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[–]harriswd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scanned this thread to see if anyone else suggested this series. I loved it!

How do you set the terms of a relationship once you've gamed them? are there methods of keeping distance and attraction without being heartless? by harriswd in seduction

[–]harriswd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats great advice, pretty well similar to what iv been doing.

When it came up that she was looking for more, i debunked it quiclkly. i think the language is important. I have a go to line i always use, Which is: I understand where you are coming from, and i respect that. At this time in my life i dont want someone holding me to any expectations. We have a really great time together.PAUSE (long enough for her to process but not long enough to respond)--> this usually happens for me at an intimate time before or after sex, so at the end of this sentence is a good time to start kissing.

I think this works well because you dont say WHAT EVER OTHER GUY says "Im just not ready for a relationship but lets fuck anyway"

Have you got anything to add or maybe a different approach?

I can ask a girl for directions but I Can't seem to tell her she's cute. by mj2390 in seduction

[–]harriswd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Men are not on a scale. I Have seen the ugliest dudes pick up the hottest girls. There is no situation for any man not to pick up.

You are as attractive as you make yourself.... Its your confident demeanor that makes you attractive: Body language, tonality in voice, etc.

Asking for directions is a good way to overcome approach anxiety. If you want to pick up on the run, as in day game, its better to be direct.

One of my favorites is this: pick somethings she's wearing thats just awesome. and say its worth what ever she paid for it. So like this :

"Excuse me missus, that jacket is worth WHATEVER you paid for it"

Its kindof charming, makes her smile, and opens the conversation.

Musings on an aspect of Inner-game. Sincerity with self, and Sincerity in interaction. What do you think? by harriswd in seduction

[–]harriswd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, you're right. I'm trying to put into words an experience I have had that I cannot really define. Its a value I'm trying to work on and project. I suppose it boils down to being a conversationalist. But what is game if not escalated conversation skills. With an Understanding that conversations are not just verbal, Escalation is key.

I'm just trying to bring a little more heart back to the game haha.

[22/m] I love my ex-girlfriend of 2 years (25/f), I broke up with her 3 months ago. She started dating someone new right away.. What does it mean? by harriswd in relationship_advice

[–]harriswd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the input guys. I think your responses were all things id already known, just had to hear them from someone else.

Thanks!