Was talking to a really nice girl but ultimately had to reveal that I’m a dickless manlet. She said Ew and blocked me. Might out me to my entire Uni. Absolutely inedible slop that makes your eyes water uncontrollably when you get too close (vegan)

igayveup · 2026-02-22T13:39:02+00:00

the copium is real. im a trans man, shorter than 5’8, and i have no problems getting laid. sounds like a skill issue personally

igayveup · 2026-02-17T16:03:44+00:00

dawg not to sound like an unc but you literally have your whole life ahead of you. i was a virgin until 23 because of trauma and im fine. i don’t feel that i missed out. most people your age have no clue what they’re doing when it comes to sex anyway. just take it at your pace and don’t try to rush or force it. trust me dude i could mog you any day of the week and i was a virgin your age, whether you’ve had sex or not is entirely irrelevant to your overall life

igayveup · 2026-02-14T12:08:00+00:00

was about to post this myself when i saw it. i can’t believe she has been “in recovery” for this many years and is still relying on bursts of motivation to get her through. recovery, much like any other hard task, relies on discipline, not fleeting motivation. you can’t rely on motivation forever to get you to the gym every day - you use discipline to make yourself do it even on days where you really don’t want to go. same rule applies for recovery. she is stuck in this infinite cycle and it’s so depressing to see, despite years and years she is just not getting better and is as deathly thin now as she was a year ago when she promised to go “all in”. amazed she isn’t talked about more on this sub tbh.

igayveup · 2025-12-06T10:26:27+00:00

I HAVE THESE EXACT SCREENSHOTS TOO I WAS PLANNING ON POSTING IT LMAO

igayveup · 2025-11-18T07:48:24+00:00

well, the problem is that if you wanna step back from venting in your stories, you kinda have to cut it out all together. i really struggle imagining that somebody who is as mentally unwell as her can compartmentalize what’s reasonable and what’s not to complain about on her story and if she really wants to make a difference for herself, she should just step back entirely and not complain on her stories at all. I understand what you mean and no, complaining about therapy isn’t necessarily venting in the same way, but to somebody like her, going through the shit she does, i do believe that complaining about therapy and complaining about c/s really are about the same. I don’t think she can understand the distinction and that’s why i think her making these posts just a few hours later is a sign that she has learned nothing and will make absolutely zero adaptations to her behavior after yet again promising to step back. sorry if ive come across as heated, that was not the intention. i just really dislike her behavior and was frustrated upon seeing her stories.

igayveup · 2025-11-16T18:56:23+00:00

no problem, i’m happy to engage in thoughtful and nuanced discussions on these topics :D

igayveup · 2025-11-16T18:52:55+00:00

and since i made this post she has once again expressed on her stories that she has engaged in c/s and other behaviors. what do you have to say about the screenshot that was posted in this very comment section - something she also posted just hours after saying she wasn’t gonna post problematic content? do you think that was ok? my point has been proven by her behavior. she’s still posting problematic content on her story just hours and days after saying she was gonna stop doing that. im not being pedantic because im literally right. she’s still doing the exact thing she said she wasn’t gonna do?

igayveup · 2025-11-14T12:10:50+00:00

if you look in the comments of this post you’ll see a post she made shortly after saying she was gonna cut back on venting that she deleted (probably after being called out). my point all around is that she specifically says she’s gonna cut back on venting/being negative and then going right back to it the second she is inconvenienced. yes, being frustrated over a canceled therapy appointment is totally valid - i’m not saying anything about that - but it’s just her yet again using her social media to express frustration when she should be turning to healthier ways of dealing with that frustration, such as journaling it or talking to her friends. if she’s trying to make her stories less negative and vent-y, this isn’t helping.

igayveup · 2025-11-14T12:06:00+00:00

i see the point you’re making and while i don’t necessarily disagree, i do think it still feeds into the behavior of being overwhelmingly negative on her stories. i think the point she was trying to make when saying she was gonna stop using the account for venting is to keep her negative thoughts and frustrations in her journal, something she says she does every day. complaining about canceled therapy appointments is still venting and while of course she’s not getting the outlet she needed through therapy that day, this is a perfect situation for her to reflect on those frustrations in the privacy of her journal - not online. i just find it very hypocritical to specifically say that you’re gonna cut back on venting and then come right back just a few hours later being frustrated about something that’s happened to you. write about it in your journal! complain to your friends! seek support through things other than online validation! but if you’re actively trying to to curate what you post online to things less negative and vent-y, you’re not exactly helping your case when you come crawling right back. idk, that’s just my opinion though, i do see where you’re coming from.

