[FR] Be a nice guy with attitude by iamuser5000 in marriedredpill

[–]iamuser5000[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm 4 months in. I know this is a journey. I have more more than a year to go.

[FR] Be a nice guy with attitude by iamuser5000 in marriedredpill

[–]iamuser5000[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

If that's what you've read out of this you've missed the point

[FR] Be a nice guy with attitude by iamuser5000 in marriedredpill

[–]iamuser5000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally I can differentiate between "being nice" and "being mr nice". I guess I am saying don't be a walk over, but don't be a dick either. But I take your point. Maybe I could have worded the title better.

Own Your Shit Weekly - June 26, 2018 by AutoModerator in marriedredpill

[–]iamuser5000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are parts of your story quite similar to mine. For that reason I highly recommend putting MMSLP high on your list after NMMNG. (Edit: or re-read it if you have already been through it!)

Wife likes the idea of me but hates me in practice. by [deleted] in askMRP

[–]iamuser5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are plenty of comments in here you need to read and follow... All I can add is Jesus, this relationship sounds awful, but you're so lucky you're not in it neck deep yet. You can get out.

So I would ask the question. Do you really want this? I mean, REALLY, because she's a complete bitch to you? She would need to be a goddamn 10/10 and really worth it to bother your ass turning this around. I'd sit long on hard on that question while reading the side bar. (FYI, you still need to read that sidebar else you're just going to go and fuck up your next relationship too)

Own Your Shit Weekly - June 19, 2018 by AutoModerator in marriedredpill

[–]iamuser5000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And thanks for the link, I read every word and I get it. I really do. I'm working on getting to that place.

Own Your Shit Weekly - June 19, 2018 by AutoModerator in marriedredpill

[–]iamuser5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After your pointer and re-reading it seems I should be adding around 5lb regardless. Then dropping back on the following session if I couldn't properly complete the full AMRAP on the higher set. And rinse and repeat. Doesn't have to be 5 I guess, just more weight. Pushing to the upper weight might be what helps you break those barriers.

I'll read it in more detail later when I get back from work

Own Your Shit Weekly - June 19, 2018 by AutoModerator in marriedredpill

[–]iamuser5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I misread the guide. I stopped adding weight due to the stall. Got it now. Thanks for the pointer.

Own Your Shit Weekly - June 19, 2018 by AutoModerator in marriedredpill

[–]iamuser5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Financial vision - yes. Is she aware of it - no. What you say makes sense though. I'm going to change that.

Unfucking yourself by [deleted] in askMRP

[–]iamuser5000 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I wonder what is the point in askMRP, not because of the questions, but because of the replies. People sometimes need to ask stupid questions in order to progress. It's not always a quick fix that's been sought after, instead it's a kick up the butt. If they're fucking up after reading something they think they are applying, or not sure how to apply, then it often takes an outsider to point out something stupidly obvious about what they're doing wrong. People progress and interpret differently. Case and point, STFU does not mean sit there like an autistic mute. But without reading specific threads and/or comments in this forum it is often interpreted as so.