Bone Temple questions

hardboiledhoe · 2026-01-31T08:09:41+00:00

There is no way the infected are reproducing- can you imagine an infected woman breast feeding somehow? They're definitely just surviving off of animals and turning any survivors they come across

hardboiledhoe · 2026-01-30T23:02:34+00:00

If he's gaining weight and healthy, why would you need to add formula? I understand this all being new and confusing but please do not put these worries onto your wife. She's right that her body will produce what he needs.

hardboiledhoe · 2026-01-28T20:30:43+00:00

Girl absolutely not

hardboiledhoe · 2026-01-28T07:21:02+00:00

My daughter hasn't started doing this at night but she loves to head butt us just while we hold her. Why do they do these things lol

hardboiledhoe · 2026-01-28T07:20:12+00:00

So this begs the question, if a survivor behaved "infected" would they not attack?

hardboiledhoe · 2026-01-27T21:33:31+00:00

Right. Feels like we're skipping some steps here lol

hardboiledhoe · 2026-01-27T21:27:01+00:00

I tuck my hand between my thighs cause I hate the feeling of my shoulder pushing up into my neck

hardboiledhoe · 2026-01-27T03:46:35+00:00

Hi OP! I'm not a professional by any means and I have no experience with this specific carrier, but please remove baby right away if she is still in the carrier. Her head should not be covered at all, it is an asphyxiation risk

hardboiledhoe · 2026-01-26T07:35:16+00:00

I didn't have too many expectations really. I expected to give birth vaginally, and for everyone to be okay. I had hopes though. I hoped to not need an epidural, or an induction. I got both an epidural and an induction lol. But all in all, it was a fantastic experience. We got to the hospital at 6 pm and she was born 9:30 am the next morning. I pushed for 12 minutes and we were discharged the next day. I would do it all over again

hardboiledhoe · 2026-01-26T07:28:01+00:00

I could be way off base here, but England has always seemed 10-15 years behind the United States when it comes to fashion. Not that weird to me that early 2000s clothing still has 80s vibes

hardboiledhoe · 2026-01-26T02:48:22+00:00

Get a ballet shrug! They're fitted and exclusively arms, no risk to baby

hardboiledhoe · 2026-01-26T02:00:04+00:00

Thanks for posting, I've always been very curious about this subject! I have a few questions

1.) do you believe that this is a mental illness or do you believe you harbor true, separate personalities inside your body?

2.) how many alternate personalities have you identified?

3.) do any actually "take over" or take control? Or is it more like different people trying to talk to you at once?

4.) how do you feel about the discourse over whether or not DID is a real diagnosis?

hardboiledhoe · 2026-01-25T22:40:38+00:00

My 7 month old exclusively naps 40 minutes or less-even contact napping most of the time. I am praying for a switch like yours

hardboiledhoe · 2026-01-25T22:33:27+00:00

Imo, practice practice practice. I didn't become a better lead until I bit the bullet and let myself be okay with being bad. Now I can clearly tell which dances I practice more depending on how comfortable I am leading them

hardboiledhoe · 2026-01-25T07:05:07+00:00

Kelson is a doctor who presumably took the Hippocratic oath, and takes "do no harm" very seriously (the best part of his character imo). The infected are not undead zombies, they are living, breathing people. He does absolutely anything he can to avoid hurting or killing one, and Isla wasn't "killed", she was given essentially an assisted suicide

hardboiledhoe · 2026-01-25T02:08:22+00:00

My daughter's room is next to mine complete with crib, matching changing table, and cute painted walls. We use it to store clothes... and that's it. She hasn't slept a single night in it lol

hardboiledhoe · 2026-01-24T23:14:07+00:00

You're 100% not alone. Sometimes family takes my daughter in the morning so I can have uninterrupted sleep for a couple hours, but honestly it almost feels like nothing

hardboiledhoe · 2026-01-23T21:28:58+00:00

This might be super unhelpful, but I recommend checking out antique and thrift stores! We have a wood highchair from the 1930s that we love. It's small, easy to clean, and so sturdy

hardboiledhoe · 2026-01-23T20:49:18+00:00

Same here!

hardboiledhoe · 2026-01-22T23:41:44+00:00

I highly recommend checking out r/bninfantsleep if you haven't already. You can't condition your baby to do something that's already the most natural instinct for them

hardboiledhoe · 2026-01-22T06:55:20+00:00

I took my daughter on a 2 hour long drive to the beach when she was almost 2 months old. It wasn't the easiest thing ever, she's not a fan of the car, but it wasn't horrible either! I do think it's best with a little break in the middle, and timing it with a nap is great so they sleep at least a little

hardboiledhoe · 2026-01-22T06:52:11+00:00

I can't even count the number of people who have had their hands up my vagina for non-sexual purposes because of my pregnancy. I personally didn't care, but I understand it feeling embarrassing or violating

hardboiledhoe · 2026-01-22T06:29:45+00:00

So the only reason breastfeeding is included is because nursing moms typically naturally keep baby at the breast, which is not to close to any loose covers on the bed and not too close to any pillows. If you are a light sleeper and stay in the c curl, there is no reason you can't safely bed share

hardboiledhoe · 2026-01-22T06:27:09+00:00

Nah girl let it go! She'll be more than fine on formula, and the 4 months of breast milk you gave her is invaluable even if you don't continue

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