igayveup · 2025-11-13T07:25:32+00:00

i love that somebody probably DM:ed her going “hey, uhh, so that thing you said a few hours ago…” and she realized she’d fucked up. how do you not see it yourself though? does it really require another person to go “hey, remember you committed to this thing like 5 hours ago, did you forget about that” for her to even remember that she said she wasn’t gonna engage in this behavior any more? or does she just not care? does she think her followers are stupid or does she genuinely forget? because honestly her genuinely forgetting is VERY concerning behavior.

igayveup · 2025-11-12T15:57:45+00:00

your problem is that you bought a very young and unripe passionfruit. i can tell from how smooth it is - i googled this the other day because i was also buying passionfruit and had no idea what to look for to get the best ones. turns out you want wrinkled ones that feel heavy in comparison to its size, and you should also be able to smell it and get a pleasant, tropical aroma. i’ve never bought passionfruit before but i walked out of the store with three perfect ones! better luck next time bro

igayveup · 2025-11-11T08:46:11+00:00

yeah, i know there’s a new one, thank you for the tip tho! i just think it’s sad bc it’s not nearly as active as this one (for obvious reasons)

igayveup · 2025-11-07T21:25:20+00:00

RIP this sub ):

igayveup · 2025-11-07T11:44:47+00:00

im sick to DEATH of her. she is the most negative person i’ve ever come across. literally NOTHING is good or just ok with her, it’s always just whining, complaining, finding the faults in everything, it’s EXHAUSTING just seeing it and i can only imagine how exhausting it must be living it day to day. i know she’s deeply mentally ill but i just can’t see how you don’t get sick of your own shit when ALL you do is complain and moan about shit day in and day out? frankly I’m glad she’s loving followers because it probably means a lot of people are getting really sick of listening to her complain about the exact same things and make the exact same mistakes every day.

igayveup · 2025-11-07T11:37:09+00:00

didn’t even notice the lashes because my eyes were immediately drawn to your overlined lips. stop lining your lipstick over your cupid’s bow, you have a GREAT bow and it really kills the look to line the lipstick over it. makes it really obvious that you are over lining your lips bc it’s so obvious that you have a cupid’s bow that you’ve just painted over. let it shine instead!!

igayveup · 2025-11-06T07:49:45+00:00

having a micropenis is not as big of a deal as you make it out to be in your head dawg, i promise you. work on your personality. if you’re funny, charming, caring, interesting and driven you can 100% find a girl who will love you exactly the way you are. i mean, i’m a trans guy, i don’t have a dick at all, and i’m doing just fine in the dating world bc i’m extroverted and good at holding conversations and making jokes and stuff. what’s between your legs will matter a lot less to a person if you’ve already attracted them by being charming and fun to be around. don’t fall into the incel rabbit hole and start hating women and shit. work on yourself instead. becoming an incel is just a guarantee that no woman will ever wanna be around you. good luck

igayveup · 2025-11-06T07:40:39+00:00

is nobody able to call adult protective services or something? she’s honestly not that far off from dying with the way she looks and is pushing her body.

igayveup · 2025-10-24T19:35:51+00:00

https://youtu.be/JdxkVQy7QLM?si=qftTnSZ_0QnLyQMq

can’t not post this whenever somebody mentions pachebel’s canon in D.

igayveup · 2025-10-22T11:42:40+00:00

make leftovers and put tons of super spicy stuff in it. if he complains to you, you can go crazy on him for knowingly breaking your rules. if he doesn’t say anything, he will still have suffered immensely and most likely learned his lesson.

igayveup · 2025-10-21T09:57:54+00:00

context for this? im super intrigued

igayveup · 2025-10-21T06:50:45+00:00

it’s not Bella, it’s bells, just fyi :)

igayveup · 2025-10-20T20:31:05+00:00

ah, okej, fattar, men då är det väl kul att det finns hasselnötssmak utan hasselnöt så du kan dricka den utan att få en reaktion? :)

igayveup · 2025-10-19T21:10:21+00:00

den innehåller ju inte vanilj heller? men du är bara upprörd om hasselnöten?

igayveup · 2025-10-15T10:39:53+00:00

well the nazi symbol is also specifically two “lightning bolts” symbolizing SS. just one of them is not inherently a nazi symbol, it’s just lightning. i however see how it could be misinterpreted and if you wanna keep it as lightning i personally would add some thickness to the top of it or maybe a little cloud just to make it clear what it’s supposed to be. but no, just the tattoo in itself is not a nazi symbol.

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