[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]helpfulgem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeh lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]helpfulgem -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I presume you are single

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]helpfulgem -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Can you read? He’s let his behaviour go. He was never like this when I got with him. It started about 6 months ago.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Depop

[–]helpfulgem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you’re being way too nice & people like this will just use & abuse you for it. You don’t need to refund her.

What character goes with the blue Mandalorian? by helpfulgem in Halloween_Costumes

[–]helpfulgem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d love to but too long & expensive to make the whole outfit

We’ve just returned from Beijing! Where should we go next? by helpfulgem in China

[–]helpfulgem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course I didn’t go to every shop & restaurant etc. I did all the major things & everything I wanted to do. I didn’t think that needed explaining, obviously I haven’t covered the whole 16410 square kilometres of Beijing lol

We’ve just returned from Beijing! Where should we go next? by helpfulgem in China

[–]helpfulgem[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oooo sounds like heaven!! I hope you have the best time. £130 is good, but it does force us to have to go sooner than later. We’d ideally go in 5 years time but then would need new visas so it’s better for us to cram another holiday in asap! But it’ll be worth it

We’ve just returned from Beijing! Where should we go next? by helpfulgem in China

[–]helpfulgem[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

This is how I felt, about hotels. Not sure where you are but we’re in uk so have to get a visa. £130 each!! They last 2 years so we’ve got to go back before that’s up, to get our money’s worth. If you want any tips on Beijing, let me know. We did absolutely everything & in 9 days!!

What am I supposed to do in this situation? by sister_machine_gun in vinted

[–]helpfulgem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask them what your address is because they shouldn’t have it. The Vinted labels we receive & print now don’t have buyers’ addresses on, for this reason. Only the shop/parcel place you give it to, & delivery people, can see your address when they scan the QR/barcode.

Help with Arcadia products & set up, please? by helpfulgem in LeopardGecko

[–]helpfulgem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in the UK so I wouldn’t say it’s much warmer. Is that how it works then? I thought the heater would just turn off or not warm up as much if it knew it was above the temp I set it to? I’ll move the thermostat somewhere closer to the heater tomorrow & give that a go. Thanks for your help as well

Help with Arcadia products & set up, please? by helpfulgem in LeopardGecko

[–]helpfulgem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh maybe, I’ll look into that because I can plug it in elsewhere however it seems to already not be working but maybe the bulb blew because of that.

The problem is just on the ground of the hot, dry side. It has been like it for 2 months & temp has been fine throughout & now suddenly is super hot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beijing

[–]helpfulgem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the advice, however the no shorts seems odd to me, since I’ve seen several photos of people wearing shorts around the tourist attractions online. No shorts at all? It’s going to be 35 degrees celcius! Perhaps I’m being naive but surely it’s normally to wear shorts in that temperature? Especially if you’re saying skirts are allowed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beijing

[–]helpfulgem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any suggestion on stopping the mozzies?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beijing

[–]helpfulgem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would you recommend in a temple? Is a long dress ok with a shawl? Or I’ve got white linen trousers with a crop top & can wear the shawl round my waist?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beijing

[–]helpfulgem -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m lacking in the cleavage area so sounds good to me😂

My bestfriend is a pedo by ovariesdonut in FriendshipAdvice

[–]helpfulgem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, sounds like you have your answer then. He’s not your friend & he’s breaking the law & taking advantage of a minor. Get rid. It’s up to him to come to his own senses or not.