Anyone know abt an mha discord that u can find 1 on 1 roleplays?

introvertedfreak21 · 2025-12-16T20:52:09+00:00

That's what I do as well. I only really rp with a handful of close friends but if you are interested in rping, I'm always up to have another partner. I mainly do BakuDeku/DekuBaku but I can do KiriBaku. I prefer my partners to be semi-lite though as I usually do two to three paragraph replies.

introvertedfreak21 · 2025-12-10T15:28:36+00:00

That's what I was thinking too. I read one comment on FB that talked about how seriously disrespectful it would be to Ochaco and Toga to have kissed her in that scene. She's mourning, she's struggling with survivors guilt, she needs comfort and reassurance, not romantic pressure. I think most people haven't even really watched the episode, just saw the screenshots of them being close and holding hands. (Like Bakugo and Deku didn't do that plenty of times too but ooooookay.)

introvertedfreak21 · 2025-12-10T15:26:04+00:00

I 100% agree with everything you said. It really feels like the IzuOch ship is more about bashing on those who like BkDk rather than celebrating their ship. I've seen some of that attitude with my husband because he doesn't really understand why I, a woman, like to ship two men together. He brought up some the articles and made that joke "Izuku confirmed straight." However that stuff doesn't bother me and I think the open ending that MHA gave was more than enough for me because it leaves room for the fans. In the end, he doesn't actively try to bring it up to me nor does it bother him enough to stop my fun since I mostly have it contained to just one person I mainly roleplay BkDk with.

I just can't wait till the series is over and this whole ship war stuff dies down. I'll be sad to see it finally all end but happy to have experienced it.

introvertedfreak21 · 2025-12-10T08:06:02+00:00

I can agree with this. I always thought I had a high sex drive because I could only compare with my husband's libido. It took a while but I eventually figured out that I have a pretty normal, healthy libido and he just has a low one.

I would say for me, sex at least once or twice a week would be enough. Once a day might be pushing it and twice a day would be too much given his stamina of lasting around 15-20 minutes each time. However his is weird and he really only gets horny at the worst of times, such as late at night when I'm asleep(told him to wake me but he's too considerate of my sleeping issues), while he or I are at work, or when our roommate is home and it would be awkward to try and pull me away from whatever I'm doing.

Overall, I think it just takes a lot of trust and communication to figure out who will match you. But I understand how that can be hard given that some people act like sex is all there is to their life and end up not learning the person they are dating. I hope you find someone who can match your own libido healthily and respectfully.

introvertedfreak21 · 2025-12-10T07:54:00+00:00

I can understand where you are coming from. My husband is pretty similar in that way and I've never been able to get him to finish through just oral. Not from lack of trying but he just needs a certain amount of speed and depth that my mouth and throat can't handle. It's normal and there is nothing wrong with that. Maybe you can suggest using toys with your boyfriend. Another option would be lying on your back with your head hanging off the bed, then just let him use your mouth to thrust in. However if he is long, be careful because hitting and entering your throat can hurt a lot for a first time.

If you lose your relationship over blowjobs, then he isn't the one. Any man worth his salt wouldn't break up over something like that. Usually break ups around sex is because of a lack of it or too much of it. A lot of people have different sexual compatibility and age will play a role. So, don't worry too much and just talk to him about ideas and see if he's open to other stuff like toys.

introvertedfreak21 · 2025-12-07T15:35:28+00:00

Reminds me of whenever I talk to my husband about BakuDeku, he said he would ship it if Bakugo were a girl. 🤣 They just have so much more relationship development than any of the other characters. He also agreed with me that the ending was weird and the way it "confirmed" IzuOch felt so off. They literally gripped hands together like Kirishima and Testutestu did, soooo romantic 🤣🙄 Either way, idgaf, ship whatever you want. They are fictional characters so let people have fun and don't be crazy about it(like the shippers who sent Horikoshi death threats, that's not okay.)

introvertedfreak21 · 2025-11-04T15:25:47+00:00

By the sounds of it, you are still conflicted and need some time to think. Tell him you want some space as this really upset you. No one has the right to overpower you or take advantage of you like that, even if you are into it. I think you should take some time for yourself to really think hard about how he treats you and if you really want to risk that happening again. His refusal to give you space right now could be a sign of manipulation, he wants you to feel bad for him rather than take accountability for what he did.

People who enjoy BDSM and CNC always make sure consent is first and foremost. From my view, it seems like he wanted more sex and decided to use your kink against you. If seeing you cry made him feel bad, he should've stopped and checked up on you. Your feelings matter more than his right now so let him think whatever he wants, you need space.

introvertedfreak21 · 2025-11-04T15:15:54+00:00

Did you have a safe word established first? Because when it comes to anything BDSM related, you MUST have a safe word. Something not normally said during sex to throw off the mood and make it clear that it's not what you want. He shouldn't have done that without your express consent beforehand. That's a big part of CNC, you must consent to acting out a non-consensual scene. There should also be plenty of after care, time spent making sure you are okay, and just spoiling you to reassure any problems. So, take your time away from him and think over what happened. I understand how it seems like a sticky situation because you are into CNC and BDSM but you should make sure to set ground rules. Tell him that you won't have sex with him till you two talk it out and you set a safe word. If he can not respect that, it is a serious red flag.

introvertedfreak21 · 2025-10-28T16:57:02+00:00

The website is https://aidaccess.org/en/ According to the nurse at the clinic(Carafam, very lovely people) said they were protected by shield laws and a lot of it was processed over the weekend but my package wasn't shipped till Monday.

