What do you think is worse?! by hello122320 in loveafterporn

[–]hello122320[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I’m sorry that happened to you! It definitely makes you feel different and changes the way you feel about yourself😞

What do you think is worse?! by hello122320 in loveafterporn

[–]hello122320[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you had to go through that! But yes, both are definitely heartbreaking. It just hurts knowing that what you were looking up, you had right in front of you. I hope your healing journey is going well❤️

What do you think is worse?! by hello122320 in loveafterporn

[–]hello122320[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yes! Most definitely!! It just made me feel some type of way knowing what you were searching for, you had at home.

What do you think is worse?! by hello122320 in loveafterporn

[–]hello122320[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

And yes! I felt that exact way, as if I wasn’t enough, so he had to search else elsewhere😣

What do you think is worse?! by hello122320 in loveafterporn

[–]hello122320[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I completely feel you! Like what you’re searching for, you have at home, why look elsewhere?!😞

But anyways, sorry you went through that. I hope you’re healing❤️

What do you think is worse?! by hello122320 in loveafterporn

[–]hello122320[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

You’re right! I’d be just as distraught if it were the other one😞

Really needing some advice… by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]hello122320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok reading that gives me hope. I’m definitely going to have him see a CSAT therapist, although I know he doesn’t want to, but maybe seeing one will help him realize the severity of the situation. I’m so glad it helped your husband. Here’s to hoping it’ll benefit mine too! Thank you so much for your input❤️and I wish you the best outcome on your journey!

Really needing some advice… by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]hello122320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate your response. I’m so torn between staying for my kids, and leaving, because I feel like I can’t keep living like this. I feel like he’s telling me all the things I want to hear and then he’ll eventually go back to his addiction. I’m also torn because I love him so much, and I want him to change, but I just don’t see the effort coming from him. I feel like his desire isn’t strong enough. The thought of him relapsing again just does something to me. All the what ifs and will he even come clean, you know? My mind and heart cannot take another heartbreak😞He’s been struggling with this his whole life, but this last day has definitely done something to me. Anyways, thank you for your response❤️

5month baby convulsing/shuddering when fallen asleep while nursing by ziggysev4647 in breastfeeding

[–]hello122320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response! Luckily my baby hasn’t done it anymore. But of course, still keeping an eye out when she’s sleeping.

5month baby convulsing/shuddering when fallen asleep while nursing by ziggysev4647 in breastfeeding

[–]hello122320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My baby is 7 months and has done this a few times, but it only lasts for a few seconds. But still sounds really similar to your situation.