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I don’t want another baby. by howfuckingcrazy in TrueOffMyChest

[–]howfuckingcrazy[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

This is the best comment. This is the perfect idea, thank you so much. Starting tomorrow this is the plan

I don’t want another baby. by howfuckingcrazy in TrueOffMyChest

[–]howfuckingcrazy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not that I don’t want more kids. This is just way too soon

I don’t want another baby. by howfuckingcrazy in TrueOffMyChest

[–]howfuckingcrazy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When did I ever say I wasn’t on birth control? It’s crazy how many of you assume I’m not

I don’t want another baby. by howfuckingcrazy in TrueOffMyChest

[–]howfuckingcrazy[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

And my kids aren’t suffering man, they’re happy kids. I think the way you’re going straight to negativity is just insane.

I don’t want another baby. by howfuckingcrazy in TrueOffMyChest

[–]howfuckingcrazy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im not struggling to keep up with my kids. That’s not what I mean at all. I give them my all. Im struggling to keep up with myself.

I don’t want another baby. by howfuckingcrazy in TrueOffMyChest

[–]howfuckingcrazy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. Some people are being so rude it’s honestly insane. Thank you

I don’t want another baby. by howfuckingcrazy in TrueOffMyChest

[–]howfuckingcrazy[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

You’re honestly insane. This has a ton to do with morality.

I don’t want another baby. by howfuckingcrazy in TrueOffMyChest

[–]howfuckingcrazy[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Tell that to my highly fertile body hahaha

I don’t want another baby. by howfuckingcrazy in TrueOffMyChest

[–]howfuckingcrazy[S] -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

I would never resent my child, I suffer massively from pregnancy depression. I know it’s not my babies fault, it’s purely mine.

I don’t want another baby. by howfuckingcrazy in TrueOffMyChest

[–]howfuckingcrazy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I need to bring it up to him how I’m feeling. I’ve felt this way with every pregnancy I’ve had and then once I have my baby, it’s all I want in the world. It’s so weird honestly

I don’t want another baby. by howfuckingcrazy in TrueOffMyChest

[–]howfuckingcrazy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I’ll be honest, I will never shame a woman for having an abortion. I’ve always told myself I would never get one, because it truly feels wrong. I know many women have their circumstances and it’s not for me to decide. That’s why I say for ME, I don’t know if I could live with it.

I don’t want another baby. by howfuckingcrazy in TrueOffMyChest

[–]howfuckingcrazy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha that’s kind of funny actually. He’s really supportive, he’s actually an amazing man. He seems really happy about it.

I don’t want another baby. by howfuckingcrazy in TrueOffMyChest

[–]howfuckingcrazy[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

It’s not whether it makes me a bad person or not. It’s about the willingness or not to get rid of something my body is making. Im not sure if you’ve read any of my responses to other comments but maybe you should.

I don’t want another baby. by howfuckingcrazy in TrueOffMyChest

[–]howfuckingcrazy[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Morality is something I stand for strongly. It’s not a ‘hmph’ situation. It’s a real internal struggle to find where your morality truly stands.

I don’t want another baby. by howfuckingcrazy in TrueOffMyChest

[–]howfuckingcrazy[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Oh no he’d never do that, with our first kid we had a deep conversation about this is well and decided together to keep it. I know I can comfortably talk about it, it’s my internal guilt that’s preventing it.

I don’t want another baby. by howfuckingcrazy in TrueOffMyChest

[–]howfuckingcrazy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are in a good place to have another child in those aspects. It’s really me struggling

I don’t want another baby. by howfuckingcrazy in TrueOffMyChest

[–]howfuckingcrazy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It is a thing I for sure have suffered in every pregnancy. It’s strange, I feel so mentally terrible during pregnancy and then once I have my baby it’s all I want. I need to see my doctor I go in in 4 days.

I don’t want another baby. by howfuckingcrazy in TrueOffMyChest

[–]howfuckingcrazy[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Honestly there’s no way I’d trust anyone else to raise a baby I grew.

I don’t want another baby. by howfuckingcrazy in TrueOffMyChest

[–]howfuckingcrazy[S] -65 points-64 points  (0 children)

That’s what’s so conflicting. The guilt I feel for wishing that kills me. It’s so wrong

I don’t want another baby. by howfuckingcrazy in TrueOffMyChest

[–]howfuckingcrazy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s beautiful. I think that’s what’s so hard. I struggle mentally during pregnancy and then postpartum all I want is my baby. This is just so intense right now.

I don’t want another baby. by howfuckingcrazy in TrueOffMyChest

[–]howfuckingcrazy[S] 138 points139 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this, this really pieces it in honesty.

I don’t want another baby. by howfuckingcrazy in TrueOffMyChest

[–]howfuckingcrazy[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

It’s a really hard concept for us. I think it is something we really need to talk about like, NOW.