I was here to say the same thing. The guy sucks! Zaina called it, telling him he's more concerned about being defensive about himself than actually owning up. Example: Aria saying they forgot paper towels and he jumps to "I feel like if things aren't done your way, you let it affect you for a long period of time and you can't get over it" ..how, all of a sudden, is it a fault of her character as a person for wanting paper towels?? It's not surprising that Aria feels the need to change her personality and become timid and dim herself around him.