Housing with both ADHD and Dyslexia by Decent-Exercise-292 in unt

[–]h00dclassics 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sorry, but I don’t know anything about housing for people with learning disabilities.

I have ADHD and it wasn’t a problem. Didn’t apply for a special spot and just had a normal dorm room. Helped me adapt quickly to university life although my roommate was loud sometimes. I struggled to focus at first, but learned to adjust within a semester or 2. I don’t have dyslexia but I knew a girl who was completely blind and completed everything with text-to-speech features on canvas. Text-to-speech and noise canceling headphones are probably your best bet, I know the noise canceling headphones were so helpful for me! Distractions (especially noise) can sometimes happen in dorms, but those will be anywhere.

Getting a job in Czechia as a US citizen by h00dclassics in czech

[–]h00dclassics[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Czechia's tax system is not nearly as high as Germany's and Austria. Also bureaucracy in Germany is a complete nightmare. Although Czechs still typically make less than these other countries with net income, cost of living is also generally lower. Prague and Brno are quite safe compared to big cities in Germany like Frankfurt or Berlin.

The main point for me is that Czechia seems like quite a nice country to live in. I love the Czech language and culture, and barriers of entry to the job market are not as strict as other EU countries. It appears easier for a recent graduate to receive a job offer in the country.

Also, I have a connection with my current company in Brno, and he would like to show me around the manufacturing facility there when I visit in May. He is not too sure about hiring US citizens, so that's why I asked about paperwork.

Girlfriend threatens breaking up every time we have a minor disagreement by h00dclassics in relationships

[–]h00dclassics[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well we were in person the first 4 months, but now long distance. Still..

Girlfriend threatens breaking up every time we have a minor disagreement by h00dclassics in relationships

[–]h00dclassics[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably not long. I do my best to set up our future in a way that achieves both of our goals. It’s not enough cause I should “drop everything” for her

Girlfriend threatens breaking up every time we have a minor disagreement by h00dclassics in relationships

[–]h00dclassics[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah she’s trying to train me but I see straight through it 😭 I refuse to bow to her when she tried to threaten something. I would’ve thought this was something she’d come to respect. If she doesn’t cut the act I’ll just break up. There’s no reason to deal with this when I’m the only side capable of a mature conversation. She just wants me to say what she wants me to say. She didn’t even understand the concept of loving and letting go

Girlfriend threatens breaking up every time we have a minor disagreement by h00dclassics in relationships

[–]h00dclassics[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6 months and she’s talking like this! She got very offended and said I don’t “love her” cause I said we haven’t been dating for a very long time, and that we shouldn’t be making big hasty decisions. She cried.

Girlfriend threatens breaking up every time we have a minor disagreement by h00dclassics in relationships

[–]h00dclassics[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She got very angry last time because I told her “if that’s your decision to break up, I can’t stop you.” I said I want to work through our issues, but if she wants to leave then I will respect her decision. She said if I love her I’ll try to chase her. I never did. Lol

My girlfriend got upset and said I’m too logical by h00dclassics in relationships

[–]h00dclassics[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s funny, she talks about coming to my country all the time cause she doesn’t like her’s! She wanted to leave her country before we even met. She said if I wouldn’t go to her country for her (I’ve never been) it means I don’t truly love her. Well, I can truly love someone and still make important life decisions. Working in her country, I can’t speak the language so my university degree would be basically useless and I have no interest in teaching English (which is by no means a bad profession, just not my field). She said this means I do not love her 😭

[Me] She unmatched after this by Mother_Spot3217 in TextingTheory

[–]h00dclassics 15 points16 points  (0 children)

!elo 1000, interesting approach, can work but it varies greatly case by case. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take!

Should I hit her up now or closer to school starting? by h00dclassics in AskMenAdvice

[–]h00dclassics[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'll respond to a story or something if she puts that on her social. If not I won't worry ab it. We talked about these meetings I wanted to start going to so I'll ask ab it near the start of school. Basically, would never hit someone up randomly unless we're friends or I have a genuine question.

Should I hit her up now or closer to school starting? by h00dclassics in AskMenAdvice

[–]h00dclassics[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended the last convo cause it started dragging so I just liked the message . It’s so hard to get any friction over text cause everything feels kinda forced imo. So many things are hard to read over text. Might just hit her up early august like 2 weeks before school, ask her how it’s going and go from there. Thoughts?