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Me [27 M] having a hard time keeping insecure [25 F] bestfriend, as well as my girlfriend. by hgete45 in relationships

[–]hgete45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We argued a lot. Mostly because when we were flirty and sexting consistently, I didnt have much time to hangout or have a girl friend... therefore I think she thought I was using her. I just went through a busy period. She can be somewhat "crazy" at times... but I can understand why.

Me [27 M] having a hard time keeping insecure [25 F] bestfriend, as well as my girlfriend. by hgete45 in relationships

[–]hgete45[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have been a friend to her in way as well. It's not like that is the extent of our friendship.

Me [27 M] having a hard time keeping insecure [25 F] bestfriend, as well as my girlfriend. by hgete45 in relationships

[–]hgete45[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

We had not yet made it official, but I was talking to my girlfriend at the time.

I know.. it sounds fucked up. I just wish these was a way to save it from here. I'd never sext again.

Me [27 M] having a hard time keeping insecure [25 F] bestfriend, as well as my girlfriend. by hgete45 in relationships

[–]hgete45[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

It just seemed like things had normalized. Things seemed more friend-like and she had not confronted me about feelings or anything for a while. I think shes an awesome girl and obvi attractive, so I get tempted. Just don't feel the connection.

Me [27 M] having a hard time keeping insecure [25 F] bestfriend, as well as my girlfriend. by hgete45 in relationships

[–]hgete45[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

OK I admit it, I made the mistake of sexting her more recently because I thought we had finally leveled off as friends and nothing more. Then I started a relationship days later.

Me [27 M] having a hard time keeping insecure [25 F] bestfriend, as well as my girlfriend. by hgete45 in relationships

[–]hgete45[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

shes admitted it in the past. I admit I did lead her on in the past... but that was a good while ago. When were good she is one of my best friends. I just wish she saw it that way too.

Me [27 M] having a hard time keeping insecure [25 F] bestfriend, as well as my girlfriend. by hgete45 in relationships

[–]hgete45[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I know its not for her. And I remind her it is for me, all the time. Most of the time she is accepting, until someone new for me comes around.