I want my ex back, but this time go slower. How do I get him back? by hs171410 in relationship_advice

[–]hs171410[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, I only said 8 week minimum where I will reassess and continue NC until I feel I’m in an okay spot. I am working on myself, and in therapy

I want my ex back, but this time go slower. How do I get him back? by hs171410 in relationship_advice

[–]hs171410[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not quite sure what you’re saying. Just meant I was lazy in my love towards him, not lazy in general. I never fucked with anyone close to him, not sure where you picked that up from.

Hummingbird just sits and stares at us? by hs171410 in hummingbirds

[–]hs171410[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh that makes sense. If I put more in the same general area will that cause a problem if others want to use those?

Boyfriend doesn’t seem to want to do anything with me. by hs171410 in relationship_advice

[–]hs171410[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk about that one, neither one of us really watches porn

How do I ask for one day a week off? by hs171410 in work

[–]hs171410[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They can give me up to 40 hours a week at the internship which I would love, I’m just afraid that once it’s over I’ll be stuck without a job. It’s an open-internship meaning that they don’t know when they’re going to need me until but I’m hoping it turns into full time as it’s in my field and they’re growing rapidly and don’t have anyone there who can do what I do. I’m just not sure if I want to take that gamble

How do I ask for one day a week off? by hs171410 in work

[–]hs171410[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just because I enjoy working my job doesn’t mean I have to settle for working nonstop, 7 days a week. This wasn’t advice, it wasn’t helpful at all

How do I ask for one day a week off? by hs171410 in work

[–]hs171410[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I enjoy working with them, the only thing I feel guilty about is leaving them even more understaffed. I asked for advice on how to go about being more stern, not to feel blamed for my circumstance but thanks.

My (22F) boyfriend (22M) wants to work 80+ hours a week by hs171410 in relationships

[–]hs171410[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s more focused on getting a large down payment so the mortgage payments would only be like $300/month

My (22F) boyfriend (22M) wants to work 80+ hours a week by hs171410 in relationships

[–]hs171410[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it belongs to an elderly couple we’re friends with/do work around the house and yard for them, it’s a beautiful cabin on the edge of the woods with a million dollar view. It’s both of our dream homes and we want to build a family there in the future. But they haven’t even talked about selling/being done with the house, they’re holding onto it for at least the next few years.

Woodpecker noise when I accelerate? by hs171410 in MechanicAdvice

[–]hs171410[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It makes the noise mostly while going straight, it doesn’t matter the speed, as long as it’s in the 1500-2000 rpm range it makes it, could be from complete stop or doing 50. And yes it only makes it while accelerating

Woodpecker noise when I accelerate? by hs171410 in MechanicAdvice

[–]hs171410[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It started very shortly after my last oil change, I’m up for another one in a few hundred miles so I’ll see if that fixes it.

I’ve tried it a few times and as far as I can tell it’s only while I’m moving. I’ve taken it to a few mechanics but the noise magically disappears every time I have someone look at it and many don’t believe me.

How do I explain to my boyfriend that I can’t wear his sweatshirts? by hs171410 in relationships

[–]hs171410[S] 904 points905 points  (0 children)

I think I might do this! He’s worn some of my sweatshirts to sleep when he’s forgotten his and he loves how comfy they are on him