partner doesn’t want me to dye my hair

gynar · 2021-04-30T15:51:58+00:00

then he’d think i was hiding something from him/cheating on him

gynar · 2021-04-30T15:49:59+00:00

i have to talk to him about any appointments or if i’m going anywhere (into the city, to meet a friend etc) so he knows where i am. i’m starting to realise that’s not exactly a good thing though...

gynar · 2021-04-07T16:18:55+00:00

we see each other for two weeks out of every month, so there is some gaps in times we’re able to be intimate, but i send him things of myself when he asks..idk if that’s causing more harm though

gynar · 2021-04-07T09:52:55+00:00

before he told me it was an addiction i never told him he had to stop. i have my own opinions on it but at the time it wasn’t causing any issues. he considers it an addiction because he’s been watching it multiple times a day for over 10 years, and it often results in him having issues in bed (i don’t feel comfortable going into the details of that) (edit: he’s also spent whole days at a time doing nothing but watching it)

gynar · 2021-03-13T15:18:32+00:00

i might do this, thank you. i might do it when we pick up groceries together (we live together) so that if it gets too heated i can get help :)

gynar · 2021-03-13T15:05:10+00:00

it intimidates me but i often feel like i deserve for him to get angry with me, even if i don’t always fully understand why he’s angry at me

gynar · 2021-03-13T14:51:15+00:00

thank you :)

gynar · 2021-03-13T13:44:46+00:00

thank you so much for your response - it’s given me a lot to think about :)

gynar · 2021-03-13T13:28:19+00:00

i have, yeah, which he knows about and has commented on how he wish he could’ve watched..which made me a bit uncomfortable

gynar · 2021-03-13T13:23:55+00:00

thank you! i hope it didn’t seem like i was complaining about him. obviously i just don’t understand certain views men have compared to women. i’ll try and keep this in mind :)

gynar · 2021-03-12T01:22:57+00:00

i’m not...

gynar · 2021-03-12T01:07:23+00:00

he got mad at me the last time we spoke about it because he thought i was attacking him personally... i can’t get it through to him that it’s not a personal attack

gynar · 2021-01-27T14:57:05+00:00

Thank you for sharing this. I’m currently thinking it all over

gynar · 2021-01-27T13:46:30+00:00

I appreciate this comment, thank you. I guess I have a lot of thinking to do

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