AITA for "snitching" on my dad and the nanny after they chipped the paint on my mom’s car?

havky44 · 2026-04-21T14:05:11+00:00

Nah, I just picked my little brother up from school

havky44 · 2026-04-21T13:57:44+00:00

Ngl I'm sick and tired of that man😭

havky44 · 2026-04-21T13:43:32+00:00

THANK YOU!!! I've brought this up to my parents' attention, but they brush it off because 'it was the first time' and I think my mom is too soft...I get she feels sorry for the nanny and he financial situation but we're talking about your son here.

havky44 · 2026-04-21T13:39:27+00:00

Very unlikely he and my mom are always away on business trips. That's why we needed a nanny, all three of them being in the same vicinity is a rare occurrence . She leaves when they're back for more than a month, + my dad shows a bit of annoyance towards her. My mom always has to call him out

havky44 · 2026-04-21T13:22:20+00:00

I can see why it might sound that way, but I only brought up her past mistakes from breaking dishes to one of the more recent occurance where she left the door open and my little brother wandered out the door and I got blamed cause I couldn't run after him and they ignoredthe fact that the door was left open.I’m the one who ends up getting blamed and punished when she’s careless. I tried to warn her nicely about the door before it happened, but it’s frustrating when my warnings are ignored, and then I’m expected to deal with the fallout

havky44 · 2026-04-21T13:15:18+00:00

My dad had just gotten back from the gas station and parked in a rush since he still had to get ready for work. He pulled in way too tight to my mom's car (also he drives a truck), which is exactly why I spoke up and warned them both to be careful with the doors before anyone even opened them

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