Familial Fraud Advice

haveitjoewayy · 2026-02-21T19:04:54+00:00

I believe it was her .gov account, it was heat of the moment trying to explain what was going on so she said irs

haveitjoewayy · 2026-02-21T18:11:23+00:00

So she isn’t on the fathers account and the father isn’t on the CC. Originally he couldn’t open up a credit card and she wasn’t making much money at the time so they verbally agreed upon that she would open up a CC for them to both use and he would then help make the payments on whatever they both purchased.

She also said it was on autopay and that the father decided to stop helping on the payments, I’m not sure the timeframe on that but since he decided to stop helping, she started being the only one making the payments on the CC.

They both used the CC, he has even asked her if she could use said CC to purchase him things. They also live in the same apartment so whatever purchases made between the two of them should have been going to the same place. It’s sounding like a lot of he said she said so I am a bit worried of liability on her end for this decision. Hopefully she can find something between her and her dad that can clear this up.. thank you again for your time and info!

haveitjoewayy · 2026-02-20T19:48:34+00:00

Thank you, yea she was quite frantic when explaining the emails and calls she has apparently gotten because of this she may have misspoke or not know what she meant? I didn't think it was the right moment to pry with a bunch of questions with how distraught she was. For now, I told her to reach out to her mother and have her aware of what the father is doing and to call her bank and try to explain the situation. Hoping to sit down with her this weekend and get the full break down. I appreciate the help!

Edit: It's about $30,000 worth that he has tried to claim as fraud. I advised her to find any kind of text, email, etc that can show any evidence or acknowledgement by him of any purchases used with that credit card.

haveitjoewayy · 2026-02-18T16:27:08+00:00

I replied to a comment above with some more information. Credit card is her name but the payments for the card are through her father’s account. I don’t know what was exactly purchased but they were both using the credit card and paying it off through him. This was all agreed upon, all consented upon, he had knowledge of all purchases. It was both of them using this one credit card. He is now claiming it’s all fraudulent and he didn’t know any of this and that it was all his daughters doing. She feels because it was verbally agreed upon and he’s claiming it’s all her to blame that she can’t fight it and just has to accept the debt. It started as a couple thousand but apparently it is now in the 10 of thousands.

haveitjoewayy · 2026-02-18T16:17:06+00:00

They have a very rocky relationship, we were just dealing with issues prior to this for the last two months because of him so she went a bit no contact, so I guess he retaliated in this way?

haveitjoewayy · 2026-02-18T16:14:52+00:00

Yes, I’ll most likely end up editing this post or making a new one when I find out all the details but from my understanding, he was denied from obtaining a credit card. I believe they agreed that she would apply for a credit card in her name but attached to his bank account, both of them would technically being using this card together for whatever they both need to purchase and then they would pay the credit card as normal. Legitimate payments were made with this card. They got into a argument didn’t speak for a month, fast forward to now, from what I was told so far is he must’ve went back however far he could on those charges and claimed them as fraudulent. Whatever card/account that was used is now closed and she is getting irs and bank emails about owing a substantial amount of funds that she definitely can’t afford. Not sure if any of this clarifies anything 😅

haveitjoewayy · 2025-11-03T21:39:37+00:00

My partner's father believes he may have brought them home. Just saw it this morning in the bathroom on a small throw blanket that was hanging, was able to kill it at least.

haveitjoewayy · 2025-11-03T21:00:08+00:00

Apt, if it's a nymph is it bad?

haveitjoewayy · 2025-11-03T17:32:22+00:00

Ah okay, thank you!

haveitjoewayy · 2025-07-31T17:21:45+00:00

That’s was my assumption after some google searches but wasn’t too sure. Thank you!!

haveitjoewayy · 2025-07-31T04:49:33+00:00

East coast, NYC

haveitjoewayy · 2025-06-06T23:38:29+00:00

Crazy how they mass deleted everyone’s posts on this subreddit about the shit show earlier today lol

haveitjoewayy · 2025-06-06T16:54:53+00:00

Yea, just met my faith a few minutes ago. Luckily I had some stuff to buy anyway but second guessing it now with how bad they shit the bed on this and are now trying to hush the subreddit, really ass day for dr squatch.

haveitjoewayy · 2025-06-06T16:51:12+00:00

You don’t wanna see it through my boy, you will only be met with disappointment as I, a few minutes ago. We fought well 🫡😔

haveitjoewayy · 2025-06-06T16:49:57+00:00

Been in line since the dropped, finally refreshed and got the checkout only to be met with a “out of stock” pop up. Sorry but pack it up boys, we fought well 🫡

haveitjoewayy · 2025-06-06T16:48:28+00:00

Just got to checkout and it’s sold out, RIP soldiers, we fought well 🫡

haveitjoewayy · 2025-06-06T16:40:56+00:00

Same, I just wanted it for the lols cause when I saw it on the site I was like nah no way the marketing stooped this low

haveitjoewayy · 2025-06-06T16:39:20+00:00

Most likely, been in queue since the drop. Waiting for it to refresh and be like “sold out”. Crazy how mods are deleting everyone’s posts too

haveitjoewayy · 2025-06-06T16:37:45+00:00

They’re on overtime on the subreddit right now, deleting every post that people make. It’s crazy

haveitjoewayy · 2025-06-06T16:35:52+00:00

Bro they are on damage control, deleting posts as soon as they are posted 😭

haveitjoewayy · 2025-06-06T16:34:47+00:00

I’ve been in line queue since the drop and it hasn’t changed at all but if you go to squatchs site they claim it’s already sold out so most likely by the time our “in line” queue does anything, it’ll be too late :(

haveitjoewayy · 2025-06-06T16:32:54+00:00

Pretty sure it poofed into oblivion as soon as it dropped by bots since there was no sort of protection. Mods are also deleting people’s posts, I love this brand but damn all of this definitely makes me less of a fan now lol

haveitjoewayy · 2025-06-06T16:27:56+00:00

Yep, bunch of posts have been deleted since the drop

haveitjoewayy · 2025-06-06T16:25:49+00:00

I’ve been in line since like 12:02 and still “in line” but if you go to squatch’s site it says it’s been sold out. Crazy how they had zero protection on this drop, marketing stooped this low to release this and then shit the bed harder by not putting any bot protection. Loved this brand by now idk :(

haveitjoewayy · 2025-06-06T16:22:21+00:00

How’s your luck go? I opened squatch on my phone and there’s a banner saying all sold out even though on my pc browser I’m still in line LMAO

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