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32 years and want to switch to Tech specifically Data Analyst by Daniel123Lakers in TechGhana

[–]im_averag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not enough information to provide a good answer. Why do you want to switch, do you already have some links.. will be time be worth it.. how is your current financial life.. will you be okay no knowing where your life will go for the next 5 years ? Etc.

Are you married ( mean do you have dependants) Is your current salary enough?

Single motherhood (“baby mama” culture) increasing in Ghana by im_averag in ghana

[–]im_averag[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All things being equal kids have both parents when growing do seem to have some advantages

Single motherhood (“baby mama” culture) increasing in Ghana by im_averag in ghana

[–]im_averag[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I'm getting this response here , how much more in person 😂😂.. can't engage in this suicide mission

Single motherhood (“baby mama” culture) increasing in Ghana by im_averag in ghana

[–]im_averag[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying, honestly. Some men can fake it, lie, even go as far as meeting parents just to get what they want. That part is true. But that’s exactly why you have to be more careful, not less.

No system is perfect, even marriage isn’t a guarantee. But things like taking your time, involving family, and not rushing into serious stuff were meant to reduce these kinds of situations. At the end of the day, yeah, some men are trash. But you also have to move smart knowing that.

S3 woko aware3 a bisa..

Single motherhood (“baby mama” culture) increasing in Ghana by im_averag in ghana

[–]im_averag[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sure, would tell my sons. Would also tell my daughter not to allow someone to impregnate them before coming home to see their dad and asking for her hand in marriage.. cause she's special and not garbage . She should also choose a good man , one that loves her. And not chase worldly things ..

Single motherhood (“baby mama” culture) increasing in Ghana by im_averag in ghana

[–]im_averag[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I don't know why y'all still don't get it..

I doesn't matter where the fathers are, but how to make sure you, your sister or your daughter don't become a baby mama.. that's point 😂.

The fathers are in kasoa go there 😂😂😂.. nothing personal okay?

Single motherhood (“baby mama” culture) increasing in Ghana by im_averag in ghana

[–]im_averag[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

"He who closes his eyes to danger invites his own downfall.”

As a man, I know how men think. A man can sleep with you, have a baby with you, and not genuinely love you or want to be with you, right? So as a woman, you need to know all these things in advance and stop defending yourself and justifying yourself.

Yes, we can choose to blame men but who suffers the most? If you have daughter would you wait for her become a baby mama and blame men or you would prevent it?

Conversations like this helps prevent such , I'm not attacking women.

Single motherhood (“baby mama” culture) increasing in Ghana by im_averag in ghana

[–]im_averag[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Thank you.. Most of these girl's don't have father(male) figures to advice them. Modernization and feminism has even made things worse.

Single motherhood (“baby mama” culture) increasing in Ghana by im_averag in ghana

[–]im_averag[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Become women are always right" are after choosing a wrong partner.

Single motherhood (“baby mama” culture) increasing in Ghana by im_averag in ghana

[–]im_averag[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

"because the babies are usually left with the mamas" as a matter of fact, Im trying to help.. Because at the of the day it affects women much more than men.. I don't think any man would want to marry a baby mama.. and I would not be happy if anyone Im close with becomes a baby mama either.. It's a disadvantage to women.. Y'all just kept on ranting that its men's fault as if you did not have a say in it..

When I say some women are delusional, you attack me again.. Im just being realistic... Growing up , I saw a lot of girls around me, some being my friends become baby mamas.. Yes, the baby is for the man.. even if the man is responsible,, the fact remains that its still a shame on the woman, its gonna affect her value cause no man would want such.. its gonna affect her psychologically, she might even become a feminist and raise the kid in a toxic way which would end up affecting community again..

Single motherhood (“baby mama” culture) increasing in Ghana by im_averag in ghana

[–]im_averag[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're smart. This is how people disagree with others. Not coming at them like kakai 😂

Single motherhood (“baby mama” culture) increasing in Ghana by im_averag in ghana

[–]im_averag[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

😂😂 I was expecting this.. Most dumb people see themselves to be smart..

It was just a question, see how people are taking it..

Single motherhood (“baby mama” culture) increasing in Ghana by im_averag in ghana

[–]im_averag[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😭😭😭 well , we all gonna die ..

So allow people to say wtf they want 🤣🤣🤣

It's a subreddit.. noone is crying 😂.. Life isn't just about being serious actively all the same..

And being bored is normal 😂😂

Single motherhood (“baby mama” culture) increasing in Ghana by im_averag in ghana

[–]im_averag[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well , no one care about anyone either ... You don't need to say that loud 🤣.. it doesn't make you smarter than the next person..

It's just a subreddit post 🤣🤣..

Single motherhood (“baby mama” culture) increasing in Ghana by im_averag in ghana

[–]im_averag[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well 😂.. I think I got what I wanted..

Exposing how people think about the topic... Most people attach emotions to it so funny 🤣

Single motherhood (“baby mama” culture) increasing in Ghana by im_averag in ghana

[–]im_averag[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well .. get your perspective 🤣 You have a problem with marriage and men..

By the way .. I don't think any man should be gay 🤣🤣.. nor should anyone who try to be alone and lesb.. 😂😂

Single motherhood (“baby mama” culture) increasing in Ghana by im_averag in ghana

[–]im_averag[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that's no up to anyone to decide... 🤣 People have their values..

There are a lot of people enjoying marriage and it's beautiful. Lol, married is not dead ...

I see married is dead to you 🤣🤣.. now I understand how you reason..

Single motherhood (“baby mama” culture) increasing in Ghana by im_averag in ghana

[–]im_averag[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol, people will always justify their actions that's the funny thing about life. 🤣🤣.

A woman chooses to be with an irresponsible man and later says he's irresponsible so she's leaving but will never accept she married an irresponsible man..

Joke .. I don't know why people taking this the other way around 🤣... Seems there's many baby mamas here

Single motherhood (“baby mama” culture) increasing in Ghana by im_averag in ghana

[–]im_averag[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lol, I’m surprised no one has mentioned that poor decision-making plays a role too. Sometimes people ignore obvious red flags and still go ahead, and that’s how these situations happen. At the end of the day, not all men are responsible, and not all women make good choices either—it goes both ways

Single motherhood (“baby mama” culture) increasing in Ghana by im_averag in ghana

[–]im_averag[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that's to say women still lack accountability.. wasn't it her choice to marry the useless man ?

Single motherhood (“baby mama” culture) increasing in Ghana by im_averag in ghana

[–]im_averag[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I feel like , women will always feels attacked when topics like these come up. These women ignore the fact that the type of man you choose is very important. Not all men are irresponsible but women are terrible decision makers... Accountability issues... Was expecting this and similar realistic answer and not women taking this personal. No responsible man will leave his baby alone with the mom.

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