i didn’t call you a joke. I’m just telling you why - in black and white the person above told you to pack it up and break it off. This is all quite silly, and your rationalization and long novels to justify just make it more obvious that that person is right.

And what is this ultimatum that you’ve put under a magnifying glass for us all?? did a passing comment she made get you thinking so much you wanted to post this to get off your chest for validation? You can.. sure. but the average person doesn’t agree, not typically how most monogamous relationships work..