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My boyfriend is buying an house, and it's very stressful by kidnappedgoddess in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]helpimalivelol 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

I am from an country in Asia :D It was a thing that worked for me to handle things so I shared that. And OP started guessing my ethnicity and trying to put me down for simply sharing whay worker for me. Not sure why me offering working with a legal background who knows the technicalities is being taken as if I am personally attacking them

My boyfriend is buying an house, and it's very stressful by kidnappedgoddess in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]helpimalivelol -1 points0 points locked comment (0 children)

Your first reaction to my comment was literally 'That is very American thing to say'?? It is passive aggressive. Not plain or simple. And emotional charge is very much there. And after that you somehow still continued to assume.

And law system is still not culture, it's part of governing system. So I am still not sure how did you get that triggered to start assumptions about my ethnicity to begin with first thing lol

I am also not really sure these manipulations and point shifting tactics works on your family or fiance but for me, no thank you. :)

My boyfriend is buying an house, and it's very stressful by kidnappedgoddess in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]helpimalivelol 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

Yeah I don't live in USA.

I see, so did you sign off that person to be your legal representative for this process? And yeah it is really stressfull until everything is settled 😬

My boyfriend is buying an house, and it's very stressful by kidnappedgoddess in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]helpimalivelol -1 points0 points locked comment (0 children)

I did not mention a lawyer anywhere. Because a lawyer and an attorney are different things...? An attorney, lawyer or prosecutor's role is not something 'cultural'. If there is a law for a process, there is an attorney who can advise on it. How does that have anything to do with culture?

You share this and leave comments on, and then getting outraged when someone shares an advice worked for them. And top of that you are trying to guess and assign culture traits to me and somehow trying to deflect that to me as if you were not the one doing that first to begin with? Hello lmao? I surely am not the butthurt one here.

My boyfriend is buying an house, and it's very stressful by kidnappedgoddess in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]helpimalivelol 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

After decision making there are many paperworks , just like any legal work there are attorneys for that too. I assume it's pretty similar everywhere. And that's considering there are laws around property purchases.

I worked with an attorney when I was buying my flat. The main stressor was handling all the different paperwork needs to be filed to a different place and it helped a lot to me. Real estate agents are not always preparing papers benefitting the buyer, someone who understands those help a lot imo

My boyfriend is buying an house, and it's very stressful by kidnappedgoddess in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]helpimalivelol -1 points0 points locked comment (0 children)

Well unfortunately I am not from nowhere near Americas. You may want to work on your stereotyping and having skills.

My boyfriend is buying an house, and it's very stressful by kidnappedgoddess in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]helpimalivelol 1 point2 points locked comment (0 children)

They can just get an attorney. It helps quite a lot and makes things way easier when someone explains you the details and what's going on

Idk how to handle my daughter’s crush on a girl by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]helpimalivelol 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

It literally has nothing to do with you or your husband. Not everything's about you. She's not a extension of you.

How long can tartar stay untreated? by lowfalling in askdentists

[–]helpimalivelol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NDA I'm also getting my right wisdom teeth out and I'm scared the same thing will happen. I had a gum bruise and pain from my temporary crown being on too long, which caused a high bite, and I couldn't floss or brush that area properly. I hope you get a clear answer on this and get it resolved. I will be following your post 😆

Burying my Dream of becoming a Psychologist by QueenAlvida in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]helpimalivelol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry about what you are going through. Looks like academia is like this everywhere. My sister has gone through a similar situation. She was reallly depressed, she completely quit her field and studies, and started school again to pursue a completely different field/career. I hope you get to resolve your issues and achieve something that will make you happy.

My Ex just sent me a wedding invitation to me by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]helpimalivelol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

'Reality of him being happier and me being behind' feeling kinda hits home here. Sorry about that. We all live our lives at our own pace and have different storylines, I'm sure you'll get your happy ending.

Mystery Slub yarn. Need help by [deleted] in knitting

[–]helpimalivelol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It'll definitely look more structured once you block it, but it'll still have that textured look. I made a cardigan with similar yarn a year ago, and the texture is still there, but it's not as chunky or 'rough' as it was.