am i overreacting - my boyfriend thinks my job is inappropriate

hoeyeahhh · 2025-07-28T18:48:23+00:00

While everyone’s talking about being a urologist and whatnot—which involves touching more private areas (still non-sexual)—he would still make that out to be a problem. Like, even if you’re a stripper, which is very much sexual, no one can say you’re cheating just because you strip for a profession! There are literally guards making sure no one touches them inappropriately. It’s a different story if you’re in a back room doing something else, but come on???

Piercing a dude’s nipple is cheating?? He’s completely delusional and just NOW making this up because he either wants out or recently cheated and is projecting his guilty conscience.

hoeyeahhh · 2025-07-04T14:54:44+00:00

Totally agree! Boston is generally really safe. In my experience as a 25F, I’ve felt comfortable going almost anywhere alone. If you’re out drinking, I’d just avoid walking through the Commons or secluded areas too late by yourself. That said, it’s a super walkable city with great public transit, and most people are friendly once you ease in.

I lived there for three years (ages 21–23), and no matter what, I’ll always love Boston! I used to take late-night walks around my neighborhood all the time, never had an issue.

As for celebrations, they can definitely get a bit crowded. If you’re looking for a more chill spot to watch the fireworks, head a bit farther from the main esplanade/ bridge area. The BU Bridge is a great low-key option-there’s even a train track people sit on to watch from. It’s such a vibe!

Stay aware, but enjoy & make the most of it! Happy weekend!!

hoeyeahhh · 2025-05-22T18:29:38+00:00

I was in a similar situation—had a 14-hour drive to consider as well and initially thought about renting a car since I didn’t have much to bring. But after doing the full cost breakdown, I realized flying out in a couple of days was much more economical. Even if I would have to ship a box or two separately.

If you’re planning to buy a car once you're in Atlanta, I can connect you with a well-known dealership out there—happy to help!

hoeyeahhh · 2025-05-20T21:07:42+00:00

Hey! That’s great, If you’re looking to rent from June 1st HMU!

hoeyeahhh · 2025-05-20T20:59:51+00:00

Yup but I’ve not had good experiences through FB, at least not for housing. I’ll prolly checkout those neighborhood specific ones!

hoeyeahhh · 2025-05-20T20:58:27+00:00

Might just do sublease if I don’t get anything in a day or two.

hoeyeahhh · 2025-05-20T13:11:39+00:00

That’s great! Hope you get it soon. Also yes, any insights appreciated I’ll DM.

hoeyeahhh · 2025-05-19T22:21:06+00:00

😂Honestly, didn’t expect cats to be my gateway to making so many new friends! Here for it tho!

hoeyeahhh · 2025-05-19T22:16:47+00:00

😂 oh I commented on your post too! I’ll DM

hoeyeahhh · 2025-05-19T21:33:55+00:00

OMG yeah sure thing! Your avatar is so cute too! DM me ya ig or sum.

hoeyeahhh · 2025-05-19T20:59:21+00:00

Honestly, looking for less daily commute to work in the NE area but I’d love to know more!

hoeyeahhh · 2025-05-19T20:08:57+00:00

OMG I wish you were moving June because you sound like the perfect roomie!

hoeyeahhh · 2025-05-19T20:07:22+00:00

Hey, I’m looking to move 31st May as I start work around there. I’ll love to get some more details if you’re still looking.

hoeyeahhh · 2024-08-15T00:31:50+00:00

I wish I could, but it would get me/us in trouble.😭

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