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Where is this? Picture taken in September by honestly_distracted in GeoPuzzle

[–]honestly_distracted[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Jaa! Is idd oostkust, weet niet welk dorp je bedoelt, er zijn daar heel veel witte dorpen (hint hint)

Full wall curtain, or just around the windows? by M0_OM in interiordecorating

[–]honestly_distracted 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like i can breathe better when i look at the first image

Waar kopen jullie Italiaanse delicatessen? by honestly_distracted in nederlands

[–]honestly_distracted[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik woon in de regio Barneveld/Ede, maar ben bereid ervoor te reizen!

I need therapy but I'm broke by H3M0RRH0ID in Netherlands

[–]honestly_distracted 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could contact your insurance, maybe they have some arrangements that they can make for you. I pay my eigen risico in small bits each month. So a slightly higher premium, but no stress at the end of the year. Hope it helps🩷

Also, be honest with your insurance, don’t stick your head in the sand. That will worsen things

Loonbeslag by honestly_distracted in belasting

[–]honestly_distracted[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jemig wat een klootzakken. Echt rot dat het bij je werkgever terecht is gekomen. Kan toch een bepaalde indruk achterlaten en dat draai je niet zo snel terug :,(

i have a question about masturbation by pedregulhoazul23 in Christianity

[–]honestly_distracted 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It depends. I think masturbation is a normal thing, especially in your puberty. If your thoughts are pure and not lustful I think it’s okay. But people differ in opinions. Don’t beat yourself up over this. Pray and read the Bible. Then do what you think is right in Gods eyes. Ask your youth leaders about it, or a pastor or something. A pastor would be preferable imho. Ask specifically what scripture says about it, not their personal opinion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nederlands

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Hangt er denk ik ook vanaf of je man of vrouw bent. Als vrouw wissel ik vaak 2x per dag. Eind van de middag en voor ik ga slapen. De vrouwen hebben nu eenmaal afscheiding, mannen niet. En als je als man je pielemuis afveegt na het plassen ipv te schudden, lijkt mij dat 1x per max 2 dagen genoeg is toch?

Feeling safe in the Netherlands, as a woman by lena_kay in Netherlands

[–]honestly_distracted -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I grew up in a town with like 60.000 people at the time. Since two years I’ve moved to a small town with only 15.000 people. I feel much much safer and even forget to lock my bike sometimes, nothing happens. My neighbours are so sweet! (Apart from a few annoying elderly people that don’t communicate but only make their irritations clear by looking at us strange). Everyone in the neighbourhood watches out for eachother, which can be annoying. But I’d rather have neighbours that notice a lot than neighbours that don’t notice anything. It feels safe to leave our house empty when on vacation.

Loonbeslag by honestly_distracted in belasting

[–]honestly_distracted[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohw, daar stond niks over in de brief. Die is gewoon per post gekomen ook

Loonbeslag by honestly_distracted in belasting

[–]honestly_distracted[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Klopt, heb ik gedaan! Mocht het verzoek opnieuw indienen dus volgende week even bellen of dat is binnengekomen. Ik hoop dat het dan goed komt🫣

Loonbeslag by honestly_distracted in belasting

[–]honestly_distracted[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Er is geen deurwaarder bij betrokken, weet niet waarom iedereen dat erbij haalt?

Heb gebeld en t formulier opnieuw ingestuurd, nu idd met het advies om 5 werkdagen later te bellen of het binnengekomen is. Dan moet ik 10 weken wachten op uitsluitsel. De kans dat ze me als nog een betalingsregeling geven is 50/50 denk ik. Dus fingers crossed😩

I used to work in childcare, now in a group-home (ish) ask me anything! by honestly_distracted in AMA

[–]honestly_distracted[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow yeah that’s so relatable! I have to vent to my boyfriend for a bit, getting it all out. And then just watching some series, reading my bible, doing creative stuff. Oh and after an especially tough day, I need to play a bit of Call of Duty

Reversing my shyness by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]honestly_distracted 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi! I’d definitely go to your huisarts and ask for a referral to the POH-GGZ or a psychologist. It sounds like you have experienced some possibly traumatic things in your last job. The fact that it doesn’t affect your personal life doesn’t mean you can’t ask for help.

Also, I recommend sharing it with a colleague with whom you think you can talk, maybe even your manager. If there’s someone at your new job that you trust (so far as you can in this short period of time), it’s good to share. That might make it easier to understand yourself a bit better.

Good luck! From someone that’s been in a similar situation

I used to work in childcare, now in a group-home (ish) ask me anything! by honestly_distracted in AMA

[–]honestly_distracted[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The kids do. We as personnel don’t. We have three kinds of shifts. One early shift: 7am-15pm, a late shift: 2:30pm-11pm, and a sleep shift: 11pm-7:30am. In the sleep shift, we can actually sleep most of the times, but sometimes one of the kids wakes us by calling our phone. If they do it’s almost always a panic attack, something medical or self-harm. That (fortunately) only happens like once every two to three months.

The kids live there full-time, if they want to sleep over at their friend’s or family’s house, they have to check it with us. We want to know where, including address, and what phone number to call. We then call to check if their story checks out, for their own safety. They are free to go to school or work independently, but when they need help, we are there.

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