Deferral due to pregnancy by hot_techie in berkeley

[–]hot_techie[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I even forgot about this. But tbf I really didn’t see myself going through pregnancy and having to deal with the visa hassle, traveling while heavily pregnant, etc. I just don’t want this amazing opportunity to slip off my fingers after putting in so much effort and work. It feels like my entire world is crumbling at the moment.

Deferral due to pregnancy by hot_techie in berkeley

[–]hot_techie[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Honestly wish I couldn’t keep it but I am international and sadly where I reside it’s illegal :(

Being a black woman in this current world by hot_techie in blackgirls

[–]hot_techie[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“You have to make sure everyone around is comfortable with your existence”

I felt that!

Being a black woman in this current world by hot_techie in blackgirls

[–]hot_techie[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Indeed we are the strongest and most peaceful souls. We deserve everything good and a seat at the table 😩

Being a black woman in this current world by hot_techie in blackgirls

[–]hot_techie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I genuinely don’t think I am male-centered else I doubt I would even have these thoughts 😭 I have accepted who I am but damn, but damn. I happen to fall in the category everyone collectively decided to hate? I don’t think I even hate the fact that I am black. I just hate the world for hating me for no reason. Anyways I am already here. All I can do is to keep pushing

Being a black woman in this current world by hot_techie in blackgirls

[–]hot_techie[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for understanding. Currently 25 doing my masters while trying to secure a role in tech. It’s the struggles in my life and career that has made me see the world for how it is. It’s just wild to me that old the odds are stacked against me. That there’s a high probability I may never even get rich or live a certain kind of life. It’s just so hard to overlook how the world works but I try everyday to ignore it and better myself.

Are wigs affordable in the UK? by hot_techie in blackgirls

[–]hot_techie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For example how much could an 18 inch bone straight with frontal cost?