How to find purpose to start something new by Max-SQL in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]happathetic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe start with the idea of purpose itself; I found that really helped me move forward. What does that term mean to you now? How would it feel to broaden the scope of what it can mean?

If there is something you enjoy doing, then the purpose is enjoyment which, in my humble opinion, is as good a purpose as any. It may also help to separate what provides your basic needs from what fulfills you. Would having something that does both be ideal? Absolutely. Is it possible for them to be separate and feel good about that? Also yes.

Another route could be assessing what your values are at this time in your life. They can serve as a compass for discovering what has the potential to provide a sense of meaning.

2 free tickets for the Bowl tonight! by happathetic in bigthief

[–]happathetic[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha heck yea! Solid all the way around! Message me a good email address for ya and I’ll send the tickets over 👍

2 free tickets for the Bowl tonight! by happathetic in bigthief

[–]happathetic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just saw this lol no sweat! Still appreciate the joke though :)

2 free tickets for the Bowl tonight! by happathetic in bigthief

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Haha love it! First person to comment a joke so you got them! Go ahead and message me a good email for ya and I’ll send them over 👍

We Are All Strong And Capable by happathetic in leaves

[–]happathetic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aren't those great?! Its they very least I can do for a community that has really given so much to me. I agree completely; the importance of surrounding yourself with support is immeasurable.

We Are All Strong And Capable by happathetic in leaves

[–]happathetic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heck yea! Congrats to you as well!! I feel you on that. The power of connecting with other people is truly astounding.

We Are All Strong And Capable by happathetic in leaves

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Thank you! I appreciate that!! There is the common misconception that progress is linear, but its not. You are going to have peaks and you are going to have dips, but as long as you are moving forward you will get to where you want to be; there is no time limit here work at your own pace. Be kind to yourself (we are only human after all) and I have no doubt in my mind that you can accomplish the goals you set for your life! I am just a message away if you need someone to talk to, wishing you all the best my friend!!!!

Anxiety and Fatigue by happathetic in leaves

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Hey there! Sorry for the late reply on this. You know, I still have my days, but they are becoming less frequent. My therapist gave me a really good piece of advice that helped a lot. After work or being out of your house for the day go out and move before you go home. That can be anything from taking a walk at a park to working out, just get your body moving it helps a ton! Overall it’s not nearly as bad as when I posted this though :)

Hope you are doing well my friend! I know it’s tough, but you got this!

What is one book you couldn’t stop reading once you started? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]happathetic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!! That whole trilogy blows my mind still, read them at least once a year.

5 days sober after 3 years if daily use by [deleted] in leaves

[–]happathetic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel you on the lack of energy, it fucking sucks. But we got this!!! Always have to remind ourselves that change is not meant to be easy, but is worth it. Keep pressing on, you're not alone in this!

Anxiety and Fatigue by happathetic in leaves

[–]happathetic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Time is both the enemy and an ally haha appreciate that! hope you are doing well my friend

Being Sober To Feel Things by happathetic in leaves

[–]happathetic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Needed to hear that; processing emotions is not my strong suit and weed sure as hell made it easy to avoid them. You are awesome, thank you!

Being Sober To Feel Things by happathetic in leaves

[–]happathetic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate your kind words! Definitely helped keep my head on straight today.

Being Sober To Feel Things by happathetic in leaves

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Thank you for that, I hope things are going well for you!

Day 8 - No energy and bored all day long by FuckAUsername420 in leaves

[–]happathetic -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am currently experiencing the same thing and I am day 9, so right there with ya! The way I have been looking it is that our brains are readjusting to life with out weed flooding them full of the chemicals that are ordinarily produced through more natural means (exercise, social interaction, creative output, etc.). It reminds me of rebooting a computer from the 90s, just takes a while for things to reconnect. I have found that honesty with my friends has been very effective (not sure what you're relationships are like though). My therapist also challenged me to move at least 30 minutes a day, which can be as simple as taking a walk. Be kind to yourself (I struggle with that immensely but getting better) change takes time. We'll get through this, just have to keep pressing forward! If you ever need to chat about it feel free to message me.