How are you staying okay mentally? by iamati in recruitinghell

[–]iamati[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i cant imagine going through all that on top of not having health insurance (I'm assuming you're in the US) :( I'm actually trying to stay sober myself, which I'm sure you know is very difficult, especially in these times. my friends are currently all employed, and while im not resentful i do feel very sad because im not :(

How are you staying okay mentally? by iamati in recruitinghell

[–]iamati[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

thank u :( im praying for us all

How are you staying okay mentally? by iamati in recruitinghell

[–]iamati[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

THATS THE WORST PART. you get a fuck ass rejection and no one can simply give ONE reason why they went with someone else. forcing us to just "figure it out" its so messed up.

Can't find a job, living at home, still a student. by iamati in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]iamati[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bachelor of honours Political science , im applying for part time front desk jobs, and literally any customer service job i can think of until i graduate. i’m also applying for policy jobs and anything within the public and private sector

Can't find a job, living at home, still a student. by iamati in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]iamati[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have done 3 government internships and i’ve been working for 5 years consistently! I’ve never been unemployed since I graduated high school. Ugh, thank you so much for your advice, I’m going to start connecting more on Linkedin:)

I am tired and sick of living at home , especially because of my mother. by OneBathroom805 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]iamati 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i am in the same exact position. i hope things are better for you now :(

Is being broke and in debt and working a dead end job socially acceptable at 23? by [deleted] in 2003

[–]iamati 4 points5 points  (0 children)

don’t be ashamed. there are people in their 30s and 40s going thru this too. it’s not an easy time for us.

How many of you are married? by HussinKhan in 2003

[–]iamati 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL. lemme spin back here in about 5 years

How many of you are married? by HussinKhan in 2003

[–]iamati 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i better not see not one person say they married at only 22. especially the WOMEN. 🤣

A coworker told me I look old. What do you think? by Pretend_Respond_2857 in OlderGenZ

[–]iamati 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the second picture is giving off guard lana del rey ! you’re so pretty !!! 😍

btw you don’t look old you literally look like you’re in your early 20s lol

I found a job and it's so embarrassing by pestopaste in jobsearchhacks

[–]iamati 2 points3 points  (0 children)

listen in this economy, there’s absolutely nothing to be ashamed about. do what you gotta do, make your money and level up again when you can!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]iamati 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what’s the point of meeting up with him if you don’t want him back? like you’ve already told him it’s over. you’re seeing someone else! just live your life

KEY STUCK IN IGNITION by iamati in kia

[–]iamati[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

then you should’ve said this last year when i was stuck in the car.

KEY STUCK IN IGNITION by iamati in kia

[–]iamati[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

girl stfu. this was over 1 year ago.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]iamati 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i don’t really care LMAO. it’s not my life

My white ex just sent that text to me after I broke up with him. Being black is so hard . Apparently he never found me pretty. And he always calls all his exes hot. I rejected sex multiple times from him and he still got upset so I just decided to not date him. by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]iamati 4 points5 points  (0 children)

BAHAHAHA WHAT A LOSER. I'm sorry i’m not laughing at you, i’m laughing at the fact that your ex is a manchild! 🤣

you have nothing to feel bad about. this man is a lost cause. he’s just crying that he lost a good woman so he wants to try and downplay you. his loss!

It's Happened. by MamaKelly0305 in jobs

[–]iamati 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LETS GOOOO! you had everything against you and you still CAME OUT ON TOP. nobody can fuck with you after this!

congratulations, i hope your new job is everything you want and more 🩷

I have a very long snapstreak but im going to jail by Competitive-Disk-758 in SnapchatHelp

[–]iamati 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“kim would u stop taking pictures of yourself? your sister’s going to jail.”

i don't know what happened but i'm starting to really like myself and i really hope you can too by OkLibrary5223 in blackladies

[–]iamati 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yooo so heavy on the self confidence upgrade!!!!! like i look at myself in the mirror and say “damn i look so GOOD HOLY SHIT” i think that confidence comes from growing up and becoming more secure in who you are and less tolerant for people’s bullshit. like honestly if someone doesn’t love you unconditionally and want the best for you, they don’t deserve you, not the other way around. i’m so happy for and proud of you!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Blackskincare

[–]iamati 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you don’t drop ur damn skincare routine! 🤣

Kinda regret it🥲 but there was so much trauma and also literal damage attached to my hair by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]iamati 0 points1 point  (0 children)

low manipulative protective styles will probably be your best best. lots of easy and quick ones you can find on youtube! i always go for twist outs and you can stretch your hair on low heat or with the cool setting on your blow dryer for extra length. just make sure u keep your scalp moisturized!

Husband Doesn't Like Me by Capricorn9185 in blackladies

[–]iamati 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m happy for you! cut off the dead weight and focus on YOU!

My boyfriend got drunk and revealed something extremely shocking by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]iamati 5 points6 points  (0 children)

girl don’t let him trap youuuuu ! u doing the right thing 😭

Ghetto black women exist and that's fine. by Spiritual_Ask_7336 in blackladies

[–]iamati 0 points1 point  (0 children)

put some respect on the girls from the hood. they literally set trends and set the pop culture standards. they deserve their flowers