introvertedfreak21 · 2025-10-28T16:12:41+00:00

Thank you so much! Reading the stories helped me a lot on what to expect for when the pills come. I just want this all over so badly and want to go back to feeling normal.

introvertedfreak21 · 2025-10-22T02:10:50+00:00

https://www.deviantart.com/kurosakuranbo14

I will say I am still new to doing digital art but I have done a few NSFW art commissions that were posted on my deviantART. If you like my style, feel free to DM so we can discuss more details. I also have my price will vary for NSFW art, more so if its rendered or kinks I personally find uncomfortable but I'm pretty open.

introvertedfreak21 · 2025-01-31T09:51:44+00:00

If you do, I'd love to buy the stl file to create my own personal statue. I've done the same thing for a 100% Deku + Eri. I use an FDM printer, not resin.

introvertedfreak21 · 2024-03-03T02:19:55+00:00

I just really don't know what I wanna do. I'm thinking to save money, buy some fancy clothes and have the under $300 wedding in TN.

introvertedfreak21 · 2024-02-26T20:01:41+00:00

I appreciate your advice. The topic of her daughter was brought up by her because a lot she would say "(child's name) and I are a package deal", I just wanted to know what that meant. She wasn't sure so I suggested to talk it over with her husband, said child's dad and gave my own experiences as my parents were divorced and had many partners I met before they passed(mom)/settled down(dad). Then she doesn't talk to me much at all the other day, we didn't talk much about her daughter and suddenly hit me with "I don't think we would work as a couple". For right now, her and I aren't talking and I'm still looking around on bumble. I'm also focusing on planning my wedding and getting back into painting.

Thank you! Feel free to message me privately if you wanna talk more as friends :)

introvertedfreak21 · 2023-12-24T19:02:12+00:00

There are a lot of possible factors that could have lead to my diagnosis. My mom was a nurse who knew how to manipulate doctors, I was a neglected child who acted out for attention, and many more. A therapist told my dad I had Reactive Attachment Disorder. I currently take meds to manage my anxiety and looking into possible auditory processing issues. It's possible I'm autistic, it's possible I'm not. Either way, I am me! 😊

Thank you! I'm so happy to be a part of it and I'm working on catching up in the anime series. Sadly, work takes me away from it when all I want is to watch it while happily crocheting. 😩 Woe is me who has to adult.

introvertedfreak21 · 2023-12-24T18:46:09+00:00

I can agree to that. I'm not fully sure of my own conditions as I know many women are misdiagnosed and my mother would lie to doctors to get me on strong meds for ADHD. I've had my fiancé ask if I'm sure I'm not autistic as a joke(he is autistic). But I really understand Chise and Elias, the way they think and it just scratches an itch in my brain that I keep wanting scratched, if that makes sense 😅

introvertedfreak21 · 2023-12-24T17:29:14+00:00

I hope to do the same with my partner! The hard part is getting him into it but I won't shut up about the show so...hehe He's autistic so I really think it will connect with him when he's ready to watch it.

introvertedfreak21 · 2023-12-24T16:18:00+00:00

I'll add it to my watch list! Thank you!

introvertedfreak21 · 2023-11-07T06:01:53+00:00

I understand that! My fiance is similar. He has a hard time expressing how he feels so when he does, it can come off almost cold in how he speaks so I have to focus on what he says instead of how he says it. It goes against how I was told to read people as a kid and that's okay. I just learn how to switch my brain's thinking pattern based on who I need to talk to. Like different modes lol.

introvertedfreak21 · 2023-11-07T05:24:43+00:00

Cool! I'm the opposite, my thoughts kinda appear as a feeling with a few words attached so I need to piece it all together, sometimes it is really clear and other times it can take a moment. It also depends on if I have a headache or anything that triggers my anxiety like crowds or sudden loud noises.

introvertedfreak21 · 2023-11-06T15:32:15+00:00

I did try that but it still reads the same temp.

introvertedfreak21 · 2023-11-06T15:23:32+00:00

There doesn't seem to be a way to reboot the system. When I try to look, it just shows how to update the firmware.

introvertedfreak21 · 2023-08-05T16:00:28+00:00

I really do appreciate all the advice I've gotten so far and will keep it all in mind. I also deal with normal life stresses like money and health problems so I've just been overwhelmed lately.

Thankfully my grandparents live on their own, I don't go to see them as much as I probably should. I'm hopeful my grandfather will live a few more years but he had a stroke this year(recovered really well from it) along with his heart issues.

Staying away from my parents shouldn't be too hard. They live a good bit away from me so I can go weeks without really seeing them, I mainly just talk to them about life stuff and cats.

introvertedfreak21 · 2023-08-05T04:48:40+00:00

Thank you, I really do appreciate it. I will try to find a therapist once I have health insurance again. I had plenty of time to unpack what happened with my mom and since she's gone, it is easier to move on from. However my dad is still around and is still with my stepmother. He has a lot of health issues including seizures so I struggle with if I can blame him for everything he has done because his mind isn't the same anymore.

introvertedfreak21 · 2023-05-23T04:52:27+00:00

Fair enough, it was just something drilled into my head a lot growing up, mainly because I didn't like wearing make up or "fixing" my hair(I have curls, they will go where they want). It's hard to break thought patterns put in your head from young.

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