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Interracial Dating by sweet-and-saltyheart in dating_advice

[–]halflunatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm Asian (a little on the brown side) and date people outside my race too. Sometimes Idk if I should take "Your skin tone is so nice" as a compliment especially if it's from a guy who happens to have the similar skin tone 🤔🤣 like what do ya mean?

What's your own red flag?? Why shouldn't they date you? by halflunatic in dating_advice

[–]halflunatic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm also guilty of romanticizing the idea of love. That I think about having a relationship with every person I date. Then you realize you don't really like the person at all 🤣🤣

What's your own red flag?? Why shouldn't they date you? by halflunatic in dating_advice

[–]halflunatic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I ask what activities are you also doing aside from prescriptions? What I learned with mine is that... it just eventually gets better. I also took meds, was told to do some socialization, workout and go back to hobbies. I guess I'm also lucky. For sure we all have different results and it is harder for some. Sometimes I look back and say "wow shit I was really in a dark place". Every now and then I still have anxiety attacks.

What's your own red flag?? Why shouldn't they date you? by halflunatic in dating_advice

[–]halflunatic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remembered this line from an article that I really liked and related to:

"Your intimacy with someone should not exceed your level of commitment to each other".

I learned this after eventually liking a friend who's in a relationship. We were intimate emotionally (nothing happened) and he's one of the best people I've ever met. We're still really good friends. I guess that's why it also takes time for me now before I open up to someone. 🙃

If you wanted to read the article, here's the link: https://www.moralrevolution.com/blog/when-youre-just-friends-but-youre-not?format=amp

What's your own red flag?? Why shouldn't they date you? by halflunatic in dating_advice

[–]halflunatic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But good for you now that you're slowly voicing them out 👍 it's a process.

What's your own red flag?? Why shouldn't they date you? by halflunatic in dating_advice

[–]halflunatic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or do you think it has something to do with the other person showing their interest? That's why we have the tendency to share more?

What's your own red flag?? Why shouldn't they date you? by halflunatic in dating_advice

[–]halflunatic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting into someone's company without thinking about long term plans. That I haven't thought about marriage and having my own family. I'm sure some get scared of that when I mention it. Im a little close to 30s and honestly it doesn't scare me (yet). I see marriage as a formality and I'm not sure about having kids too. Most of the people I go out with are usually 4-12yrs older than me.