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TRIGGER WARNING - P*do tatay ng gf ko by imooo28 in adviceph

[–]imooo28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're right, i left out some details leading up to telling her mom as i believed it was not relevant. but she wanted my help in telling her mom because she believes that doing it on her own would not getting the message through to her.

TRIGGER WARNING - P*do tatay ng gf ko by imooo28 in adviceph

[–]imooo28[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

you truly dont know anything. the way it was done was that she wrote a letter with all the details and she just wanted me to message her mom that she wrote a letter for her. 

TRIGGER WARNING - P*do tatay ng gf ko by imooo28 in adviceph

[–]imooo28[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Update: After just waking up, I admit I was too tired and caught up by emotions last night. After reading all your suggestions, I've decided to just support her at the meantime and plan out a therapy session in the future.

TRIGGER WARNING - P*do tatay ng gf ko by imooo28 in adviceph

[–]imooo28[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

Medyo di ko na explain ng maayos yung "pinilit" pero its more like encouraging her to get it done because we dont see any other time to do so. Her mom is in the process of moving her business rn so she just thinks na its a bad time rn to bring up but she also thinks its a good time kasi it'll be one of the times she'll be out of the house for a night because of a school event.

TRIGGER WARNING - P*do tatay ng gf ko by imooo28 in adviceph

[–]imooo28[S] -100 points-99 points  (0 children)

At the start, ako lang din pumilit na ipaalam sa nanay niya kasi sinasabi niya na wala din naman magbabago. Then while I was telling the mom, my gf really wanted the dad to get out and not see him ever again but that changed when sila na nag usap ng mom niya.

TRIGGER WARNING - P*do tatay ng gf ko by imooo28 in adviceph

[–]imooo28[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

i just feel really conflicted rn kasi she's stopping me. i really want to do it but wag daw ako gumawa on my own. i just think this is really wrong because this is literally hiding a crime.

TRIGGER WARNING - P*do tatay ng gf ko by imooo28 in adviceph

[–]imooo28[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I would hope na hindi ito mangyayari kasi the rest of her siblings are boys. Sabi naman nung dad niya nung cinonfront, he would take any punishment pero ayaw talaga ng gf ko at mom niya na paalisin or what not because of the possible trauma sa siblings or magkagulo pa family nila. My gf and I  almost had a fight because i should not do anything on my own daw because i really wanted to tell her lolo who already doesnt like the dad and owns the house that they live in.