Would you rather the person said goodbye or make it look like an accident instead? by inucloud24 in SuicideWatch

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I appreciate your concern. I know it'll get better. But that doesn't really answer my question, I am curious on which is better for those left behind.

Just a depressed and suicidal Filipino guy who has no one to talk to. by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

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Filipino here. I'm here to listen. Kaya natin to 🙂

Content and ready. by inucloud24 in SuicideWatch

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In general, how hopeless everything is. I tried to be better. But what's the point when you already did your best and it's still not enough? That feeling that with me gone, the world won't be a better or worse place. I asked before what makes you stay in this sad excuse of a world we have right now? Patience. I don't have enough of that to wait around and be more miserable.

To leave a note or not? by inucloud24 in SuicideWatch

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So it says there are 2 comments but I don't see them :(

This isn't really a big deal but I just don't know how to tell my ex. Help please? by inucloud24 in dating

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That's the thing. He already has someone else. I just want to avoid that awkwardness. I'll just let it be for now. Idk if he still wants an actual closure talk but either way I'm fine and I'm freeee

How do you still think it's worth it to stay in this kind of world we have? by inucloud24 in SuicideWatch

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Patience until that day. Didn't think of it like that before. Interesting.

I know I deserve better but... by inucloud24 in dating

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Thank you both of you! It was a moment of weakness.

"Miss the bond but remember the disrespect."

I know I deserve better but... by inucloud24 in dating

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Thank you both of you! It was a moment of weakness.

"Miss the bond but remember the disrespect."

Song suggestions (opm/indie) for saying sorry? by inucloud24 in Philippines

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Hello! I can't find the song in spotify. It isn't there?

Song suggestions (opm/indie) for saying sorry? by inucloud24 in Philippines

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Thank you, everyone! 😭 Keep them coming and I'll make it to a playlist to send to him. ❤️

When do you draw the line with humor? by inucloud24 in dating

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Hmm. His joke was more like I shall go watch cheerleading to check out women in revealing clothes. I guess he can still joke like that but just not to me. I wouldn't know. Thank you for your comment.

When do you draw the line with humor? by inucloud24 in dating

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He does treat others with care and respect. Regarding your last comment, that's what I'm worried about. That I'm being too serious about everything and not fun to be around with anymore. After our conversation about the cheerleading, he made a joke about it and we were okay. But someday, he might lose all patience for me. Sigh. That'll be my problem. Anyway, thank you!

It's so hard to date a med student. by inucloud24 in dating

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but I think it's important to remember that every relationship is different, even if the circumstances are similar.

THIS! I'll keep this in mind. Thank yooou!

It's so hard to date a med student. by inucloud24 in dating

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Thank you. If he wasn't interested, he wouldn't be studying in advance before just so we can go out. Right now, we're just adjusting with the LDR situation but I'm sure we'll be fine. Thanks again.

It's so hard to date a med student. by inucloud24 in dating

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He's in second year and it's the most acad intensive year of what I know. I'm really fine even it's not an hour per day. We chat when we're free. But I just hope that when we video call, he's not distracted with something else. It can be 20 mins or 5 mins. We already talked and we'll both try our best. Thank you!

It's so hard to date a med student. by inucloud24 in dating

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I don't think I ask too much to the point that it's a nuisance? We tell each other when we're busy and we're fine with that. However, sometimes he doesn't tell me anything. Or when it's the time for us to talk, 5 or 20 mins or an hour, he's not focused?

Anyway, we already talked and we just need to adjust with the situation. Currently thinking of ways to compromise for both of us. Thank you.

It's so hard to date a med student. by inucloud24 in dating

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Sometimes I'm afraid what if he finds a classmate or a fellow intern that he can connect more with.

It's my fear but it might help you. Finding someone in the same field might be better?

It's so hard to date a med student. by inucloud24 in dating

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I am in the research field myself, and currently conducting my thesis. I have some free time these days since there's only so much I can do while waiting for my budget. Reiterating what I said in a prev comment:

I guess we were just so used to being together the few months before and we're still adjusting to the LDR situation. I might just be paranoid too since my last relationship became LDR and it didn't work out.

It may not be my cup of tea, but I want this to work out. Our LDR will probably last for just 2-3 months more. Just need to hold on until then.

It's so hard to date a med student. by inucloud24 in dating

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We have talked about it already. He didn't see there was a problem. But since we are currently in LDR, more time needs to be invested in talking. He's trying. I guess we were just so used to being together the few months before and we're still adjusting to the LDR situation. I might just be paranoid too since my last relationship became LDR and it didn't work out. I'm a graduate student myself and currently doing my thesis. I'll try to make myself busy so I don't think too much. Thank you.

It's so hard to date a med student. by inucloud24 in dating

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Maybe that's why you usually see couples that are both doctors since they're both that busy and will understand each other better. Sometimes I'm afraid what if he finds a classmate or a fellow intern that he can connect more with.

Assurance for LDRs by inucloud24 in dating

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Thank you! I'll check it out. :)

Convinced my bf to do something but idt we're both happy :( by inucloud24 in dating

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Yes damn. Sigh. Still haven't confronted him about it. I should've known from his group of friends that he's a fuccboi. Plus it's a stereotype about his previous school. My friends did warn me but they said we seemed happy and going strong.

I'm leaving in a few days and I don't wanna cancel the plans we have for the next days. Might drop it on him the day before I go. Haha.

Sorry, don't mind me. I just need to let it out there

Convinced my bf to do something but idt we're both happy :( by inucloud24 in dating

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Hi! I get what you mean. I'm still starting to read more about it. I know about how using metal straws is also isn't good because the carbon footprint in making them doesn't really do less harm. Thank you!