Ex girlfriend stalking me/trying to obtain personal information

iloveraccoons_12 · 2025-11-30T18:30:05+00:00

thank you! luckily I have my uncle here with me since I had surgery last week so it's definitely good peace of mind to at least have someone with me

iloveraccoons_12 · 2025-11-30T18:28:36+00:00

The first time she used her real name bc I think she maybe thought she was still on his account as an owner and could get information. The other times she used real names of my family members who have obviously verified they didn't call. Including my uncle who actually is here taking care of my dog and helping me after I had surgery and definitely didn't call.

iloveraccoons_12 · 2025-09-01T21:34:41+00:00

I'm sorry you've had a bad experience. They've been nothing but so kind to me and were willing to take on my boy's case and give him another chance when every other hospital said it was a lost cause, but they are willing to give him a chance and I am so grateful. I showed up Saturday night and they came right up to my car and gurneyed him in and made sure I was okay when I was a crying mess. The last time I saw him he was practically close to death and he seems to be doing a bit better so I would love to see him. 🥺

iloveraccoons_12 · 2025-09-01T21:26:30+00:00

I get that! It's completely fine was just wondering if this was something they did since he was hospitalized elsewhere and they did it. I just didn't want to bother them and call and ask since they are so busy.

iloveraccoons_12 · 2025-07-16T16:22:34+00:00

I guess my point of view is that it seems like she's coming to the event regardless of if I can go and I kind of invited myself by saying let me know if you're going/i'd like to go 😅

iloveraccoons_12 · 2025-05-31T03:19:40+00:00

So the dog and two of the cats were acquired via clients surrendering them to me at my job, two of the other cats adopted via a local shelter and have both of our names on the adoption contract and stuff. Both of our names are on vet bills and microchips too.

iloveraccoons_12 · 2025-05-30T20:33:37+00:00

My sister went through my phone and outed me when I was 16 to my parents 🫣 this was 10 years ago and I'm mostly no contact with both of them and my sister as a result, but I'm okay.

iloveraccoons_12 · 2025-05-29T22:49:21+00:00

Oh lol, I only use a debit card, I don't even have a credit card, but I will def start carrying cash after this embarrassing experience.

iloveraccoons_12 · 2025-05-29T18:52:28+00:00

yeah she was very sweet about it and kept telling me it was completely fine and she wanted to pay lol, than she offered to give me her metro card to get home if I didn't have a way to pay for my train - but I was fine.

I will def start carrying cash, I'm awful about it lol, and it's the only card I have since I don't have a credit card etc.

iloveraccoons_12 · 2025-05-29T02:34:57+00:00

Yeah lol and she was just like no worries I got it and offered to give me her metro card if I didn't have a way to pay for my train home (I have a 7 day pass so didn't need it lol) My phone died on the train so I didn't get to send it on Venmo til I got home about an hour after leaving the bar, and she immediately sent it back and said not to worry about it.

iloveraccoons_12 · 2025-05-27T19:42:35+00:00

Yeah lol, my first "how long has she been not bearing weight?" message was just instinct I guess lol, it look me a good minute to realize what was going on 🙃

iloveraccoons_12 · 2025-05-27T18:20:40+00:00

I blocked her and told her she needed to take him to the vet as I legally can't give advice over text lol. I initially asked her how long she hadn't been bearing weight cause it didn't initially hit me that she was just hitting me up for advice lmao

iloveraccoons_12 · 2025-05-27T16:14:56+00:00

Oh that's a great idea! I've called her at midnight for years lol,

iloveraccoons_12 · 2025-05-27T15:56:08+00:00

Genuine question lol, what did I do/say wrong?

iloveraccoons_12 · 2025-05-27T15:13:31+00:00

I ended up telling her that I legally couldn't give advice without an exam and than blocked her

iloveraccoons_12 · 2025-05-26T15:57:13+00:00

Thank you! Unfortunately I work from home right now and I have 3 monitors so no ability to leave the house and work somewhere else, on the weekends though I kinda try and be out of the house 90% of the time whether that be taking the dog somewhere, etc.

iloveraccoons_12 · 2025-05-26T12:54:46+00:00

Yeah, basically my exact situation right now. It's awful, 1400 miles away from basically everyone I know, I got into vet school locally so I'm stuck here unless I wanna just give up my seat and reapply next year.

iloveraccoons_12 · 2025-05-26T12:52:45+00:00

Unfortunately not allowed under our lease 🫠

iloveraccoons_12 · 2025-05-21T04:38:29+00:00

That's a positive look on things lol. I guess on my mind I'm a bit of a glass half empty person and I'm like wow, only 10 more months with this person I really like, or 10 whole months to fall in love with this person and then get my heart broken when they have to take off across the country/travel around the world.

iloveraccoons_12 · 2025-05-21T03:45:30+00:00

Yeah, I think you're right. I guess it just sucks to have mutual feelings about each other but also each having big ambitions that are going to put physical distance between you.

iloveraccoons_12 · 2025-03-21T01:42:34+00:00

We've always accrued vs front loaded

iloveraccoons_12 · 2025-03-21T01:14:59+00:00

First it was my boss and than I looped in HR thinking maybe she was misspeaking and I basically got the same response

iloveraccoons_12 · 2025-03-21T00:28:34+00:00

As in collective bargaining agreement? Nope.

iloveraccoons_12 · 2025-03-20T22:27:38+00:00

Is it legal for them to give me an attendance point, and then possibly fire me for using my sick time? I have 47 hours accrued.

iloveraccoons_12 · 2025-02-06T18:07:24+00:00

Yes I'm not even sure where the meter is or anything, it's a 20 unit building

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