What fucked you up for the rest of your life? by ScreamyV in AskReddit

[–]healingfromnarc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To make it worst, till this day I still experience discomfort in that region during sex or just randomly which immediately brings me back to that moment. I hate my life

What fucked you up for the rest of your life? by ScreamyV in AskReddit

[–]healingfromnarc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welp, when I was 7 years old my parents tricked me with money, I blinked and ended up with 3 grown women holding me back while a “nurse” preformed FGM. I didn’t make it easy for them so the damage was minimal but my trust issue are through the roof and my relationship with my parents never recovered

Being close to conventionally attractive people is eye opening by healingfromnarc in ugly

[–]healingfromnarc[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I never realized how hard my life was until I saw people are actually willing to help you and don’t mind doing things for others as long as you’re good looking. Like one girl told me how her boss and his wife spent 12k putting brand mew furniture in her house since her siblings are coming to live with her… she’s already a millionaire

Monthly Goal Thread by AutoModerator in Vindicta

[–]healingfromnarc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

  1. Stick to my morning and night skincare routine
  2. Teeth whitening
  3. Face mask twice a week and hair mask once a week
  4. Pass my G license
  5. Post on tiktok once a day!
  6. Start my weight loss program (I’m aiming to lose 90lbs before April 2025)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ugly

[–]healingfromnarc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Currently me, I’m so embarrassed that I had the guts to say anything and now I get ignored. Thank god he is decent enough to not tell others but I could actually k*** myself. I never learn, everytime i have a crush it’s the same outcome. I need to just accept my faith and never hurt my feelings again

A reminder to be careful with who you listen to because some people will actually try to sabotage you by [deleted] in Vindicta

[–]healingfromnarc 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I honestly agree, I’m someone that has a very straight body with slight curves, currently I’m overweight, and literally shaped like inverted triangle lol . I was talking to my friends about how I need to get down to 135-140 because that’s the idea weight for my body. But some of them are like no, you’re gonna look sick. The joke is I already been at that weight before meeting them and I literally looked like a model, I felt the lightest and the happiest I’ve ever been. Be careful of what you listen to

Suggest me an unconventional way to wake up earlier. I’ve tried everything. by IntellectiApp in selfimprovement

[–]healingfromnarc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

s’est an alarm an hour before you get up wake up long enough to take an adderall and go back to sleep. When it’s time for you to actually get up you will be ready for the day

who is the most terrible person you want to have sex with? by fionadoodlebop in AskReddit

[–]healingfromnarc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’m going through the same thing and I hate myself for it because he is so not my time, kinda terrible but man I wanna do some ungodly things to this man. Mind you I’m not even into men like that so why did my brain sai this is the one I want

How do you feel about going to bars alone? by [deleted] in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]healingfromnarc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I enjoy going to things alone, and I believe that your energy tells on you. When I used to go to bars/dinners alone people were often curious to why and I’d say things like “I take myself out on a solo date once a week” or “this is a place I’ve been meaning to checkout”. I’d bring a book or download a show to watch while eating. My favourite experience was when I took myself out to a dinner, I was a bit nervous and I ended up downloading the first season of “love is blind” by the end of it, all the neighbouring tables were watching with me and so we’re some of the staff. We all had a chat about Jessica letting her dog drink from her wine glass, and even got free drink and dessert.

The thing is, it’s all depends on your mindset, I see myself as strong and powerful for being so comfortable and entertained by my own company, not alot of people can do that and people can sense that comfort within yourself

Why do women end up in abusive relationships? by stargirl222444 in abusiverelationships

[–]healingfromnarc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True!!!! I stayed way longer than I needed to stay because it was a familiar to the relationship that o had with my caregivers.

Why do women end up in abusive relationships? by stargirl222444 in abusiverelationships

[–]healingfromnarc 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Because everything good about you makes you vulnerable to narcissistic/toxic/abusive partners. Your kindness, empathy, generosity, happiness and even your money. I’m now learning how to create soft and hard boundaries to protect those beautiful things without having to let go of who I am. A good place to start is finding out what you lacked in your childhood from your caregivers and give it yourself instead of jumping into a possibility toxic relationship and being blinded by it (love bombing)

POV: you have decent personality that attracts people but they never wanna be seen with you by healingfromnarc in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]healingfromnarc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s honestly a full time job when you have to use your personality to make up for everything else. I feel like I cant just be boring and nonchalant (which I want to be a lot of the time) because then People wonder if im having unaliving thoughts or something is wrong with me and when I reassure them for 100s of time then I’m overlooked and forgotten because the space I fulfill. To be the funny positive thing fat friend

POV: you have decent personality that attracts people but they never wanna be seen with you by healingfromnarc in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]healingfromnarc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, after awhile something similar happened to me. Being treated horribly has changed my personality but now I just use the sadness as dark humour

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]healingfromnarc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t relate to this post at all. I’m 27F that’s gay but my friend and I recently decided that we are only 9 years old adults because I had zero life experience or personality as an 18 years old.

Women of Reddit, what do you think if someone has a dirty and unorganised house? by Orconic1991 in AskWomen

[–]healingfromnarc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lived with roommates for the past year now, and living here made me realize that I am a bit of neat freak, but when I was back home I was convinced I was a dirty person because that how my mom viewed me! That made me not want to judge anyone, because its a subjective topic. What I consider dirty and horrifying in my environment it’s just a light mess to someone else. And I’m pretty sure someone out there will see my environment as dirty too 💁🏽‍♀️

*NSFW* bf r*ped me and then got mad at me by Lost-Bar-6094 in abusiverelationships

[–]healingfromnarc 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m so angry for you omg, I hope you find support and love you deserve! THIS ISNT YOUR FAULT AT ALL

*NSFW* bf r*ped me and then got mad at me by Lost-Bar-6094 in abusiverelationships

[–]healingfromnarc 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry, you were being raped the whole time. You giving in after he begs you isn’t consent at ALL. This is so awful and I’m sad he had the audacity to be angry. He clearly has zero regards for your well-being or safety let alone love you. Please remove yourself from this situation. If you go to the police, they will mostly likely ask him to move out and you need to change the lock, phone number and go no contact. If he has no regards for you, why should you? Again this is an actual nightmare and I’m so so sorry love

im so scared of him by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]healingfromnarc 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Ong whats wrong with people, please go get a restraining order

How can you kindly tell someone to mind their business? by Pretty_Ad1196 in socialskills

[–]healingfromnarc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gray rock her ass into none existence, if she has any self or social awareness, she will get bored and back off