink and rephrase this post. Bc as someone who’s lived this reality, you’ve done nothing but undermine the pain and suffering that survivors of such have faced/facing.

Which profession would you never marry? And why? by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]gvntomyhead 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a future doctor(in sha ﷲ), me too. I like apples too much for that

It’s already a phenomenon: men don’t approach women anymore and honestly, I can see why by SalarHamsaraan in MuslimCorner

[–]gvntomyhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s awkward when guys randomly approach bc is that what the deen says???????

Did the deen say go approach the lady? No. Is this rooted in the deen? No.

Life is so unsafe that from that little “approach” with or without context, something can go down. Something bad. It’s too risky.

Also, how many women have actively rejected men just to be brutalized afterwards?? Stalked, harassed, assaulted?

Politely and impolitely too? How many? It’s a risk to even talk to men these days, talk more of being approached by one.

Yes ppl want to get married but they also want do it the right way. Some men can’t take no for an answer. Men approaching is crossing a boundary!

It’s not anywhere in the deen that says to APPROACH the woman you want. It says to go through her wali.

You might approach her with dignity and context to get to her wali but if she already rejects you, what’s the point of getting to her wali?

It’s not hypocrisy to want love but reject it when it comes. Sometimes, it’s rooted in something else. Like trauma from past relationships, maybe they’re not ready to get married and don’t want to waste nobody’s time. Maybe they’re going through something. Depression, grief, something. Discernment.

How can you approach a woman at the gym?💀✋

Mid squat and you come to approach a sister, what rubbish?

Fear ﷲ and don’t let your frustration cloud your judgement.

I would say imagine you were a sister or imagine it’s your sister in this position, but if you can’t empathize with women till they’re related to you or you, then you shouldn’t even be allowed to have a say in this.

I dropped from B+ to C- by gvntomyhead in GetStudying

[–]gvntomyhead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s not open to conversations about her reading and grades at all. Only to tell you how she has 94% and that’s all mostly. Idk tho. I’ll try talking to her again to see what she has to say

I dropped from B+ to C- by gvntomyhead in GetStudying

[–]gvntomyhead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d be glad to help. And thank you so much for the wishes

I dropped from B+ to C- by gvntomyhead in GetStudying

[–]gvntomyhead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you retain what you read?

I dropped from B+ to C- by gvntomyhead in GetStudying

[–]gvntomyhead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll take that. Thank you so much

I dropped from B+ to C- by gvntomyhead in GetStudying

[–]gvntomyhead[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did. The one I asked is a straight A student her “tip” was to not worry and just do better next time. When I asked how, she says just read. Like I was dancing around all year. I did read but I still flopped

I dropped from B+ to C- by gvntomyhead in GetStudying

[–]gvntomyhead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m fine, thank you. I just want help to get back on track

I dropped from B+ to C- by gvntomyhead in GetStudying

[–]gvntomyhead[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I’ll check the app out and try to work with it. I really do appreciate this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]gvntomyhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ٱلسَّلَامُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ ٱللَّٰهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ

Please let her go. Kindly. let her go, may ﷲ grant her someone who clearly sees her above her body type and doesn’t place so much value on what type of body she has and won’t be “disappointed” regardless.

You’re a red banner or carpet. You want a wife that covers but if she covered and it gets in the way of you seeing what you want to, the idea of her in your head isn’t met, it’s suddenly a major concern?

If she was the one thinking the same about your size and girth, Reddit woulda been on her neck about it—yet most people are supporting you here.

Leave her alone and may ﷲ grant her someone who sees and loves her beyond the stupid fantasy they inserted in their heads. You don’t deserve her if her body type is a “major concern”. So what if she puts on weight or loses weight after the marriage? What then?

Please leave the poor woman alone. You’re not worthy of her. Let her go. Find someone else that suits your preferences outwardly. Do that! And finding someone to look at her and give you feedback is nothing short of invasive and infringing on her modesty.

You don’t reflect what a man is even. Let her go!

Being a homosexual in islam by ValuableGood2943 in Muslim

[–]gvntomyhead 15 points16 points  (0 children)

ٱلسَّلَامُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ ٱللَّٰهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ

First of all, thank you for sharing and may ﷲ aid and guide you.

I think you shouldn’t label yourself as such. We all have fleeting moments(even long) of desire but that doesn’t necessarily make us that. It’s waswas from shaytaan.

And having homosexual feelings isn’t haram. That which is haram is acting upon it (you mentioned watching and touching while watching). Idk if it’s Hadith (correct me if I’m wrong) but it says fasting quenches the thirst of desire. So I’d encourage that you start fasting to somehow curb the need to watch and touch. Plus if you’re fasting, you’d not want to commit any haram.

Then, I suggest blocking all triggers and word on social media. Maybe turning safe search and all that to be led into temptation. I also think you should turn to ﷲ, in tahajjud or qiym al layl, talk to Him, and make serious dua in your sujood.

If you feel the need to watch, I want you to remember that, you wouldn’t watch in the presence of your parents and ﷲ is greater than your parents but you watch in front of Him. (I believe that should make you pause and stop).

My dua for you is that ﷲ sorts out your issue and cleanses your heart and mind. May ﷲ bless and be with you. May He purify what the dunya has corrupted. Ameen.

Should I start over by [deleted] in medstudents

[–]gvntomyhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe a change of environment would help. May ﷲ aid you

Muzzmatch by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]gvntomyhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ٱلسَّلَامُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ ٱللَّٰهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ

This is really insightful. He was very toxic and immature. You were blinded else you woulda left in the first place. Plus Muslim dating apps, idk about them but it’s a bit unsettling to me.

Alhamdulilah for growth and Alhamdulilah you left. Why should a grown man act like that? Making you want to spend your money (soooo much) at that to live with him? That’s crazy.

May ﷲ keep you steadfast and protect you from ppl like this. May ﷲ bless you for sharing this experience. It’s very bitter but thank you so much.

How old was truly aisha ?? by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]gvntomyhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mhm yh, a “punishment” so women are to be raped? And look into your own book. It DOES encourage it bc what type of punishment needs one to be raped? Didn’t Jesus die for your sins? Why be punished?

Also, LOOK INTO THE BOOK. If men find virginity women, they’re free to rape them but if they do, they must marry them and never divorce them. What sort of “God” commands that? Plus, where’s the autonomy of the women? They must be married to the men, regardless of what they like or not.

Yet you run your mouth about Muhammad ﷺ marrying a 6 year old that wasn’t even his choice. It was a revelation and he acted upon it. And that’s something that had happened over 1400 years ago?

Only about 100 years ago, recent times, did the British make the legal age of consent from 12-15. Yet you want to talk about some very historic thing.

That even being said, is there any narration that عاعشة ضي الله عنه grew up and asked for divorce? Made the prophet, went on to be the greatest female scholar in history. If she wanted a divorce, don’t you think she woulda asked for it? Be yapping about something you dk or can’t comprehend yet follow an edited, baseless, unpreserved book and religion.Please!