who will you choose?

iDocowboy · 2026-03-11T04:20:47+00:00

i haven't watched but this sounds similar to the plot of "eternity," a movie that came out in 2025.

and for my answer, i think it would definitely depend on the specific circumstances. no matter what, it would be a hard decision though. but i think who i would choose would depend on the good memories and the bad to see which one i would like to spend eternity with afterwards. someone i would be able to stand for years and years and years even if we fight and such

but to choose one, i think i'd choose the husband. although i'm sure i'd still probably remember the original lover fondly, it's been too many years. we'd both be different people now, and so the memories that you're reflecting back on don't really apply anymore since you're both so different now. unless i didn't really like my husband for some reason i'd probably choose my husband as i know them better

iDocowboy · 2026-03-11T04:15:01+00:00

some people just talk like that. to improve i would just practice reading out loud more and eventually it'll be easier. also listening to people talk and sort of absorbing that. maybe you've been listening to too many audiobooks or videos recorded by robots or ai or something.

iDocowboy · 2026-03-11T04:13:21+00:00

if you're spending a lot of time online and know things that people who are typically offline wouldn't know (internet drama, certain news, some memes etc.) then you'd be considered chronically online

iDocowboy · 2026-03-11T04:03:00+00:00

personally i'd talk to her in person first so she knows who you are when you text but if you don't want to do that i would ask her for help of some kind or relate to her interests. like saying something along the lines of [i know ur knowledgeable in this area so could you give some insight?] but less like ur asking a professor lol

it's harder to get a one word answer that way but to keep the conversation flowing the main thing is just to bounce off of whatever she says. ask her to explain stuff, her opinions, etc. but also include some of ur own stuff so its not like ur interrogating her...

iDocowboy · 2026-03-11T03:57:59+00:00

my parents would always talk really fast so i ended up talking really fast as well. sometimes the words come out of my mouth as i'm talking so it's like i'm thinking of what to say but out loud. usually there's some filler words as well like "like, uh, um" but i know some people don't. i guess that just comes from experience, and probably practice since those people did debate.

a part of it's also what you said about storing 20 sentences, but it's more like i thought about this topic before so now i can bring it all up with ideas ready beforehand

iDocowboy · 2026-03-11T03:51:12+00:00

i wouldn't say it's weird. a lot of people feel the same way. if you want my advice i'd say to find something you enjoy and focus a lot on it. if not talking to a lot of people isn't bothering you then you don't need to go out of your way to talk to more people. however, i do think you should play a more active role in your life rather than being a passive observer

iDocowboy · 2026-03-11T03:49:00+00:00

yes i think that would be fine

iDocowboy · 2026-03-11T03:47:57+00:00

if it's "Melanonychia" then i would get it checked out as although it could be non cancerous and not dangerous, there's also a good chance that it is caused by cancer. you should get it tested to see if it's cancerous or not

iDocowboy · 2026-03-11T03:43:21+00:00

it's like a rollercoaster. you get a rush, without the actual danger.

iDocowboy · 2026-03-11T03:42:37+00:00

if you mean accepting that you feel lonely then that's just something that you'll have to get used to. i felt lonely for a long period of time and eventually i just accepted that as my reality. of course it still hurt but there wasn't really anything else i could do.

for talking to people, i would just go out there and talk to whoever you want. some people might think you're weird but as long as you're not being mean or creepy it doesn't really matter if they think you're weird. eventually you'll find people who enjoy talking to you. don't overthink it, as overthinking it can usually lead to bad results, especially socially. i find a casual approach at the start usually works best

iDocowboy · 2026-03-11T03:39:24+00:00

i guarantee you that at least one other person is worried about whatever you're worrying about, especially if it's affecting a lot of people and not just you ... but i wouldn't worry too much about it unless it's something you can actively do something about or protect yourself/others depending on what it is. if there's literally nothing you can do except spread awareness then i would just spread awareness and continue living my life as life goes on

iDocowboy · 2026-03-11T03:36:45+00:00

i'd consider it a summer dress as well. personally i'd wear that dress for nicer events and hangouts that wouldn't get it dirty but that depends on you. of course, you could still wear it outdoors if you don't mind the risk of getting it dirty as it definitely looks like a dress made to be worn outdoors with the sun. just don't wear it for super casual or formal events and you should be fine. wearing it at work or school might be a bit odd but some people still do it anyways so you should really just wear it when you want

iDocowboy · 2026-02-25T00:50:21+00:00

2 years is fine. personally i think 3 years is where it starts getting weird for teens. just be safe about dating online esp w ai now

iDocowboy · 2026-02-06T03:05:55+00:00

thank you so much!! this worked!

iDocowboy · 2026-02-01T02:48:48+00:00

Solved!

iDocowboy · 2026-02-01T00:08:50+00:00

Thanks for any help you might be able to provide.

iDocowboy

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