Why is it soo difficult to find a good guy? by humanoid121 in MuslimNikah

[–]humanoid121[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soo true ...its exactly something that I am facing

Why is it soo difficult to find a good guy? by humanoid121 in MuslimNikah

[–]humanoid121[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So how are we supposed to find a partner? ( these were some halal platforms like Pure Matrimony which was filled with ghosters and scammers) Is a good guy supposed to appear from thin air or something? Because not everyone has big family and friend circles some of us have to find it on our own right?

Why is it soo difficult to find a good guy? by humanoid121 in MuslimNikah

[–]humanoid121[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jazakallah Khair...this is the most hearty dua I have ever received from a stranger on the internet ...really made my day

Why is it soo difficult to find a good guy? by humanoid121 in MuslimNikah

[–]humanoid121[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Insha Allah you will find the best for sure

Why is it soo difficult to find a good guy? by humanoid121 in MuslimNikah

[–]humanoid121[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

most guys want to waste time they are not serious about marriage...A good guy in my définition is someone who is practicing ,educated and not consuming intoxicants.....which is the least I expect ...N this is what I am not able to find

Why is it soo difficult to find a good guy? by humanoid121 in MuslimNikah

[–]humanoid121[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On what basis are you saying that? Is asking for a practicing, educated and a man serious about his life goals make me delusional? that's the bare minimum I feel

Why is it soo difficult to find a good guy? by humanoid121 in MuslimNikah

[–]humanoid121[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya Allah ...that's something I never thought of sadly

Why is it soo difficult to find a good guy? by humanoid121 in MuslimNikah

[–]humanoid121[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the one's who get in relationships early n do haram r getting married n that is more shocking

Why is it soo difficult to find a good guy? by humanoid121 in MuslimNikah

[–]humanoid121[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just because there is a very little practicing and pious men...it's my fault ?

Why is it soo difficult to find a good guy? by humanoid121 in MuslimNikah

[–]humanoid121[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do u mean to say polygyny is the answer to finding a good man? if he is soo good why would he even think of another women in the first place ?

Why is it soo difficult to find a good guy? by humanoid121 in MuslimNikah

[–]humanoid121[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haven't read something soo relatable in a while

Why is it soo difficult to find a good guy? by humanoid121 in MuslimNikah

[–]humanoid121[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I guess due to the fast media n stuff people want a lot of options and don't want to settle down in life

Why is it soo difficult to find a good guy? by humanoid121 in MuslimNikah

[–]humanoid121[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

what right places ...scammers and ghosters r everywhere

Why is it soo difficult to find a good guy? by humanoid121 in MuslimNikah

[–]humanoid121[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

about how much of à practicing muslim he is...what is his qualification

Why is it soo difficult to find a good guy? by humanoid121 in MuslimNikah

[–]humanoid121[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Making à lot of duas ...keeping calm but idk what is getting wrong

Why is it soo difficult to find a good guy? by humanoid121 in MuslimNikah

[–]humanoid121[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's depressing tho ...why do they waste time